Men And Women Have Different Sexual Regrets, Study Claims

[Major Nikon]

In a study published in the October 2013 issue of Archives of Sexual Behavior, researchers from the University of Texas at Austin, analyzed data from three different studies, one of which included over 24,000 participants. They found that men and women had very different regrets about their sexual pasts. While men tended to regret the sexual adventures they hadn't pursued, female participants expressed regret over the things that they had done.

The most common regrets for women were:
1. Losing their virginity to the wrong partner (24 percent of respondents)
2. Cheating on a present or past partner (23 percent)
3. Moving too fast sexually (20 percent)

The most common regrets for men were entirely different:
1. Failing to make a move on a prospective sexual partner (27 percent of respondents)
2. Not being more sexually adventurous in their youth (23 percent)
3. Not being more sexually adventurous when single (19 percent)

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/12/02/sexual-regrets-differ-men-and-women_n_4372793.html

Abstract

Regret and anticipated regret enhance decision quality by helping people avoid making and repeating mistakes. Some of people’s most intense regrets concern sexual decisions. We hypothesized evolved sex differences in women’s and men’s experiences of sexual regret. Because of women’s higher obligatory costs of reproduction throughout evolutionary history, we hypothesized that sexual actions, particularly those involving casual sex, would be regretted more intensely by women than by men. In contrast, because missed sexual opportunities historically carried higher reproductive fitness costs for men than for women, we hypothesized that poorly chosen sexual inactions would be regretted more by men than by women. Across three studies (Ns = 200, 395, and 24,230), we tested these hypotheses using free responses, written scenarios, detailed checklists, and Internet sampling to achieve participant diversity, including diversity in sexual orientation. Across all data sources, results supported predicted psychological sex differences and these differences were localized in casual sex contexts. These findings are consistent with the notion that the psychology of sexual regret was shaped by recurrent sex differences in selection pressures operating over deep time.

http://link.springer.com/article/10.1007%2Fs10508-012-0019-3

[Bonobo]

1. Socialization

Women are raised to think their squishy parts are golden and that they lose a little value when they are given away.

Men are raised to think their squishy parts are dirty and can only be cleaned by exposure to the golden parts, or something.

[Major Nikon]

3. It's called the virginity culture

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Virginity#Cultural_value

[radicalliberal]

2. Perhaps this is a manifestation of -- yep, you guessed it --

our old "friend" the double standard.

[loli phabay]

4. yep, pretty much sums it up, its weird how we look back and think of all the wasted chances for

A romp in the hay.