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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsIt is November 22.
The date will always be something to stop and remember. I have not seen a mention elsewhere.
We need to remember. I was 14.
dweller
(25,052 posts)Remember that day still
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yorkster
(2,414 posts)people to write of their memories of that day. Good thoughtful comments.
Sorry I can't remember who posted or the time.
It was irisblue post "What do you remember about Friday, November 22, 1963 from yesterday. No time, just yesterday, but submitted several entries before the last timed post of 8:51 pm.
John1956PA
(3,374 posts)Mike 03
(16,810 posts)People sharing their recollections of that stark day.
MrWowWow
(396 posts)John1956PA
(3,374 posts)MrWowWow
(396 posts)2naSalit
(92,705 posts)Not that long after returning to the NE from our stint in Key West for the missile crisis. We were sent home from school. My dad, in the military and whose family were friends and did business with the Kennedy family, came home and cried. It was the first time I ever saw him cry. I was in the second grade. My dad's father, the only grandpa I ever knew, passed two weeks later and nine days later, my baby sister was born.
It was a very eventful and weird time at our house.
MiHale
(10,783 posts)We never forget
LSparkle
(11,750 posts)First time I saw adults openly weeping. The world is a scary place. The drum cadence of the constant funeral coverage on TV for days afterward ... I grew up suspicious and fearful and Im feeling weird echoes in these times but especially today. 🥲
Marthe48
(19,023 posts)I was 11, came home from school. My Gram had the tv on, and told us the President had been shot. It was shocking.
Ron Green
(9,844 posts)This has been a divided country for a long time.
NoRethugFriends
(2,997 posts)Javaman
(63,106 posts)we are were we are because of that day.
BComplex
(9,078 posts)I was 14, but I started seeing the effects of it within a couple of years.
SharonAnn
(13,883 posts)The feeling of being safe and secure, growing up in the 50s and early 60s, meant that Kennedys assassination made me aware of monstrous evil. I was shaken.
Borogove
(15 posts)I was 9 and in 4th grade. My teacher was also the elementary school principal and had his office right behind the classroom. His office phone rang and he excused himself to go answer it. After a brief period of time, he announced over the PA system that the president had been shot. He then came back to the classroom with tears flowing down his cheeks.
Zorro
(16,296 posts)I believe this country and the world would be a much better place had this tragedy not occurred.
Remember and weep for what might have been.
bdamomma
(66,439 posts)I said it too myself. That's when everything changed in the USA. Camelot gone.
DFW
(56,540 posts)I remember it all too clearly, and I was 11.
Earlier that year, my dad, who was a friend of Pierre Salinger, asked if he could get JFK to personally autograph a photo, mentioning my name. When I got home that evening, I just stared at the photo for a long while. I still have it in the same frame it was in when I received it on my 11th birthday.
I was close to Marc Salinger, Pierre's son. He committed suicide by jumping off the Golden Gate bridge.
DFW
(56,540 posts)But it never turned into any kind of friendship, or I would have remembered him.
DFW
(56,540 posts)The pic doesnt stir any memories, Im afraid.
barbtries
(29,792 posts)third grade. I was not yet able to even begin to comprehend what an earth shattering event it was.
so many what ifs.
Freddie
(9,693 posts)Second grade. I was unhappy the Saturday morning cartoons werent on that weekend.
barbtries
(29,792 posts)one of my clear memories of that time is watching some movie about Fatima? Yep, I googled to be sure I had that right and see they made it over in 2020. religious.
and nothing else was on but JFK's death.
I will say one thing. My mother, lifelong republican, would be a total magat by now if she was alive, cried. She did not celebrate.
I was 9 and remember days of it all on TV as all the adults were glued to it and I was bored out of my mind.
It was a coup and changed everything, worsening the disaster of Vietnam.
Ping Tung
(1,289 posts)I remember it well.
kch22
(8 posts)It was to be JFKs next stop after Dallas.
Our school was to close early so we could go to downtown Austin to see the presidents motorcade. My classmates and I were eating lunch when word spread around the cafeteria that the president had been shot. A strange feeling went through me, like a nightmare had come true. It seemed unreal, but the world had truly changed that day.
Farmer-Rick
(11,407 posts)The nuns were all whispering and crying. They finally decided to end classes early. Then they cancelled all classes for the next week and had numerous memorial services.
It came as a shock when I found out in highschool that people in Texas hated JFK. It wasn't just a lone assassin. Others in power wanted him dead too.
WmChris
(220 posts)Senior year announced over the intercom system. My initial response was disbelief. Eventually I had to recognize that it had happened and my concept of our government was forever changed.
Kid Berwyn
(18,008 posts)I was 6. And I tell everyone who wasnt yet born:
THE COUNTRY HAS NOT BEEN THE SAME SINCE.
AmBlue
(3,441 posts)It was a terrible day. Even as little kiddos we could see something awful had happened, long before the grown-ups told us. Caroline was my age and I loved her Dad. Then came Martin. Then came Bobby. It was a shocking time to live through and changed us as a nation. And not for the better. It felt like the murder of hope, and of innocence. I was heartbroken then, and always wil be for what we lost.
SpankMe
(3,249 posts)Not to minimize the impact of it, but my feelings right now are that Trump winning this second election is my version of the Kennedy assassination. With no hyperbole or exaggeration, the Trump victory of Nov. 5, 2024 is a worse event than 9/11. That's the state of my emotions right now. I'm totally broken.
Less related, I visited the Kennedy assassination site in Dallas last year. It was a damn circus. People standing in the street on the spot where the bullets hit, taking selfies and blocking traffic. Conspiracy theorists with tables and literature muddying the history. People selling cheap, stupid Kennedy swag while dressed in MAGA-like flag-themed costumes. It was like the Hollywood Walk of Fame with kooks and mindless gawkers.
The sanctity and solemnity of the site is gone. It's a Disney-like bucket list item for anyone under 50. Few would care to stop and think about the real impact the event likely had on American and world history. The history is distorted and largely forgotten, except for those few frames of the Zapruder film that get played endlessly on YouTube.
japple
(10,326 posts)TNNurse
(7,125 posts)before it was announced to all. I remember the weekend as well.
My mother was cooking in the kitchen and I was in the living room. I saw Jack Ruby shoot Lee Harvey Oswald, live on TV. I went into the kitchen to tell Mother and she was stunned to realize ( and help me understand) that I had seen someone killed live on TV.
We mourned for JFK and his family. I had lost my father 3 years before and I felt for those kids.
TheRickles
(2,406 posts)Everyone was in the hallways at their lockers, getting ready to go home. The news spread from person to person like wildfire down the corridor. Oddly, that speedy flow of information made more of an impact on me than the emotions of the day. Not now, though.....
PCIntern
(26,892 posts)The look on the teachers face was unlike anything I had ever witnessed. She was retired from the WAC and was shaken to her foundation.
School was dismissed early. Got home to see the plane land and the casket removed.
Nothing was the same after that weekend.
electric_blue68
(18,019 posts)it was shocking to see that she had kind of turned ashen!
(being told JFK had been shot)
OLDMDDEM
(2,108 posts)NotHardly
(1,181 posts)johnnyfins
(1,400 posts)But I feel like I was ripped off.
3825-87867
(1,098 posts)leftyladyfrommo
(19,375 posts)Word spread like wildfire the old fashioned way. Person to person.
It was as big a shock to me as 9/11. Awful.
Prairie_Seagull
(3,770 posts)During this time, all the more.
alterfurz
(2,559 posts)...during the single phys ed hour of the semester devoted to "hygiene" (what they used to call sex education): Coach was nervously trying to explain the facts to the embarrassed boys when the announcement came over the P.A. That ended the discussion, and Coach never again revisited the topic. Which may help explain certain subsequent aspects of my love life.
Vegan4life
(9 posts)My mother loved JFK. I remember her grief, my earliest memory. The day of the funeral, she held me next to her on the couch, and we watched the funeral on our little black and white TV.
Scrivener7
(52,745 posts)"The President's been shot."
Xavier Breath
(5,021 posts)My Mom always told the story about how she was babysitting and watching As the World Turns when Cronkite broke in with his cryptic bulletin. She called my grandmother convinced the world was coming apart. She wasn't far off.
Meowmee
(5,515 posts)Of it, I was too young to be aware. I have to ask my brother if he remembers it. We were not living in the US at the time. When we came here, I learned about it in school and I have some vague memory of asking my mother about it, but I cant remember what she said- something like it was a terrible time, etc. Tori Amos wrote a song which refers to it called Jackies Strength.