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ItsjustMe

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Holy crap! No wonder they wanted the United States out of their country. jimfields33 Nov 9 #1
Not shocked, but appalled. lastlib Nov 9 #14
How about both shocked and appalled! ananda Nov 9 #17
"Marriage", they say? Mister Ed Nov 9 #2
That is what marriage IS. valleyrogue Nov 10 #44
Oh. Is my marriage indeed a form of prostitution and slavery? Mister Ed Nov 10 #45
Your marriage is irrelevant to the discussion. valleyrogue Nov 11 #49
This is a thread about nine-year-old girls being raped and enslaved. Mister Ed Nov 11 #50
O. M. G. calimary Nov 9 #3
God, those poor babies are being sold by their own fathers. They have sperm donors, not real GPV Nov 9 #4
Afghanistan is the same, with girls sold to men 5 and 6 times their age. Lonestarblue Nov 9 #5
Why on earth did so many Americans die fighting there. And now we're turning into Iraq. Walleye Nov 9 #6
Women's rights started dwindling even while we were there. LisaM Nov 9 #12
Empire and oil Martin Eden Nov 9 #21
Cows are treated better than women in Iraq. Baitball Blogger Nov 9 #7
Iraq, not Iran. I had to read it three times before I realized that. eppur_se_muova Nov 9 #9
Thank you for the correction. Baitball Blogger Nov 9 #11
Iranian influence. Igel Nov 9 #40
Damn! I did the same thing. N/t SomewhereInTheMiddle Nov 11 #48
I didn't know Iranian leaders were Republicans, too. surfered Nov 9 #8
Iraqi, not Iranian. nt eppur_se_muova Nov 9 #10
Thanks for the correction. It just sounded like something Iran would do. surfered Nov 9 #37
Mike Moon US intro bill for 12 yr legal marrage Sugarmaggie Nov 9 #13
Yes, and how did that work out?. whathehell Nov 9 #28
That is not "marriage". It is child enslavement and pedophilia. N/t CousinIT Nov 9 #15
Coming to a US County near you! Hope22 Nov 9 #16
Why would you say that? Where do you get Muslims coming here are going to want this? jimfields33 Nov 9 #20
Have you checked out the status of US women lately! Hope22 Nov 9 #23
Try rereading the thread and then your post. jimfields33 Nov 9 #25
I'm certain your rudeness is against the rules out here. ......n/t Hope22 Nov 9 #34
Please reread the thread. jimfields33 Nov 9 #38
Who said anything about muslims? getagrip_already Nov 9 #27
It's really scary that people out here have to be educated on this! Hope22 Nov 9 #35
I don't think Hope22 was talking about Muslims doing that here. ShazzieB Nov 9 #39
Not so much. whathehell Nov 9 #30
There are a lot of things happening now that we never would have dreamed of even ten years ago. Hope22 Nov 9 #31
The psychopaths are in power. 58Sunliner Nov 9 #18
Many old men here would like to see it set at 13 or 14. They believe girls are women by then. At least women enough for ratchiweenie Nov 9 #19
I think people would really be surprised to know. N/t Hope22 Nov 9 #32
Thank God we liberated them. bluedigger Nov 9 #22
We're next. Aristus Nov 9 #24
I just got hammered for saying that upstream. Hope22 Nov 9 #33
I think many people aren't aware of just how sick these old white southern men are. ratchiweenie Nov 10 #41
It's true. Hope22 Nov 10 #42
Do something! Easterncedar Nov 9 #26
Thank for posting this. Hope22 Nov 10 #43
Thank you Easterncedar Nov 10 #46
How republican of them. Turbineguy Nov 9 #29
Damn Solly Mack Nov 9 #36
"As well as bringing down the legal marriage age, the amendment would also TBF Nov 10 #47
While our new leadership believes no consent is necessary at any age. Just grab 'em Runningdawg Nov 11 #51
Billions of dollars BigMin28 Nov 11 #52

jimfields33

(18,878 posts)
1. Holy crap! No wonder they wanted the United States out of their country.
Sat Nov 9, 2024, 05:56 AM
Nov 9

I don’t get shocked easily, but I definitely am on this news.

lastlib

(24,910 posts)
14. Not shocked, but appalled.
Sat Nov 9, 2024, 08:05 AM
Nov 9

I weep at the pervy god they worship. It sickens me

ananda

(30,820 posts)
17. How about both shocked and appalled!
Sat Nov 9, 2024, 08:32 AM
Nov 9

These Muslim states' treatment of women
is astoundingly harsh and restrictive.

Misogyny seems to be growing worldwide.
America is trending in this direction as well.

Men must feel really threatened and need
to scapegoat, mistreat, and confine women
to a degree that is just astounding!

Mister Ed

(6,352 posts)
2. "Marriage", they say?
Sat Nov 9, 2024, 06:03 AM
Nov 9

This is not about "marriage". This is about purchasing, owning, and enslaving girls and women.

valleyrogue

(1,098 posts)
44. That is what marriage IS.
Sun Nov 10, 2024, 09:51 AM
Nov 10

Last edited Sun Nov 10, 2024, 03:15 PM - Edit history (1)

It always has been a transaction where men buy sexual access to women in exchange for material support for women. It is the cornerstone of patriarchy and always was. It is a form of prostitution.

The entire system is rigged against women to coerce them to marry so men get sexual access. Women are seeing the truth and are rejecting it. That is why so many men are stomping angry.

Hallmark card nonsense about love, partnership, and commitment have nothing to do with it.

Mister Ed

(6,352 posts)
45. Oh. Is my marriage indeed a form of prostitution and slavery?
Sun Nov 10, 2024, 10:06 AM
Nov 10

Is the marriage of my friends Elizabeth and Karen a form of prostitution and slavery?

Please tell me more of what you know about us and our marriages.

valleyrogue

(1,098 posts)
49. Your marriage is irrelevant to the discussion.
Mon Nov 11, 2024, 12:46 PM
Nov 11

The truth is the truth. It IS a form of prostitution. It is the flip side of prostitution. The only difference is in degree. How do you explain marriages with children, with dowries, with mail order brides, with impoverishing women by men hoarding resources so that they have to sell themselves to the highest bidder? How do you explain away an economic system that is rigged against women for the simple reason that to starve women economically makes it easier for men to gain sexual access?

The fact is men will not marry women unless they get sexual access to women. The legal bennies come with a price for women, which is they must trade their bodies to get everything materially. That is how the great majority of women become "homeowners." That is how marriage is still the major means of upward mobility for women. It is purely transactional. Most men worldwide think this way of women, and if that upsets you, so be it. That is the mentality of the men who voted for Trump. Women are objects for sexual access and reproduction. That is all they are "for."

You don't want to hear the truth. I get it, it is extremely uncomfortable, but marriage needs to die out. I suspect in the next 100 years, it will die out in the West.

Mister Ed

(6,352 posts)
50. This is a thread about nine-year-old girls being raped and enslaved.
Mon Nov 11, 2024, 02:16 PM
Nov 11

You do me and others a grave and ugly injustice by equating our marriages to their plight.

Your pedantic, boilerplate dogma and your broadbrush condemnation of marriage will not help those girls in the least. Carry on with it if you will, though. I will pay no further heed.

calimary

(84,331 posts)
3. O. M. G.
Sat Nov 9, 2024, 06:17 AM
Nov 9

Absolutely BEYOND Horrible!

GPV

(73,036 posts)
4. God, those poor babies are being sold by their own fathers. They have sperm donors, not real
Sat Nov 9, 2024, 06:35 AM
Nov 9

daddies, over there.

Lonestarblue

(11,827 posts)
5. Afghanistan is the same, with girls sold to men 5 and 6 times their age.
Sat Nov 9, 2024, 06:41 AM
Nov 9

Just disgusting.

Walleye

(35,671 posts)
6. Why on earth did so many Americans die fighting there. And now we're turning into Iraq.
Sat Nov 9, 2024, 06:47 AM
Nov 9

LisaM

(28,601 posts)
12. Women's rights started dwindling even while we were there.
Sat Nov 9, 2024, 07:40 AM
Nov 9

My memory is a little dim here, but I seem to recall that Iraqi women were among the best educated in the Middle East before we went in. I am not defending Saddam Hussein or his human rights record. Who would? But women's rights in Iraq started eroding with the subsequent regimes that replaced him. I remember arguing with some local talk radio host about it at the time.

But, by all means, let's cut ties with our only solid ally in the Middle East.

Martin Eden

(13,462 posts)
21. Empire and oil
Sat Nov 9, 2024, 09:04 AM
Nov 9

Oil men had their hands all over PNAC.

Baitball Blogger

(48,047 posts)
7. Cows are treated better than women in Iraq.
Sat Nov 9, 2024, 07:10 AM
Nov 9

Last edited Sat Nov 9, 2024, 07:40 AM - Edit history (1)

At least cows aren't forced to copulate with them.

eppur_se_muova

(37,403 posts)
9. Iraq, not Iran. I had to read it three times before I realized that.
Sat Nov 9, 2024, 07:35 AM
Nov 9

This is what you would expect in Iran, not in a country the US fought to liberate from a dictatorship.

Baitball Blogger

(48,047 posts)
11. Thank you for the correction.
Sat Nov 9, 2024, 07:40 AM
Nov 9

Igel

(36,086 posts)
40. Iranian influence.
Sat Nov 9, 2024, 08:46 PM
Nov 9

Don't have to be the country to be a de facto satrapy of the country.

48. Damn! I did the same thing. N/t
Mon Nov 11, 2024, 07:23 AM
Nov 11

surfered

(3,116 posts)
8. I didn't know Iranian leaders were Republicans, too.
Sat Nov 9, 2024, 07:32 AM
Nov 9

eppur_se_muova

(37,403 posts)
10. Iraqi, not Iranian. nt
Sat Nov 9, 2024, 07:36 AM
Nov 9

surfered

(3,116 posts)
37. Thanks for the correction. It just sounded like something Iran would do.
Sat Nov 9, 2024, 02:51 PM
Nov 9

Sugarmaggie

(136 posts)
13. Mike Moon US intro bill for 12 yr legal marrage
Sat Nov 9, 2024, 07:52 AM
Nov 9

We got same degenerates in our “house”. Don’t know if he’s still a rep.


https://www.kansascity.com/news/politics-government/article274244525.html

whathehell

(29,798 posts)
28. Yes, and how did that work out?.
Sat Nov 9, 2024, 11:13 AM
Nov 9

If we do have "the same" degenerates here, clearly we don't have the same number.

CousinIT

(10,203 posts)
15. That is not "marriage". It is child enslavement and pedophilia. N/t
Sat Nov 9, 2024, 08:10 AM
Nov 9

Hope22

(2,873 posts)
16. Coming to a US County near you!
Sat Nov 9, 2024, 08:28 AM
Nov 9

Every crazy thing they do our crazies lick their lips and dream. I predict mass suicide events with their women and their girls finding peace. It does not bode well for American women. Nine? Why bother waiting? Where Iraq goes our sickness follows.

jimfields33

(18,878 posts)
20. Why would you say that? Where do you get Muslims coming here are going to want this?
Sat Nov 9, 2024, 08:49 AM
Nov 9

Hope22

(2,873 posts)
23. Have you checked out the status of US women lately!
Sat Nov 9, 2024, 09:35 AM
Nov 9

Our white men did that to us. Our voices have been stifled. I sure as #ell was not insinuating what you suggest!

jimfields33

(18,878 posts)
25. Try rereading the thread and then your post.
Sat Nov 9, 2024, 11:07 AM
Nov 9

Hope22

(2,873 posts)
34. I'm certain your rudeness is against the rules out here. ......n/t
Sat Nov 9, 2024, 01:57 PM
Nov 9

jimfields33

(18,878 posts)
38. Please reread the thread.
Sat Nov 9, 2024, 03:08 PM
Nov 9

getagrip_already

(17,436 posts)
27. Who said anything about muslims?
Sat Nov 9, 2024, 11:11 AM
Nov 9

This is christian doctrine also.

And mormon.

Dont be shocked as laws banning child marriage begin to disapear.

Hope22

(2,873 posts)
35. It's really scary that people out here have to be educated on this!
Sat Nov 9, 2024, 02:00 PM
Nov 9

It’s almost as though they didn’t get the news Tuesday!

ShazzieB

(18,670 posts)
39. I don't think Hope22 was talking about Muslims doing that here.
Sat Nov 9, 2024, 04:57 PM
Nov 9

I feel quite certain that she was talking about a certain type of fundamentalist Christian, white American men.

whathehell

(29,798 posts)
30. Not so much.
Sat Nov 9, 2024, 11:40 AM
Nov 9

We may be deeply disappointed in ourselves right now, but hyperbole isn't helpful. Iraqi culture isn't a harbinger for us, and 9 year old marriage isn't happening.

Hope22

(2,873 posts)
31. There are a lot of things happening now that we never would have dreamed of even ten years ago.
Sat Nov 9, 2024, 01:28 PM
Nov 9

When the Epstein files open you may be surprised. Yes…that’s not marriage…but T and his friends will never give up their delicacies. The point is without power over our bodies and voices that are heard, really just anything is possible! As far as I can see the Christian’s, especially those in the rural areas here are not far behind the those that we are speaking of.

It’s OK for me to speak an opinion. Just saying! In reference don’t get me started on my sister in law…1977 southeast Ohio, burped out six babies in eight years. She had no voice as the church, god and her husband spoke for her. When she couldn’t have anymore babies because her body was broken from the abuse, her husband brought a woman home from work saying that he wanted to take a second wife as their church allowed. When he took the additional lady to church with the family and talked to the head honcho about a second wife he was told that second wives cannot come in from outside the church they must already be church members. This is real life back woods Ohio and still exists today! The church then told my sister in law that since her husband had broken a church rule she had the choice of staying with her husband and leaving the church or staying with the church and leaving her husband. That was the one condition they would allow divorce. Over forty years ago…..

58Sunliner

(4,981 posts)
18. The psychopaths are in power.
Sat Nov 9, 2024, 08:43 AM
Nov 9

ratchiweenie

(7,923 posts)
19. Many old men here would like to see it set at 13 or 14. They believe girls are women by then. At least women enough for
Sat Nov 9, 2024, 08:46 AM
Nov 9

them to really enjoy and control.

Hope22

(2,873 posts)
32. I think people would really be surprised to know. N/t
Sat Nov 9, 2024, 01:40 PM
Nov 9

bluedigger

(17,148 posts)
22. Thank God we liberated them.
Sat Nov 9, 2024, 09:26 AM
Nov 9

Makes it all worthwhile.

Aristus

(68,357 posts)
24. We're next.
Sat Nov 9, 2024, 10:02 AM
Nov 9

Hope22

(2,873 posts)
33. I just got hammered for saying that upstream.
Sat Nov 9, 2024, 01:47 PM
Nov 9

I guess that Election Tuesday hasn’t sunk in for some of us!

ratchiweenie

(7,923 posts)
41. I think many people aren't aware of just how sick these old white southern men are.
Sun Nov 10, 2024, 07:24 AM
Nov 10

Hope22

(2,873 posts)
42. It's true.
Sun Nov 10, 2024, 08:58 AM
Nov 10

Even those up north. I had two sisters and we were born close together in age. Once a year my dad’s brother would visit and we girls would be huddled behind mom and dad when we would have to say hello to uncle. That man would nibble on our ears and hug and kiss on us. We would run away as each gained freedom from this disgusting greeting! Our parents were right there and never said a thing! Twenty years later he went to federal prison for sexually molesting and god knows what, our cousin. Children have a very rough road to travel in this country and it’s getting worse. My heart goes out to all of them.

Easterncedar

(3,524 posts)
26. Do something!
Sat Nov 9, 2024, 11:09 AM
Nov 9

Last edited Sat Nov 9, 2024, 11:55 AM - Edit history (1)

Consider supporting Women Living Under Muslim Law.
www.wluml.org

This is a horror.

Hope22

(2,873 posts)
43. Thank for posting this.
Sun Nov 10, 2024, 09:00 AM
Nov 10

You are seen and heard. 💗💗🙏🏼

Easterncedar

(3,524 posts)
46. Thank you
Sun Nov 10, 2024, 11:52 AM
Nov 10

Homa Hoodfar, the Canadian-Iranian anthropologist who was imprisoned for a time in Evin, is one of the founders of WLUML. She is a tireless activist and a hero of mine, and I am proud to know her.

Turbineguy

(38,378 posts)
29. How republican of them.
Sat Nov 9, 2024, 11:19 AM
Nov 9

Solly Mack

(92,819 posts)
36. Damn
Sat Nov 9, 2024, 02:37 PM
Nov 9

TBF

(34,315 posts)
47. "As well as bringing down the legal marriage age, the amendment would also
Sun Nov 10, 2024, 03:56 PM
Nov 10

remove women’s rights to divorce, child custody and inheritance."

Coming soon to a red state near you. I need to get the hell out of Texas.

Runningdawg

(4,613 posts)
51. While our new leadership believes no consent is necessary at any age. Just grab 'em
Mon Nov 11, 2024, 03:00 PM
Nov 11

BigMin28

(1,463 posts)
52. Billions of dollars
Mon Nov 11, 2024, 03:06 PM
Nov 11

Spent during the Iraq War for defending America and democracy. All lies cheered on by the media. Since I woke up last Wednesday, I have been thinking about the words of Reverend Jeremiah Wright that caused such controversy and was used against President Obama's during his administration. I went back and read those words. The good Reverend was correct. America 's chickens are coming home to roost. In so many ways

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