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CountAllVotes

(21,687 posts)
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Amazing post. Thank you for posting. Irish_Dem Mar 23 #1
Maybe share letters with his family members? SheltieLover Mar 23 #2
Yes! benfranklin1776 Mar 23 #9
Yes, these too! SheltieLover Mar 23 #10
Absolutely 💯 benfranklin1776 Mar 23 #18
My older daughter found several pix of ancestors & other info online SheltieLover Mar 23 #19
Very cool!😎 benfranklin1776 Mar 25 #20
Yes, it was cool! SheltieLover Mar 25 #21
I found my real grandfather online CountAllVotes Mar 25 #28
Awesome! Congrats! SheltieLover Mar 25 #29
This message was self-deleted by its author CountAllVotes Mar 25 #37
Especially if anyone in the family is into genealogy. ShazzieB Mar 23 #12
Even if they're not, they might be later or future generations might be SheltieLover Mar 23 #13
True! ShazzieB Mar 23 #14
For sure, ShazzieB! SheltieLover Mar 25 #30
He left 38 nieces and nephews behind CountAllVotes Mar 25 #38
Beautiful. LoisB Mar 23 #3
Beautiful ⭐️ Clouds Passing Mar 23 #4
Thank you for sharing this. Your husband sounds like someone I would badhair77 Mar 23 #5
This is so beautiful. bronxiteforever Mar 23 #6
So touching.....thank you. democrank Mar 23 #7
Oh my heart. You found buried treasure. What KitFox Mar 23 #8
I can't help but be curious senseandsensibility Mar 23 #11
All sorts of things CountAllVotes Mar 23 #15
Are you talking about WW2? senseandsensibility Mar 23 #16
No, Vietnam Era CountAllVotes Mar 23 #17
What part of Ireland was he from ? OnDoutside Mar 25 #22
He was from Galway CountAllVotes Mar 25 #23
Lovely part of the world for sure ! OnDoutside Mar 25 #24
I stayed at the Muenster Hotel in Cork CountAllVotes Mar 25 #25
In the City ? OnDoutside Mar 25 #26
Yes, in the City of Cork CountAllVotes Mar 25 #27
I found it ! OnDoutside Mar 25 #31
Yep! CountAllVotes Mar 25 #32
No bother, I had only ever know it as the Ashley Hotel, so that's why I was puzzled. OnDoutside Mar 25 #33
This is quite good CountAllVotes Mar 25 #35
Definitely a great memory ! OnDoutside Mar 25 #39
Thank you for sharing. The part about the cats got me. Can only offer a KnR. nt Hellbound Hellhound Mar 25 #34
They were a fine pair of cats CountAllVotes Mar 25 #36

Irish_Dem

(68,357 posts)
1. Amazing post. Thank you for posting.
Sun Mar 23, 2025, 02:11 PM
Mar 23

SheltieLover

(66,664 posts)
2. Maybe share letters with his family members?
Sun Mar 23, 2025, 02:29 PM
Mar 23

Just a thought.

What a find!

benfranklin1776

(6,810 posts)
9. Yes!
Sun Mar 23, 2025, 03:49 PM
Mar 23

Or the Ellis Island Museum or the similar one in Philly ✊🏼

SheltieLover

(66,664 posts)
10. Yes, these too!
Sun Mar 23, 2025, 03:51 PM
Mar 23

Great ideas.

Possibly even geneoligy sites?

benfranklin1776

(6,810 posts)
18. Absolutely 💯
Sun Mar 23, 2025, 08:42 PM
Mar 23

SheltieLover

(66,664 posts)
19. My older daughter found several pix of ancestors & other info online
Sun Mar 23, 2025, 09:01 PM
Mar 23

benfranklin1776

(6,810 posts)
20. Very cool!😎
Tue Mar 25, 2025, 03:34 AM
Mar 25

I imagine she was thrilled as I would be! Thank you Al Gore for helping enable us to do these constructive things😺

SheltieLover

(66,664 posts)
21. Yes, it was cool!
Tue Mar 25, 2025, 05:00 AM
Mar 25

We were all excited about her finds.

CountAllVotes

(21,687 posts)
28. I found my real grandfather online
Tue Mar 25, 2025, 11:35 AM
Mar 25

My mother was adopted and I finally found his name.

He was from Longview, TX and the picture I found of him looks so much like my mother.

Unbelievable find!



SheltieLover

(66,664 posts)
29. Awesome! Congrats!
Tue Mar 25, 2025, 11:39 AM
Mar 25

That was quite a find!

Response to SheltieLover (Reply #29)

ShazzieB

(20,280 posts)
12. Especially if anyone in the family is into genealogy.
Sun Mar 23, 2025, 04:10 PM
Mar 23

That box sounds like a gold mine for anyone researching the family history.

SheltieLover

(66,664 posts)
13. Even if they're not, they might be later or future generations might be
Sun Mar 23, 2025, 04:35 PM
Mar 23

ShazzieB

(20,280 posts)
14. True!
Sun Mar 23, 2025, 04:41 PM
Mar 23

I responded through the eyes of someone trying to do family history right now. I'm just getting started, and I know SO little, especially about my Dad's side. A box like that from one of his parents or siblings would be a dream come true for me.

SheltieLover

(66,664 posts)
30. For sure, ShazzieB!
Tue Mar 25, 2025, 11:40 AM
Mar 25

Good luck in your search!

CountAllVotes

(21,687 posts)
38. He left 38 nieces and nephews behind
Tue Mar 25, 2025, 03:58 PM
Mar 25

There were 10 kids in the family; one still living in Ireland.

They lived with two of his grandparents that died at 104 and 106 respectively. They lived through the Great Famine.

They also had an uncle living with them.

FOURTEEN people in small thatched cottage! YIKES.



LoisB

(10,167 posts)
3. Beautiful.
Sun Mar 23, 2025, 02:35 PM
Mar 23

Clouds Passing

(4,413 posts)
4. Beautiful ⭐️
Sun Mar 23, 2025, 02:55 PM
Mar 23

badhair77

(4,831 posts)
5. Thank you for sharing this. Your husband sounds like someone I would
Sun Mar 23, 2025, 03:13 PM
Mar 23

like to know and whom I would respect. I wish you much peace and comfort.

bronxiteforever

(10,346 posts)
6. This is so beautiful.
Sun Mar 23, 2025, 03:15 PM
Mar 23

democrank

(11,417 posts)
7. So touching.....thank you.
Sun Mar 23, 2025, 03:27 PM
Mar 23

~PEACE~

KitFox

(289 posts)
8. Oh my heart. You found buried treasure. What
Sun Mar 23, 2025, 03:48 PM
Mar 23

a sweet and melancholy post. Thank you for sharing with us. He and his kitties were lucky to have you. I well up thinking of you and the cat weeping together. Love and hugs as you inch along navigating through all this. 🩷🩷🩷

senseandsensibility

(21,689 posts)
11. I can't help but be curious
Sun Mar 23, 2025, 03:54 PM
Mar 23

about the list of things he could do that he presented at Ellis Island. What was on the list? Thanks for the beautiful post and tribute.

CountAllVotes

(21,687 posts)
15. All sorts of things
Sun Mar 23, 2025, 05:33 PM
Mar 23

Everything from building houses, thatching cottages, shoeing horses, shearing wool, birthing and raising an assortment of animals and growing a farm loaded with crops.

He was a gunner in the war, something he never spoke of. He was highly skilled with knives of all sorts and knew how to use all sort of tools. The list goes on and on.

It was anything and everything he could think of as to impress Ellis Island as to what a fine addition he would become in the United States of America!

He was a man of diverse talents that grossly underestimated himself. However, I knew.

senseandsensibility

(21,689 posts)
16. Are you talking about WW2?
Sun Mar 23, 2025, 05:40 PM
Mar 23

My father in law was a gunner in that war and he never spoke of it either.
Your late husband sounds talented, modest, accomplished, secure and hard working. Kind of the opposite of "you probably know who". Thank you again for sharing a bit of him with us.

CountAllVotes

(21,687 posts)
17. No, Vietnam Era
Sun Mar 23, 2025, 08:08 PM
Mar 23

He ended up in Germany at the end of the Korean War. His time was extended due to the Cuban Missile Crisis, hence the commendation from JFK.

He enlisted in 1959 and got out in 1963. It was a long haul for him. Being he was firing off tanks and guns with no hearing protection, he was 70% deaf when he died. He never did a thing about it however. He was silent about that too; same as he was about his oh so secret box.

OnDoutside

(20,801 posts)
22. What part of Ireland was he from ?
Tue Mar 25, 2025, 05:45 AM
Mar 25

Hi from Ireland btw

CountAllVotes

(21,687 posts)
23. He was from Galway
Tue Mar 25, 2025, 07:46 AM
Mar 25

Lovely place. Where are you from?


OnDoutside

(20,801 posts)
24. Lovely part of the world for sure !
Tue Mar 25, 2025, 10:28 AM
Mar 25

I'm from Cork myself.

CountAllVotes

(21,687 posts)
25. I stayed at the Muenster Hotel in Cork
Tue Mar 25, 2025, 11:03 AM
Mar 25

I wonder if it is still there?

Very old hotel it was and there was a bar upstairs from it. That was the first place I ever stayed while visiting Ireland which was in 1983.



OnDoutside

(20,801 posts)
26. In the City ?
Tue Mar 25, 2025, 11:18 AM
Mar 25

Thinking back to 1983, there would be the

Imperial Hotel
Metropole Hotel
Victoria Hotel
Jury's Hotel
Silversprings Hotel

In Bandon there is the Munster Arms Hotel

CountAllVotes

(21,687 posts)
27. Yes, in the City of Cork
Tue Mar 25, 2025, 11:28 AM
Mar 25

It is probably closed by now.



OnDoutside

(20,801 posts)
31. I found it !
Tue Mar 25, 2025, 11:44 AM
Mar 25

It was the Munster Hotel but was later renamed to the Ashley Hotel. It's on Coburg Street.

https://maps.app.goo.gl/K8ovFSt4iLwhfoqD6



CountAllVotes

(21,687 posts)
32. Yep!
Tue Mar 25, 2025, 11:46 AM
Mar 25

That is it alright! I thought it was the Munster Hotel but I changed it to Muenster thinking I remembered the name wrong. I was right it seems! Thank you!

OnDoutside

(20,801 posts)
33. No bother, I had only ever know it as the Ashley Hotel, so that's why I was puzzled.
Tue Mar 25, 2025, 12:00 PM
Mar 25

CountAllVotes

(21,687 posts)
35. This is quite good
Tue Mar 25, 2025, 03:05 PM
Mar 25

I wonder how many other people would remember the name and place of a hotel they stayed in over 42 years ago?

At least I'm not going senile! Thank god for that!



OnDoutside

(20,801 posts)
39. Definitely a great memory !
Tue Mar 25, 2025, 06:45 PM
Mar 25

Cork has changed a LOT since the early 80s, and the next 20 years promises many big changes as we are projected to increase by about 150,000.

34. Thank you for sharing. The part about the cats got me. Can only offer a KnR. nt
Tue Mar 25, 2025, 12:08 PM
Mar 25

CountAllVotes

(21,687 posts)
36. They were a fine pair of cats
Tue Mar 25, 2025, 03:10 PM
Mar 25


Gosh I miss them so much!



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