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Generic Brad

(14,374 posts)
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 11:44 AM Oct 15

I'm hesitant to post this

I usually steer away from posting personal information. But my health has taken an unexpected twist. Three weeks ago I went to my doctor because I was having difficulty breathing and had not slept for three days. She called an ambulance and I had a minor heart attack in the ER. Turns out I have congestive heart failure. So I’ve been dealing with that and getting my affairs in order just in case.

Four days ago my right leg quickly developed a Charlie Horse from my hip to my toes. The pain was so excruciating I called 911. I got airlifted to Vanderbilt and am still in the ICU. I had a blood clot that lodged in my femoral artery. They were initially bracing me for amputation. They appear to have saved my leg but it is in rough shape. And the potassium that was released when muscle cells were dying caused kidney failure. So I am dealing with major leg issues, dialysis, and then after that is all stabilized they will work on my heart.

It’s been a rough month. Hopefully I’ll pull through and be around for a few more years. I’m just an old voice in the DU wilderness and didn’t want to fade away without any explanation as to why I might no longer post. No one here knows me or chats with me. But I’ve been with this community since a few months after it started (as a different user) and you all still feel like brethren. I wish you all well.

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I'm hesitant to post this (Original Post) Generic Brad Oct 15 OP
At Vanderbilt, you are in good hands..wishing you a full recovery Demovictory9 Oct 15 #1
Wishing you a quick recovery! That's a lot to deal livetohike Oct 15 #2
Your body really wants to heal, never forget that. Arne Oct 15 #3
Prayed for you. Get well soon and let us know Joinfortmill Oct 15 #4
Be Well,.. we all hope you experience a quick recovery. magicarpet Oct 15 #5
Wishing you a speedy recovery awesomerwb1 Oct 15 #6
Consider yourself hugged if BittyJenkins Oct 15 #7
You're in good hands. I know and remember you - your DU name is memorable ms liberty Oct 15 #8
It sounds like you've had a rough month, Generic Brad Niagara Oct 15 #9
That's a lot to handle Marthe48 Oct 15 #10
Hopefully you will recover and resume your life. pandr32 Oct 15 #11
Wishing you the best as you recover from virgdem Oct 15 #12
Positive thoughts & healing vibes! CrispyQ Oct 15 #13
Dang, that's a lot of trauma! Bayard Oct 15 #14
I wish you the best outcome. Solly Mack Oct 15 #15
Generic Brad. Sending all my wishes and thoughts for your recoverery. debm55 Oct 15 #16
Well, we know you now, Generic peggysue2 Oct 15 #17
💙 Wishing you all the best, glad you posted to let us know your situation. Hugs! appalachiablue Oct 15 #18
Much luck Brad mdbl Oct 15 #19
I'm glad you posted. barbtries Oct 15 #20
OK, I had this almost a decade ago - TBF Oct 15 #21
I'm so sorry you're having to deal with all this, and I hope you're getting excellent care. Lonestarblue Oct 15 #22
Brad, I hope you are feeling much better soon people Oct 15 #23
Sending you healing vibes! MLAA Oct 15 #24
Sending positive thoughts and wishing you a speedy recovery. alwaysinasnit Oct 15 #25
positive thoughts your way.... markie Oct 15 #26
Sorry to hear of this sudden onslaught of health crises. 70sEraVet Oct 15 #27
Vibes to you on a complete recovery. My dad applegrove Oct 15 #28
I am in awe of your ability to keep calm and rational. That in itself can save your life and keep you sane. marble falls Oct 15 #29
Do as they tell you and you will surprise yourself. appleannie1 Oct 15 #30
Wish you health and healing Richluu Oct 15 #31
We're wishing you all the best! CaptainTruth Oct 15 #32
Glad you survived all that and hoping that you are headed to improved health... Trueblue Texan Oct 15 #33
Wishing you well GB!💕 louslobbs Oct 15 #34
You are part of this community, Brad. Holding you in my heart. n/t TygrBright Oct 15 #35
Wishing you a quick recovery KS Toronado Oct 15 #36
Scary month for you. Take care and feel better. They seem to be taking good care of you. BoomaofBandM Oct 15 #37
All the best to you for a speedy recovery.💙 PittBlue Oct 15 #38
Big hugs Brad, and not generic ones, the big Bear Hug type Teacher of the Year Oct 15 #39
That is quite a lot to deal with. I truly hope your health issues are resolved fully. Sending good vibes and major LoisB Oct 15 #40
Having similar problems with my heart, might I suggest ... relayerbob Oct 15 #41
Good info since I didn't know what CQ-10 actually can do. Wising you... electric_blue68 Oct 15 #103
To modify a quote from the Fabulous Furry Freak Brothers: "DU will get you thru times of... FailureToCommunicate Oct 15 #42
Best of health Just Jerome Oct 15 #43
Yikes! Lulu KC Oct 15 #44
All the best to you, Generic Brad!! FeelingBlue Oct 15 #45
Generic Brad Faux pas Oct 15 #46
Sending love and all Good Thoughts. quaint Oct 15 #47
Sounds like you're where you need to be for now....hope you are well soon! PortTack Oct 15 #48
All the best Brad. You certainly have hit a few bumps in the road. Fla Dem Oct 15 #49
I'm glad you were able to share with us so that we can wish you a speedy recovery. chowder66 Oct 15 #50
Holy Cow, GB!! Alliepoo Oct 15 #51
Hugs to you, nocoincidences Oct 15 #52
Wishing you only the best! Think. Again. Oct 15 #53
It sounds like you're in good hands oldtime dfl_er Oct 15 #54
Good luck. Wishing you all the best for a full recovery. mountain grammy Oct 15 #55
Had a somewhat similar experience KT2000 Oct 15 #56
❤️ Donkees Oct 15 #57
Hang tough, Brad. LuckyCharms Oct 15 #58
I feel you, Generic Brad. Hang in there! dchill Oct 15 #59
I wish you the very best! Erda Oct 15 #60
I wish you well Figarosmom Oct 15 #61
Getting old is such a bitch. Lunabell Oct 15 #62
We can't lose another Democrat! 🙏 demosincebirth Oct 15 #63
May your healing be swift and whole ❤️ Clouds Passing Oct 15 #64
Thank you. Be well -- soon. Festivito Oct 15 #65
I'm so sorry you are suffering. I wish you well and may healing energy surround you. 58Sunliner Oct 15 #66
May heals and hugs be yours Tweedy Oct 15 #67
Oh Brad bdamomma Oct 15 #68
Get better soon XanaDUer2 Oct 15 #69
Someone's always here to talk to. Elessar Zappa Oct 15 #70
Hey Brad Sugarcoated Oct 15 #71
Sorry to hear this. Pulling for your recovery. Nt BootinUp Oct 15 #72
Glad you're likely to keep your leg and your life together 0rganism Oct 15 #73
My best to you. I'm in your part of the country so you should feel some strong vibes... 2 Meow Momma Oct 15 #74
I wish two things for you sellitman Oct 15 #75
Sending good vibes and healing light berniesandersmittens Oct 15 #76
im onulsomide for conjestive heart failure 9 years ago. i wonder if the docs will put u on elloquiss . AllaN01Bear Oct 15 #77
Sending healing thoughts and energies your way... slightlv Oct 15 #78
That must have been terrifying. greatauntoftriplets Oct 15 #79
Sending positive healing vibes to you, Brad. skylucy Oct 15 #80
I hope that H2O Man Oct 15 #81
I am overwhelmed by you all Generic Brad Oct 15 #82
Wishing you a full recovery and a return to good health. Hang in there! ❤️ chia Oct 15 #83
Sending good vibes kanda Oct 15 #84
best wishes for a fast recovery! mike_c Oct 15 #85
Wish you well with your recovery. Martin68 Oct 15 #86
Oh my... that's a lot AmBlue Oct 15 #87
Take on the problems one at a time, or together as your docs think you can handle it. DFW Oct 15 #88
Good Luck ProfessorGAC Oct 15 #89
All the best to you, G-Brad Wild blueberry Oct 15 #90
Hang in there, GB! (n/t) OldBaldy1701E Oct 15 #91
So sorry to hear this news. . . h2ebits Oct 15 #92
Sending tons of positive thoughts your way. Dem2theMax Oct 15 #93
Brad, I hope the outpouring of love in this thread True Dough Oct 15 #94
I will be thinking of you, and hoping the doctors will be able to help you. HeartsCanHope Oct 15 #95
We love you, Generic Brad. ❤️ littlemissmartypants Oct 15 #96
Keep fighting, Generic Brad rockbluff botanist Oct 15 #97
Wow - you have had a rough few weeks Ruby the Liberal Oct 15 #98
Good thoughts sent your way Brad. crosinski Oct 15 #99
Don't you DARE check out on us!!! Sending vibes for recovery and healing. niyad Oct 15 #100
Wishing you a full and quick recovery 🙏🙏🙏💙 LiberalLoner Oct 15 #101
Sent up a prayer for quick healing for you. iluvtennis Oct 15 #102
Yikes, what a scary rollercoaster! Wishing you stabalized health, and the best recoveries possible in your various electric_blue68 Oct 15 #104
Peace and good health. Magoo48 Oct 15 #105
Nephrologist Nigrum Cattus Oct 15 #106
Sending Prayers samplegirl Oct 15 #107
wishing you well! Skittles Oct 15 #108
remember Hamlette Oct 15 #109
Omg...that is so scary! I'm glad they were able to save your leg Bluethroughu Oct 15 #110
sending good vibes mokeyz Oct 15 #111
Sending cyber hugs LittleGirl Oct 15 #112
Hope you're well on the road to recovery soon! Zambero Oct 15 #113
Hugs to you, Generic Brad! calimary Oct 15 #114
We need you here. murielm99 Oct 15 #115
i'm touched that you wanted to let us know so we could MadameButterfly Oct 16 #116
Best of luck Old Crank Oct 16 #117
Post removed Post removed Oct 16 #118
I used my phone to call 911 Generic Brad Oct 16 #120
Most, if not all hospitals let you have your phone kcr Oct 16 #121
Wishing you well augyboston Oct 16 #119
Sending all my best thoughts for your recovery, Brad UpInArms Oct 16 #122
Wishing you all the best emily333 Oct 16 #123
Wow! What a cascade! NH Ethylene Oct 16 #124
To use an old AA mantra; take it one day at a time. zanana1 Oct 16 #125
A heart felt wish and prayer for you to return to full health. jrthin Oct 16 #126
Sending hugs across the miles BlueKota Oct 16 #127
They can do wonders with modern tech and meds. Hang in there! flying_wahini Oct 16 #128
hang in there, fam KG Oct 16 #129
Blessings MorbidButterflyTat Oct 16 #130

livetohike

(23,018 posts)
2. Wishing you a quick recovery! That's a lot to deal
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 11:49 AM
Oct 15

with, but it sounds like you are receiving good care. Hang in there and check in with your progress.

BittyJenkins

(590 posts)
7. Consider yourself hugged if
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 11:52 AM
Oct 15

you are okay with hugs. Sounds like you are in a good spot where they know what they are doing.

ms liberty

(9,857 posts)
8. You're in good hands. I know and remember you - your DU name is memorable
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 11:53 AM
Oct 15

I'll be sending you vibes, and please keep us updated as you are able!

Niagara

(9,782 posts)
9. It sounds like you've had a rough month, Generic Brad
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 11:56 AM
Oct 15


DU is without fail devastated when we lose a member, so here's wishing you better health and better days ahead.



If you ever need to talk or vent, someone is always here to listen.

pandr32

(12,236 posts)
11. Hopefully you will recover and resume your life.
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 12:00 PM
Oct 15

I've had a few medical issues which have scared and sidelined me, sometimes for months at a time.
My advice would be to eat food that is actually good for you, get lots of rest, and to get your body moving as much as you are able. Also, find something you like, as in reading, visits with people you actually like, writing, or starting a project you are able to do that makes you happy. A positive self-push can be really good medicine.
We do have an awesome community, don't we? So glad you shared with us 'brethren'.

virgdem

(2,208 posts)
12. Wishing you the best as you recover from
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 12:04 PM
Oct 15

your medical ordeal. Thanks for updating us on your condition. It sounds like you are receiving the best of care.

CrispyQ

(38,444 posts)
13. Positive thoughts & healing vibes!
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 12:09 PM
Oct 15

It's absolutely startling when you have a totally unexpected health event. I had a health event a few years ago that changed my life & if you'd told me that that particular organ was going to be the one I would have issues with I would have scoffed. But here I am.

My advice to young people is to take the very best care of yourself now. Ditch or at least modify bad habits. Get new, good ones. EXERCISE!!! Diet, too, but I swear regular exercise gave me a huge edge through all of this.

I hope you have a good support system. It's tough, I know, but hang in there.

Bayard

(24,145 posts)
14. Dang, that's a lot of trauma!
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 12:10 PM
Oct 15

Don't be hesitant to post--your family here want to be with you now.

May you have a good outcome. Please keep us posted.

peggysue2

(11,498 posts)
17. Well, we know you now, Generic
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 12:21 PM
Oct 15

I'm sure I speak for the DU community in wishing you improved health and a full recovery.

You've been through a lot and far more than enough for anyone.

Keep the faith and best wishes for a healthier future.

barbtries

(29,912 posts)
20. I'm glad you posted.
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 12:23 PM
Oct 15

I hope you recover rapidly and entirely from this terrible sequence of events Generic Brad.

TBF

(34,545 posts)
21. OK, I had this almost a decade ago -
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 12:29 PM
Oct 15

I was younger obviously (40s) and had a clot connected to birth control. A bad one that put pressure on the right side of my heart. I was in critical condition but came out of the procedure well (they used a clot buster on that one because it was actually called PE at that point). I am going to hope your clot is stabilized and perhaps that will even help with other issues you're having. We need you to pull through this and see our first female president take the oath of office! Hugs.

Lonestarblue

(11,927 posts)
22. I'm so sorry you're having to deal with all this, and I hope you're getting excellent care.
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 12:29 PM
Oct 15

Hang in there, and know that DU users all send good vibes for your full recovery.

people

(704 posts)
23. Brad, I hope you are feeling much better soon
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 12:30 PM
Oct 15

This sounds like a whole lot of big difficult things at once. But, they are figuring them all out and dealing with them. In a week or two hopefully you will be on a new course and feeling better. Thinking about you . . . .

70sEraVet

(4,196 posts)
27. Sorry to hear of this sudden onslaught of health crises.
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 12:36 PM
Oct 15

Good to know that you are in one of the premier hospitals in the country. I'm a fellow Tennessean -- about a 80 minute drive from Nashville. A few years ago, I had an operation at Vanderbilt that was the equal of Luke Skywalker's firing the torpedos into the Death Star!
May the force be with you and your doctors.

applegrove

(123,433 posts)
28. Vibes to you on a complete recovery. My dad
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 12:37 PM
Oct 15

had a blood clot. Then heart failure. Medicine worked great and he had no future problems.

appleannie1

(5,203 posts)
30. Do as they tell you and you will surprise yourself.
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 12:41 PM
Oct 15

I have many stents for clogged arteries, take blood thinners daily, have 3rd stage kidney failure, and heart problems. Have for years. My advice to you is stay active, drink lots of water (I drink flavored water. Just make sure there is no sodium) walk as much as possible. And watch your salt intake. If your feet are swollen lay flat on your couch with your feet up on pillows higher than your heart to watch tv. Staying active, walking a lot, drinking water and cutting way back on salt are key.
Good luck. Stay strong and post once in a while.

CaptainTruth

(7,260 posts)
32. We're wishing you all the best!
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 12:44 PM
Oct 15

You are in our thoughts. Stay strong & don't let the whole thing drag you down.

Sending healing energy & hugs...

Trueblue Texan

(2,973 posts)
33. Glad you survived all that and hoping that you are headed to improved health...
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 12:46 PM
Oct 15

I'm also glad you let us all know who you are and that we have you on our side. Please get well and come back to post more! We are on your side as well!

39. Big hugs Brad, and not generic ones, the big Bear Hug type
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 12:51 PM
Oct 15

We can recuperate together. I'm so sorry to hear how things cascaded badly for you. I know, from experience, that each step down the rung hurts so much emotionally. Get your mind wrapped around one thing, and another thing kicks your feet out from under you.

Hang in there. One good thing about us old-time DUers...we are ornery. Hang in there.
Brett

LoisB

(8,861 posts)
40. That is quite a lot to deal with. I truly hope your health issues are resolved fully. Sending good vibes and major
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 12:55 PM
Oct 15

hugs to you.

relayerbob

(7,055 posts)
41. Having similar problems with my heart, might I suggest ...
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 01:01 PM
Oct 15

getting CoQ10, aka ubiquinol. It is actually a requirement if you are taking statins (if you look at the fine print, the manufacturers suggest it), as they stop the liver's production of this critical molecule that feeds your body. When I started taking it, my LVEF was 17% and I was almost unable to do anything. I had developed dry, brittle skin, varicose veins, and had scrapes on my arms that wouldn't heal after months. When I was told by my GP to take the CoQ10, within days, my skin firmed up, the wounds on my arms healed and within a few weeks, the varicose veins mostly went away,. More importantly, I felt 1000 times better, and am able to do almost everything, despite my extremely low LVEF. Wen I see the cardiologists and/or other medical people that are unaware of my history, they are always shocked at how I am, they expect someone in my condition to be in a wheelchair, using oxygen. Not me! With the ubiquinol (there are two types, the ubiquinol version is far better), I have spent the last ten years doing almost everything I would normally do. No cramping, minimal exhaustion, exercising regularly, etc.

And in case, you are concerned, this is non-prescription and is not a drug. It was researched in Japan, and there is a lot of clinical work and studies with it. It is the primary molecule that transports carbohydrates through the cell walls to feed cells. The name ubiquinol comes from the work ubiquitous, because this molecule is used throughout the body, and especially by the heart. There is no overdose limits, as little as 100mg/day will help, I take 400 mg/day, and studies have given people up to 4000 mg/day with zero side effects (although above 300-500 mg/day, there is no benefit, excess is just peed out).

Anyway, just a thought, take it for what is it, I know it has helped me and many, many others.

electric_blue68

(18,421 posts)
103. Good info since I didn't know what CQ-10 actually can do. Wising you...
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 06:35 PM
Oct 15

continued good, stabilized health.

FailureToCommunicate

(14,342 posts)
42. To modify a quote from the Fabulous Furry Freak Brothers: "DU will get you thru times of...
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 01:04 PM
Oct 15

no health, better than health will get you thru times of no DU".

Hang in there, good luck, and keep checking in!

Lulu KC

(4,687 posts)
44. Yikes!
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 01:05 PM
Oct 15

It sounds like you are in good hands but that is some sequence of events. I'm hoping for the very best outcome for you, Generic Brad.

FeelingBlue

(760 posts)
45. All the best to you, Generic Brad!!
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 01:05 PM
Oct 15

You’ll get fabulous care, there! I imagine they are going to get you through this and then you’ll be dealing with a new diet. We are cheering you on!!!! And, make sure you’ve arranged to vote- even from the ICU! We need you!!

All the best in your recovery!!!!

Fla Dem

(25,783 posts)
49. All the best Brad. You certainly have hit a few bumps in the road.
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 01:12 PM
Oct 15

I sincerely wish you as much recovery as possible from all these unexpected medical issues.

Also, just because you're not a chatty Kathy or Chucky you are still very much appreciated and cherished by your DU Family.

Hang in there Brad and never, ever don't hesitate to reach out to us if you're feeling dowm and just need to talk, or if you have a funny story to share. We're here for all of it.!!!

Alliepoo

(2,490 posts)
51. Holy Cow, GB!!
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 01:18 PM
Oct 15

What the heck? I’m sending every good healing vibe your way. If you feel a tingle- it’s all those vibes I’m sending you! You’re in good hands at Vanderbilt. Hope you can try to relax and concentrate on getting better. Your DU family is here wishing you all the best!!

KT2000

(20,903 posts)
56. Had a somewhat similar experience
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 01:26 PM
Oct 15

a few years ago. I learned that the hospital staff is there to save your life and pull you through - they are good at that. You are in the thick of it now but not everything you are going through is permanent and kudos to them for saving your leg. Kidneys are rather cool organs that learn to step up after such trauma - I hope that they do for you.

I wish you well. When you come out of this (please be patient because it may take time) I am betting you will be living with new insights. That in itself is a miracle.

LuckyCharms

(19,064 posts)
58. Hang tough, Brad.
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 01:37 PM
Oct 15

You have a lot going on, but stay strong and you can beat.

Take advantage of the day when you start feeling just a little bit better. Build on that day, and stay positive.

Wishing you all the best.

Figarosmom

(3,035 posts)
61. I wish you well
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 01:47 PM
Oct 15

It's astonishing how fast we start to fall apart. Here's good wishes you'll be put back together and be around for much longer.

Lunabell

(6,999 posts)
62. Getting old is such a bitch.
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 01:50 PM
Oct 15

It's not for the feint of heart. Sending you positive vibes and a big fat DU virtual hug! Get better soon!

bdamomma

(66,615 posts)
68. Oh Brad
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 02:03 PM
Oct 15

I send you healing thoughts and good vibes. And this too: hug: We are all here for you.

The Drs. and Nurses will support you.

Elessar Zappa

(16,033 posts)
70. Someone's always here to talk to.
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 02:07 PM
Oct 15

And if you need to talk to someone, feel free to PM me. I’m on DU basically all day lol. Sending good vibes that your health gets better.

0rganism

(24,715 posts)
73. Glad you're likely to keep your leg and your life together
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 02:16 PM
Oct 15

Blood clots are a serious threat, but you seem to have gotten through the worst of it. Best of luck and godspeed with your healing and reconditioning.

AllaN01Bear

(23,192 posts)
77. im onulsomide for conjestive heart failure 9 years ago. i wonder if the docs will put u on elloquiss .
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 02:29 PM
Oct 15

a dr many moons ago told me to take vitamin e for charlie horses and varicose veins . sending you good vibes ur way.

slightlv

(4,398 posts)
78. Sending healing thoughts and energies your way...
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 02:32 PM
Oct 15

it's a scary time, I can imagine. Hang in there; we look forward to many more articles and posts from you, Brad!
,

H2O Man

(75,677 posts)
81. I hope that
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 02:43 PM
Oct 15

medical treatment is successful, and that you feel much better in the days to come. Please keep us updated on your proogress. And be patient with yourself, and don't try to do too much until you are fully recovered.

kanda

(186 posts)
84. Sending good vibes
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 02:47 PM
Oct 15

Sending you the most sincere healthy vibes possible over the cyber waves. You’ve got a lot to deal with. Hope you have a good support system—friends or family close by to assist.

AmBlue

(3,444 posts)
87. Oh my... that's a lot
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 03:08 PM
Oct 15

I am glad you are at Vanderbilt and in very good hands. I will be sending you healing vibes and all my best wishes for the best possible outcome.

As an aside, I joined DU about the same time as you (after lurking since the election of 2000), and also don't post much tho i read here every day. You've got me beat by almost 3x as many posts lol!!

Get well please, then come back, and don't be a stranger. We are indeed your brethren.

DFW

(56,734 posts)
88. Take on the problems one at a time, or together as your docs think you can handle it.
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 03:11 PM
Oct 15

Though not in your shoes, I'll briefly tell you about two friends of mine.

One was successful businessman in Paris--smart, personable, riding on top of the world. He had recently re-taken up smoking at age 59. I said what in the world for? He said it was just a temporary thing. He usually took Wednesdays off, but one Thursday morning, he didn't show up at the office either. He had suffered a fatal heart attack at home, and was gone by the time his worried employees had the cops break into his home to see if he needed help. They were a day too late.

The other is still with us, but barely, and wishes he weren't. He is German, and we have known him for 50 years. He was a doctor with his own practice, smart wife, two children. Suddenly, his wife ran off with a doctor from Switzerland, told him it was over, and left him high and dry. He found another woman, got re-married, but shortly after that, had a massive stroke, is an invalid who could barely get around on a walker, and developed Parkinson's disease to boot. His son deveöoped a glioblastoma and died, and his daughter now wants no contact with him. About tow or three of his old friends (incliding my wife and myself) keep up any kind of contact with him, and he is looking toward a slow decline into nothing, which he, as a doctor, can diagnose only too well. Now THERE is misery.

You, on the other hand, want to fight your ailments and come out on top, and are looking for the lgiht at the other end of the tunnel. As long as you have that perspective, the fight is worth fighting, and you just might look back at this period and say, man am I glad THAT episode is over and done with! There is no magic pill to take and make what ails you disappear. but if you persist, you might wake up one morning and think to yourself, hey, that's more like it!

And we'll be rooting for you every step of the way.

Wild blueberry

(7,227 posts)
90. All the best to you, G-Brad
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 03:32 PM
Oct 15

Thank you for telling us. You've had some big shocks to your system and are now mending. Your spirit is strong.
Please know you matter to us in DU. Big northern Wisconsin hug!

Dem2theMax

(10,357 posts)
93. Sending tons of positive thoughts your way.
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 04:31 PM
Oct 15

Can't imagine being hit with one big health crisis after another. Glad you are in a good hospital where you can receive great care.

I always notice when you do post, because I love your username.

Someone is always up on DU. I know, because I'm often lurking late Into the night. So don't forget that we are here for you, anytime. And we do mean that. Any time. This place is always open.

Take good care, and I hope your healing goes a lot quicker than you think it will.



True Dough

(20,593 posts)
94. Brad, I hope the outpouring of love in this thread
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 04:35 PM
Oct 15

will mean you're not hesitant to share your predicament again. You're appreciated here. We wish you all the best in recovery and many years of posts (and other pleasures) to come!

HeartsCanHope

(747 posts)
95. I will be thinking of you, and hoping the doctors will be able to help you.
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 04:56 PM
Oct 15

If you are able, please let us know how you are doing. Take care.

rockbluff botanist

(360 posts)
97. Keep fighting, Generic Brad
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 05:04 PM
Oct 15

Sometimes life sends an avalanche of troubles. When this happens, I always ask the universe why it couldn't be spread around.

I hope you have a good network of friends and family. Stay strong.



Ruby the Liberal

(26,321 posts)
98. Wow - you have had a rough few weeks
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 05:16 PM
Oct 15

Thank you for sharing your update. I most certainly know you here, and have enjoyed reading your thoughts over the years. I'll be keeping you in my thoughts.

Get yourself out of the ICU where you can update us without being tangled in a brazillion cords and tubes.



niyad

(120,395 posts)
100. Don't you DARE check out on us!!! Sending vibes for recovery and healing.
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 05:43 PM
Oct 15

Seriously, I am glad that you told us what is going on with you. Please know that your DU family is here for you. Lean as hard as you need. And please keep us posted!

electric_blue68

(18,421 posts)
104. Yikes, what a scary rollercoaster! Wishing you stabalized health, and the best recoveries possible in your various
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 06:41 PM
Oct 15

issues! So you enjoy more years of life and 🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞 Mdme President Kamala's term(s).

(I'm a way later finder, and joiner of DU in 2020. So glad I did)

Nigrum Cattus

(187 posts)
106. Nephrologist
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 07:00 PM
Oct 15

Your nephrologist will be your primary for a while, at least.
Keep as positive an attitude as possible, it helped me greatly with cancers.
Positive vibes for afar !

Hamlette

(15,540 posts)
109. remember
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 08:49 PM
Oct 15

only the good die young. You and I will be around for a good long time yet.

Here's to your health. Hope all goes well.

Bluethroughu

(5,841 posts)
110. Omg...that is so scary! I'm glad they were able to save your leg
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 10:10 PM
Oct 15

From the blood clot. I hope you can get on the mend and work through all this, at least for the next decade! We need you here.

Seriously, I hope you get well soon, and are able to manage the heart for as long as you choose.

LittleGirl

(8,462 posts)
112. Sending cyber hugs
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 11:26 PM
Oct 15

And wish you restful sleep. So glad you posted. I’ll be thinking of you with positivity and peace.

calimary

(84,494 posts)
114. Hugs to you, Generic Brad!
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 11:51 PM
Oct 15

Sending you loads of hugs and good wishes and lots of mental visioning power. Try to keep a mental picture of you as a healthy active older man. Picture yourself as a warrior that fights against the demons trying to trouble your physical self and to push you into the doldrums.

When I was still working, I had the exquisite privilege of interviewing the GREAT Jonathan Winters. He joked about carrying on, knowing it wasn’t time for “the dirt nap”. I had a hard time with that interview - trying to maintain my composure and not burst out laughing at the very idea of “the dirt nap.” What a way to word it! You can hardly even think about it without laughing. And who knows - maybe laughing at it helped him live longer (to the age of 87)!

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jonathan_Winters

murielm99

(31,478 posts)
115. We need you here.
Tue Oct 15, 2024, 11:51 PM
Oct 15

I remember your name and your presence from way back!

We all want to chat with you and keep you company as you recover - and you will recover. I, too, am working through a lot of serious health issues. So are several others here. You can do this. Keep checking in!

MadameButterfly

(1,854 posts)
116. i'm touched that you wanted to let us know so we could
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 01:34 AM
Oct 16

notice and appreciate your presence, no longer taken for granted.
Please let us know how you are doing. I'll look for your name.

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Generic Brad

(14,374 posts)
120. I used my phone to call 911
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 06:24 AM
Oct 16

It was in my pants when I went to the ER. My wife brought that with my chargers to Vanderbiit with everything I had left behind at the ER. Yesterday was the first time I was alone so I used it.

As I was waiting for an ambulance I was dictating what I needed for a go bag. Focusing on details helped me push through the pain.

Life threatening conditions can vary.

augyboston

(268 posts)
119. Wishing you well
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 06:03 AM
Oct 16

Sounds like you've had a really rough go of it lately. Know that you are in our thoughts and we're all wishing you well.

Life is such an irony, success is defined by living a long life, yet the reward for doing so is old age and all the challenges that come with it.

We live in the oldest community in the oldest state. The median age in our town is the oldest in the country. The place feels like a retirement community without the gates. That being said, there are people here who amaze me with their absolute zest for life. I have a close friend who just turned 80. The day after his birthday he went for a forty mile bike ride.

He's an inspiration for me and others in our group. Point is, just put your head down, keep going and try to push through.

UpInArms

(51,845 posts)
122. Sending all my best thoughts for your recovery, Brad
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 07:31 AM
Oct 16

Is it not amazing that we have grown so old so fast?

Get better soon, my DU brother

NH Ethylene

(31,004 posts)
124. Wow! What a cascade!
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 09:22 AM
Oct 16

Wishing you well. It's not easy getting old, as I can attest. I hope you get a few more years of good quality living.

flying_wahini

(8,043 posts)
128. They can do wonders with modern tech and meds. Hang in there!
Wed Oct 16, 2024, 10:08 AM
Oct 16

You really can do this. Sending my good vibes to you!

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