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EarlG

(22,827 posts)
Tue Oct 8, 2024, 04:25 PM Oct 2024

It's my sad duty to report the passing of DU member nevergiveup

It has been brought to my attention that DU member nevergiveup has unfortunately passed away quite suddenly after a short battle with pancreatic cancer.

nevergiveup joined DU twenty years ago, in 2004, and while he was not the most prolific poster, it was reported to me that he considered DU to be his trusted safe space. I am told that he frequently and widely shared the content that you all bring to the site each day, and that the exposure to all the different stories was a joy to him.

He posted mostly in General Discussion, and his last post was on July 25, when he simply posted "Go Kamala!!!!" -- a sentiment shared by all of us.

My condolences to his family and friends during this difficult time.

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It's my sad duty to report the passing of DU member nevergiveup (Original Post) EarlG Oct 2024 OP
Rest in Power 💕 Oneironaut Oct 2024 #1
Condolences to his family & friends. Fuck cancer! Nevilledog Oct 2024 #2
Be at peace! Tree Lady Oct 2024 #3
Sorry to hear this. My condolences to his family. JohnSJ Oct 2024 #4
Cross gently, nevergivieup. Dennis Donovan Oct 2024 #5
My sincere condolences to his family, loved ones and friends. Quiet Em Oct 2024 #6
RIP XanaDUer2 Oct 2024 #7
... orange jar Oct 2024 #8
My sympathies to his family and friends. brer cat Oct 2024 #9
I come to DU for the same reasons I go to family reunions. Solly Mack Oct 2024 #10
So sad bdamomma Oct 2024 #11
RIP MissB Oct 2024 #12
nevergiveup StarryNite Oct 2024 #13
Good memories for all that knew him. LiberalFighter Oct 2024 #14
My condolences to nevergiveup's family riverbendviewgal Oct 2024 #15
Deep condolences. May the ones he left behind find comfort in their memories. ❤️ littlemissmartypants Oct 2024 #16
Rest in Peace. onecaliberal Oct 2024 #17
I'm so sorry to hear the sad news. Oopsie Daisy Oct 2024 #18
Pass gently nevergive up sdfernando Oct 2024 #19
. AwakeAtLast Oct 2024 #20
I am sorry to hear this. My condolences to his family and friends. May he be welcomed into the light of LoisB Oct 2024 #21
I'm glad he found a safe space here. badhair77 Oct 2024 #22
This has been a difficult season. Hold your loved ones near, DU. Maru Kitteh Oct 2024 #23
nevergiveup Clouds Passing Oct 2024 #24
Pancreatic cancer is terrible. Elessar Zappa Oct 2024 #25
Condolences to all. Basso8vb Oct 2024 #26
"A short battle with pancreatic cancer" bluescribbler Oct 2024 #27
We have lost a few this year DFW Oct 2024 #28
I am so sorry to hear this. My heartfelt condolences to his family and friends. jrthin Oct 2024 #29
RIP FemDemERA Oct 2024 #30
Too sad malaise Oct 2024 #31
❤️ underpants Oct 2024 #32
My deepest sympathies to nevergiveup's family. greatauntoftriplets Oct 2024 #33
So sorry to hear claudette Oct 2024 #34
Safe passage berniesandersmittens Oct 2024 #35
Oh dear! 2naSalit Oct 2024 #36
RIP to nevergiveup... Mike Nelson Oct 2024 #37
..... Laffy Kat Oct 2024 #38
Thank you for letting us know, EarlG. "Send not to know for whom the bell tolls..." TygrBright Oct 2024 #39
Rest in Peace, nevergiveup. sheshe2 Oct 2024 #40
Condolences to his family. no_hypocrisy Oct 2024 #41
I'm sending love out to family and friends. Hope22 Oct 2024 #42
Sad news indeed......may he have no pain now and only the best remembrances of DU, family and friends. a kennedy Oct 2024 #43
Beloved in our DU community, rest in peace, nevergiveup; comfort for his friends and family who grieve his passing. n/t Backseat Driver Oct 2024 #44
Onwards and upwards. byronius Oct 2024 #45
Rest in Peace Figarosmom Oct 2024 #46
"" AllaN01Bear Oct 2024 #47
. irisblue Oct 2024 #48
Peace to his family Bettie Oct 2024 #49
We will never give up . Permanut Oct 2024 #50
Condolences to all Mousetoescamper Oct 2024 #51
RiP and we will honor nevergiveup by never giving up. ms liberty Oct 2024 #52
RIP obnoxiousdrunk Oct 2024 #53
Condolences 70sEraVet Oct 2024 #54
Aw, damn. calimary Oct 2024 #55
Oh, I'm sorry to hear this sad news. Alliepoo Oct 2024 #56
My condolences PCIntern Oct 2024 #57
May this poster rest in peace LetMyPeopleVote Oct 2024 #58
My sincere sympathy to nevergiveup's family. skylucy Oct 2024 #59
RIP. bluestarone Oct 2024 #60
May his memory be a blessing EllieBC Oct 2024 #61
. DinahMoeHum Oct 2024 #62
I'm So Sorry for nevergiveup's Passing 🕯️🕊️💙.. Cha Oct 2024 #63
Sincere sympathy to all who loved him Danmel Oct 2024 #64
My deepest condolences to all who loved and cared for him Stinky The Clown Oct 2024 #65
May his memory be a blessing to all who knew him. nt Ilsa Oct 2024 #66
My sympathy to his family and friends. Dem2theMax Oct 2024 #67
... Aristus Oct 2024 #68
My sincere condolences to his loved ones. boston bean Oct 2024 #69
Aw gee...RIP Liberal In Texas Oct 2024 #70
... and the wheel turns. WheelWalker Oct 2024 #71
That is sad news. H2O Man Oct 2024 #72
Very sad to hear a fellow DU member has passed. riverbendviewgal Oct 2024 #73
TY for letting us know. 😢 n/t OneGrassRoot Oct 2024 #74
RIP Johnny Noshoes Oct 2024 #75
Damn it! Let's make sure we win this election in November True Dough Oct 2024 #76
Condolences orangecrush Oct 2024 #77
🪷Condolences to his family and friends Hekate Oct 2024 #78
Nevergiveup told us about his diagnosis in June malaise Oct 2024 #79
Oh I am so sad to hear this news, we will miss you. FM123 Oct 2024 #80
RIP debm55 Oct 2024 #81
Cross easy, nevergiveup. We've got this. nolabear Oct 2024 #82
Oh no. Such a good soul. mzmolly Oct 2024 #83
Fair winds and following seas. A HERETIC I AM Oct 2024 #84
RIP snacker Oct 2024 #85
Deepest sympathy. sinkingfeeling Oct 2024 #86
so sad Kali Oct 2024 #87
Hail The Traveler! Deep State Witch Oct 2024 #88
... Delphinus Oct 2024 #89
Man, this disease is rampant purr-rat beauty Oct 2024 #90
Sad news. My deepest condolences to his family. virgdem Oct 2024 #91
Deepest sympathies to those who loved him catrose Oct 2024 #92
Goodbye, dear one blogslug Oct 2024 #93
Thank you for letting us know. RIP friend. nt BootinUp Oct 2024 #94
Aww :( Hassin Bin Sober Oct 2024 #95
DU'ers were lucky nevergiveup added his voice and thoughts to others here for years. Judi Lynn Oct 2024 #96
Safe passage, nevergiveup. MontanaMama Oct 2024 #97
Rest in peace FHRRK Oct 2024 #98
Please pass on to them our sad mutual loss tavernier Oct 2024 #99
I'm sorry nevergiveup. Bluethroughu Oct 2024 #100
Thanks for letting us know. MerryBlooms Oct 2024 #101
RIP area51 Oct 2024 #102
Condolences to family and friend awesomerwb1 Oct 2024 #103
... Docreed2003 Oct 2024 #104
Sad news. Beacool Oct 2024 #105
deepest sympathy to all who loves him orleans Oct 2024 #106
20 years of loyalty. joshcryer Oct 2024 #107
Condolences to all who knew and loved him. Richard D Oct 2024 #108
RIP nevergiveup. Strength to your family & friends. electric_blue68 Oct 2024 #109
That is very sad news. pandr32 Oct 2024 #110
R.I.P...... Upthevibe Oct 2024 #111
RIP murielm99 Oct 2024 #112
Rest peacefully, friend. C Moon Oct 2024 #113
My condolences to his friends and family. oasis Oct 2024 #114
Rest in peace, nevergiveup. You will be missed. sueh Oct 2024 #115
K&R for nevergiveup! Tarheel_Dem Oct 2024 #116
Condolences to nevergiveup's family and friends Mr. Jinx Oct 2024 #117
Rest well, nevergiveup UpInArms Oct 2024 #118
RIP Nevergiveup. There are many, many of us here Greybnk48 Oct 2024 #119
RIP nevergiveup. Emile Oct 2024 #120
Sincere Condolences gademocrat7 Oct 2024 #121
Rest in Peace nevergiveup. I'm so happy that DU was a safe space for you! ratchiweenie Oct 2024 #122
my sympathies to his family and friends dawn5651 Oct 2024 #123
Condolences to family and friends Chautauquas Oct 2024 #124
My condolences to nevergiveup's friends and family Laurelin Oct 2024 #125
Sorry to hear this MustLoveBeagles Oct 2024 #126
My sympathy to the family and friends. Rest in livetohike Oct 2024 #127
Peace and condolences to his loved ones. Dulcinea Oct 2024 #128
RIP nevergiveup, Kamala will win! Shellback Squid Oct 2024 #129
Nicely said. A piece of us dies, and a piece of him lives on with us. Not giving up - ever. Festivito Oct 2024 #130
RIP... CaptainTruth Oct 2024 #131
I'm saddened but I appreciate that you were able to tell us and that DU had meant so much to him. hlthe2b Oct 2024 #132
Wishing peace to him and to his family. My lovelight his path. mahina Oct 2024 #133

Quiet Em

(1,790 posts)
6. My sincere condolences to his family, loved ones and friends.
Tue Oct 8, 2024, 04:31 PM
Oct 2024

My the memories bring you strength in your time of sorrow.

Solly Mack

(94,791 posts)
10. I come to DU for the same reasons I go to family reunions.
Tue Oct 8, 2024, 04:33 PM
Oct 2024

I love my family even if I don't always like them. (Yes, I'm aware I'm not easy to like)

Losing a DU member is like losing a family member because DU is a family - and it is a family because there are all kinds of families and people can choose to be family. They don't have to be related. They share other bonds besides blood and marriage.

My sincere and heartfelt sorrow for the loss of nevergiveup.

riverbendviewgal

(4,345 posts)
15. My condolences to nevergiveup's family
Tue Oct 8, 2024, 04:40 PM
Oct 2024

So sad he lost his battle with cancer. He will be missed on DU. He was one of us.

Oopsie Daisy

(5,602 posts)
18. I'm so sorry to hear the sad news.
Tue Oct 8, 2024, 04:43 PM
Oct 2024

I extend my condolences to his family and all who knew and loved him.

sdfernando

(5,663 posts)
19. Pass gently nevergive up
Tue Oct 8, 2024, 04:45 PM
Oct 2024

A friend of mine (very good voice) started learning/singing this song. The composer said was inspired by his mother's passing.

Drops of Jupiter (by Train)

Now that she's back in the atmosphere
With drops of Jupiter in her hair

She acts like summer and walks like rain
Reminds me that there's a time to change, hey
Since the return of her stay on the moon
She listens like spring and she talks like June, hey
Hey, hey, yeah

But tell me, did you sail across the sun?
Did you make it to the Milky Way to see the lights all faded
And that Heaven is overrated?
And tell me, did you fall for a shooting star?
One without a permanent scar, and did you miss me
While you were looking for yourself out there?

Now that she's back from that soul vacation
Tracing her way through the constellation, hey, mmm

She checks out Mozart while she does Tae-Bo
Reminds me that there's a room to grow, hey, yeah

Now that she's back in the atmosphere
I'm afraid that she might think of me as
Plain ol' Jane told a story about a man
Who was too afraid to fly, so he never did land

But tell me, did the wind sweep you off your feet?
Did you finally get the chance to dance along the light of day
And head back to the Milky Way?
And tell me, did Venus blow your mind?
Was it everything you wanted to find, and did you miss me
While you were looking for yourself out there?

Can you imagine no love, pride, deep-fried chicken
Your best friend always sticking up for you
Even when I know you're wrong?
Can you imagine no first dance, freeze-dried romance
Five hour phone conversation
The best soy latte that you ever had, and me?

But tell me, did the wind sweep you off your feet?
Did you finally get the chance to dance along the light of day
And head back toward the Milky Way?
And tell me, did you sail across the sun?
Did you make it to the Milky Way to see the lights all faded
And that Heaven is overrated?
And tell me, did you fall for a shooting star?
One without a permanent scar, and then you miss me
While you were looking for yourself?

LoisB

(10,144 posts)
21. I am sorry to hear this. My condolences to his family and friends. May he be welcomed into the light of
Tue Oct 8, 2024, 04:47 PM
Oct 2024

The Universe.

Maru Kitteh

(29,995 posts)
23. This has been a difficult season. Hold your loved ones near, DU.
Tue Oct 8, 2024, 04:50 PM
Oct 2024

May his loved ones and friends be comforted by the memories they hold.

Elessar Zappa

(16,326 posts)
25. Pancreatic cancer is terrible.
Tue Oct 8, 2024, 04:54 PM
Oct 2024

One of the few cancers that hasn’t had any real advances in treatment in the past twenty years. May nevergiveup rest in peace.

bluescribbler

(2,317 posts)
27. "A short battle with pancreatic cancer"
Tue Oct 8, 2024, 04:56 PM
Oct 2024

Battles with pancreatic cancer tend to be short, because by the time it is diagnosed, it is too far advanced to offer much hope.

RIP nevergiveup.

DFW

(57,756 posts)
28. We have lost a few this year
Tue Oct 8, 2024, 04:57 PM
Oct 2024

I'm sorry to hear about the loss of one with such a monicker. My dad died of pancreatic cancer, although his battle took 11 months.

I hope our ranks thin no further!

I can believe that he never DID give up. There are some battles where one just doesn't return victorious. It doesn't mean you didn't fight the good fight.

TygrBright

(21,105 posts)
39. Thank you for letting us know, EarlG. "Send not to know for whom the bell tolls..."
Tue Oct 8, 2024, 05:06 PM
Oct 2024

This is a community. Every member's death diminishes me, for I am involved in this community.

Nevergiveup encouraged me more than once with replies to some of my maunderings. May memories of his love and care provide consolation and blessings to all who knew him.

respectfully,
Bright

a kennedy

(33,284 posts)
43. Sad news indeed......may he have no pain now and only the best remembrances of DU, family and friends.
Tue Oct 8, 2024, 05:09 PM
Oct 2024

He is in a better place.

Backseat Driver

(4,671 posts)
44. Beloved in our DU community, rest in peace, nevergiveup; comfort for his friends and family who grieve his passing. n/t
Tue Oct 8, 2024, 05:14 PM
Oct 2024

Permanut

(6,967 posts)
50. We will never give up .
Tue Oct 8, 2024, 05:32 PM
Oct 2024

and in November we will hoist a to nevergiveup for 20 years of working to make this happen.

calimary

(85,883 posts)
55. Aw, damn.
Tue Oct 8, 2024, 05:41 PM
Oct 2024

Sorry to hear that he’s gone. THANK YOU, nevergiveup, especially for your screen name. Every time you posted, you reminded us to keep the faith.

Fly high, friend.

And thanks, EarlG, for letting us know.

Alliepoo

(2,685 posts)
56. Oh, I'm sorry to hear this sad news.
Tue Oct 8, 2024, 05:42 PM
Oct 2024

I always liked his DU name, nevergiveup. My condolences to his family and friends. Wishing them peace and comfort.

EllieBC

(3,445 posts)
61. May his memory be a blessing
Tue Oct 8, 2024, 05:55 PM
Oct 2024

and may his family and friends find strength and comfort in each other during this time.

Cha

(309,689 posts)
63. I'm So Sorry for nevergiveup's Passing 🕯️🕊️💙..
Tue Oct 8, 2024, 06:08 PM
Oct 2024

We Won’t! Mahalo 🕯️🕊️

Heartfelt Sympathies to their family and loved ones.

Dem2theMax

(10,647 posts)
67. My sympathy to his family and friends.
Tue Oct 8, 2024, 06:25 PM
Oct 2024

That DU is considered a trusted safe space is a wonderful testament to every poster here. May nevergiveup rest in power.

To a fellow member of the Class of 2004

True Dough

(22,712 posts)
76. Damn it! Let's make sure we win this election in November
Tue Oct 8, 2024, 07:14 PM
Oct 2024

in memory of Never Give Up and The Magistrate and all of the other wonderful DUers we've lost over the years (not to mention preserving democracy).

malaise

(283,039 posts)
79. Nevergiveup told us about his diagnosis in June
Tue Oct 8, 2024, 07:51 PM
Oct 2024
https://upload.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=19004461

Last Monday I had a regular chest x-ray
Reply to niyad (Original post)
Mon Jun 3, 2024, 02:12 AM
and they found a large mass on my pancreas. I am having a specific pancreas scan this Tuesday probably followed by a biopsy. My doctor was not very encouraging. I am still a little in shock. No one in my immediate family on either side has died from cancer other than my dad's older brother who died at the age of 97 from esophagus cancer. He did not smoke but was a welder all his life going back to WW 2 when he worked on Army tanks way before they had good welding masks.

mzmolly

(52,103 posts)
83. Oh no. Such a good soul.
Tue Oct 8, 2024, 08:05 PM
Oct 2024
RIP

We joined DU about the same time, and while Nevergiveup did not post often, he made an impression.

Condolences to his family.

purr-rat beauty

(690 posts)
90. Man, this disease is rampant
Tue Oct 8, 2024, 08:53 PM
Oct 2024

just diagnosed stage 3 squamous cell carcinoma pharyngeal

my wife
my friend Tracey - dead
My friend Mike - dead
discovery of another friend stage 4
a friend of a friend

my heart goes out to nevergiveup and everyone else living with this to survival or until the end

Judi Lynn

(163,271 posts)
96. DU'ers were lucky nevergiveup added his voice and thoughts to others here for years.
Tue Oct 8, 2024, 09:32 PM
Oct 2024

He will surely be missed.



Thank you.

MontanaMama

(24,373 posts)
97. Safe passage, nevergiveup.
Tue Oct 8, 2024, 09:41 PM
Oct 2024

Thank you for being a valued member of this community. My condolences to your loved ones.

Never give up, indeed.

tavernier

(13,630 posts)
99. Please pass on to them our sad mutual loss
Tue Oct 8, 2024, 10:19 PM
Oct 2024

Of our friend and brother in heart and mind.
💙💙💙

MerryBlooms

(11,921 posts)
101. Thanks for letting us know.
Tue Oct 8, 2024, 10:23 PM
Oct 2024

Into the night, we all pass.
No fear.
Pain resolved.
Into the night, we all pass.
Rest In Peace, nevergivup. 🥰🫡

Beacool

(30,362 posts)
105. Sad news.
Tue Oct 8, 2024, 11:01 PM
Oct 2024

Last year I lost a dear friend to pancreatic cancer. He had no symptoms (as per his wife with 50 years of experience as a nurse). He died five weeks after being diagnosed. I'm sorry that nevergiveup lost his battle. My condolences to his family and friends. May he rest in peace.


electric_blue68

(20,848 posts)
109. RIP nevergiveup. Strength to your family & friends.
Wed Oct 9, 2024, 12:12 AM
Oct 2024

That disease is one of the worst!
Lost 2 people to it.

Greybnk48

(10,517 posts)
119. RIP Nevergiveup. There are many, many of us here
Wed Oct 9, 2024, 04:57 AM
Oct 2024

who come for the camaraderie and to listen to those who are more tuned in than some of the rest of us. We don't participate in posting very often. But we share this info elsewhere and it's important!
You will be missed Nevergiveup!

Laurelin

(724 posts)
125. My condolences to nevergiveup's friends and family
Wed Oct 9, 2024, 09:43 AM
Oct 2024

I will do my best to live up to his name.

Festivito

(13,690 posts)
130. Nicely said. A piece of us dies, and a piece of him lives on with us. Not giving up - ever.
Wed Oct 9, 2024, 11:59 AM
Oct 2024

hlthe2b

(109,151 posts)
132. I'm saddened but I appreciate that you were able to tell us and that DU had meant so much to him.
Wed Oct 9, 2024, 02:32 PM
Oct 2024

May his wish for Kamala to prevail come to pass. I will be thinking of him these next weeks and hope that his family can be at peace as well. RIP, nevergiveup

mahina

(19,693 posts)
133. Wishing peace to him and to his family. My lovelight his path.
Wed Oct 9, 2024, 03:57 PM
Oct 2024

Thank you, EarlG

aloha everyone.

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