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Bonobo

(29,257 posts)
Thu Jul 12, 2012, 08:09 PM Jul 2012

War, the Draft, sending men to kill --Is that sexism?

Forcing men to go and kill.

Is that sexism?

In WW2, Japan forced women to become prostitutes to service soldiers --a hideous crime against them. but is it WORSE than forcing men to become murderers?

Looking forward to a free and open discussion...

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War, the Draft, sending men to kill --Is that sexism? (Original Post) Bonobo Jul 2012 OP
Uhm, you fail to recognize who decided men should be forced to go and kill. Lionessa Jul 2012 #1
Doesn't make it any less horrible or sexist. nt Bonobo Jul 2012 #2
I don't think you can call the gender that is making decisions about it's own gender, sexist against Lionessa Jul 2012 #3
Yes, men. Usually old men... Bonobo Jul 2012 #6
Seems to me that the US military in the past 75 years has been HereSince1628 Jul 2012 #11
It's origination though was that men thought of women as inferior, so the sexism that created it is Lionessa Jul 2012 #13
The definition of sexism is "discriminating against people on the basis of their gender" Bonobo Jul 2012 #17
But it's not because of their gender, it's because old white guys want to get rid of the young poor Lionessa Jul 2012 #28
But men (or their families) generally do get compensation for fighting in war. antigone382 Aug 2012 #62
I believe that's called ageism, though normally one thinks about it being young against old these Lionessa Jul 2012 #25
Please explain that. HereSince1628 Jul 2012 #8
You can still call them sexist against women, which is how this idea that men should go to war Lionessa Jul 2012 #10
Sorry that wasn't actually the question I wanted answered. HereSince1628 Jul 2012 #15
I mean pick another reason. As mentioned above and throughout, it can be ageism, class-ism, but it Lionessa Jul 2012 #27
Of course it can. Women can be sexist against women, men men. Any member of a group can uppityperson Jul 2012 #51
Ha ha....."your" group ProudToBeBlueInRhody Jul 2012 #24
I agree its a class and age thing, hence why I say it can't really be a sexism thing. Lionessa Jul 2012 #26
Questionable logic. lumberjack_jeff Jul 2012 #37
I didn't say opinions couldn't be sexist within the same sex, however when the power over that sex Lionessa Jul 2012 #39
If I think that you are weak, helpless and comparatively precious... lumberjack_jeff Jul 2012 #40
Not all women believe as you suggest as proven by women voluteering and serving with honor. Lionessa Jul 2012 #42
That's the thing. Society doesn't do it *to men*, it just does it. lumberjack_jeff Jul 2012 #43
If the decision is based on sex, yes, they can be sexist. Even if by the person of that gender. uppityperson Jul 2012 #52
in this case, but its not always been so in history, plenty of times when a women has been the one loli phabay Jul 2012 #4
I think forced is the keyword here. Lionessa Jul 2012 #7
no problem with people of either sex being outrageous and unique loli phabay Jul 2012 #14
Not funny in my opinion, but that discussion has been all over DU, so I'll leave it there. Lionessa Jul 2012 #16
you do realise that it was funny peculiar and not funny haha loli phabay Jul 2012 #18
Yeah, I guess I did. Lionessa Jul 2012 #19
no problem i figured it was just an accidentql thing, :) loli phabay Jul 2012 #20
No, I've got a difficult decision to make and I fear I'm being nitpicky about everything. Lionessa Jul 2012 #21
Well i hold no grudge or malice and understand completely, try and get some sleep and hope it works loli phabay Jul 2012 #22
That is one of the more sexist comments I've seen 4th law of robotics Jul 2012 #33
I said, some I did not say all. Lionessa Jul 2012 #35
But what about teh womynz!?!? 4th law of robotics Jul 2012 #45
Yes of course. Being drafted and sent off to be maimed or killed against your will is a clear sign 4th law of robotics Jul 2012 #32
It's an -ism, I'm just saying it isn't sexism. Lionessa Jul 2012 #34
Interesting, because I've seen countless op-eds explaining how women can be culpable 4th law of robotics Jul 2012 #44
I wouldn't call what women do to each other sexism either. Lionessa Jul 2012 #46
Sure sure. The definition is revised at need 4th law of robotics Jul 2012 #47
Japanese men made that decision against women, hence sexism. Lionessa Jul 2012 #48
Actually it's voters that make that choice Major Nikon Aug 2012 #64
A vote directly related to who goes to war was never offered tmk. Lionessa Aug 2012 #65
So how many election cycles passed during the Iraqi war and the Afghanistan war? Major Nikon Aug 2012 #66
Wow, what dream world do you live in, and why are you trying to suggest that women haven't Lionessa Aug 2012 #67
Please post exactly where I claimed anything within a cab ride of this Major Nikon Aug 2012 #68
The US Selective Service is, by definition, sexist: NYC_SKP Jul 2012 #5
Due to the dramatic change of our armed forces and our techniques and the show Lionessa Jul 2012 #9
So our current all volunteer force isn't sexist? Kaleva Jul 2012 #12
Well no, it still discriminates against women. It is a sexist institutiion. Warren Stupidity Jul 2012 #29
yeah I guess so but better just to end the draft for everybody. limpyhobbler Jul 2012 #23
Not according to a lot of people on du. Warren Stupidity Jul 2012 #30
Oh yeah I forgot I had the opposite position yesterday. limpyhobbler Jul 2012 #31
Yea Dokkie Sep 2012 #72
No, not sexist. caseymoz Jul 2012 #36
Is the notion that 'men are better suited for combat than women' sexist? ZenLefty Jul 2012 #38
Yes. Belief that your sex is inherently better than the other at anything is sexist. n/t lumberjack_jeff Jul 2012 #41
Men are inherently stronger and better suited to the rigors of combat and austere environments. Clames Jul 2012 #49
We don't fight with battle-axes anymore. Bonobo Jul 2012 #50
If you think pointing a gun is all there is to it... Clames Jul 2012 #60
Women in conquered nations weren't forced to becoem prostitutes obamanut2012 Jul 2012 #53
"The sex slaves were often tied into a chair with their legs spread, and raped with sticks, bayonets Bonobo Jul 2012 #55
Are you kidding me? obamanut2012 Jul 2012 #56
No, asking for a link is not appalling. Bonobo Jul 2012 #57
Except it isn't made up, which you know obamanut2012 Jul 2012 #58
I had never seen such dramatic evidence. Bonobo Jul 2012 #59
"So, yeah, that really is worse than a draft. " 4th law of robotics Jul 2012 #61
Now, in these days, with the technology we have? Yes. It is sexism. Not going to argue which is uppityperson Jul 2012 #54
Today's military... discntnt_irny_srcsm Aug 2012 #63
In any situation where a disposable human is needed it is invariably men 4th law of robotics Aug 2012 #69
Ann Romney is no less wealthy than Mitt. lumberjack_jeff Aug 2012 #70
Thats a hard one Dokkie Sep 2012 #71
Yes, it is sexism. ChaoticTrilby Oct 2012 #73
Good thing we have an all volunteer military. Pterodactyl Dec 2012 #74
Yes,now. But in my lifetime, there was a draft and draft registration. nt Bonobo Dec 2012 #75
That was one good thing Nixon did. Pterodactyl Dec 2012 #76
17,725 draftees (30.4%) died in Vietnam.. Upton Dec 2012 #77
Yes, but it can't be discussed as a male issue cause we did it to ourselves, right? Bonobo Dec 2012 #78
Apparently so...at least that's what I keep seeing.. Upton Dec 2012 #79
It is Always the Mans Fault Macoy51 Jan 2013 #80
The same people who claim it's always the man's fault for men's problems... Major Nikon Jan 2013 #81
 

Lionessa

(3,894 posts)
1. Uhm, you fail to recognize who decided men should be forced to go and kill.
Thu Jul 12, 2012, 08:11 PM
Jul 2012

That would be, uhm, y'know....


MEN!

Bonobo

(29,257 posts)
2. Doesn't make it any less horrible or sexist. nt
Thu Jul 12, 2012, 08:14 PM
Jul 2012

You can't really mean to say that men can't be sexist against men and women can't be sexist against women and blacks can't be racist against blacks, right?

 

Lionessa

(3,894 posts)
3. I don't think you can call the gender that is making decisions about it's own gender, sexist against
Thu Jul 12, 2012, 08:17 PM
Jul 2012

that gender.

What exactly do want, for women to unitedly become equally stupid and force men to allow us to be forced?

We're not talking about individual sexism, we're talking about a group making a decision about a group. If you don't like it, see the folks who head your group and get it to stop. Simple as that. Surprisingly though women needed the help of men to get the right to vote, men haven't needed anyone else to have that right and make changes.

Bonobo

(29,257 posts)
6. Yes, men. Usually old men...
Thu Jul 12, 2012, 08:27 PM
Jul 2012

And the men that are forced to become murderers are usually young, poor men.

So should I split it up into groups of old vs. young, or rich vs. poor? Would that make a difference?

I just don't think you can say that it is not an issue of "sexism" because the perpetrators of the crime are members of the same gender. So we all have penises, big deal. The bottom line is that for 99.99% of the victims of this, they have no control over the issue. So your claim that it is as simple as "seeing the folks who head your group and get it to stop" is a bit facile, isn't it?

HereSince1628

(36,063 posts)
11. Seems to me that the US military in the past 75 years has been
Thu Jul 12, 2012, 08:35 PM
Jul 2012

ageist, classist, racist, and sexist. At least one Government run Military Academy also promoted christianity.



 

Lionessa

(3,894 posts)
13. It's origination though was that men thought of women as inferior, so the sexism that created it is
Thu Jul 12, 2012, 08:38 PM
Jul 2012

opposite of the sexism you're implying. And to my way of thinking, until you undo what you've done to yourselves, and heaven forbid the pendulum swings the other way (ie women force men to fignt wars), then you can't claim you are experiencing sexism as your attempting to. To me it just doesn't work with this idea because of its origination.

Bonobo

(29,257 posts)
17. The definition of sexism is "discriminating against people on the basis of their gender"
Thu Jul 12, 2012, 08:50 PM
Jul 2012

I do not see, anywhere in the definition, a part about WHO is doing the discriminating, nor do I think it is relevant to the issue.

The fact is that, the view of men as killers on one hand and women as sex-givers on the other, are mirror images of each other and completely entertained.

Therefore, it is unreasonable to expect that women deserve compensation for forced sex in war while men deserve nothing for being forced to kill and die in war.

You imply that all men are responsible for the way things are because men make the decisions. But women have traditionally been the ones who raise children --should I attribute the sexist attitudes (such as that men need to "bring home the bacon" and "do the fighting&quot as resulting mainly from how women raise their children? Do women deserve more blame for indoctrinating children with these stereotypical views?

 

Lionessa

(3,894 posts)
28. But it's not because of their gender, it's because old white guys want to get rid of the young poor
Fri Jul 13, 2012, 01:32 AM
Jul 2012

guys for a variety of reasons. It's not about gender or sex. The only sexism is against women, not men, in the military.

antigone382

(3,682 posts)
62. But men (or their families) generally do get compensation for fighting in war.
Sun Aug 26, 2012, 06:08 PM
Aug 2012

In the U.S., it's things like the GI Bill, VA, Veteran's benefits, etc. I can't speak for how they were compensated in Japan, but I can't imagine they went without any recognition for their sacrifice...indeed, the highest honors are reserved for those who fight, are injured, or die in battle--soldiers are acclaimed with medals, monuments, and nearly legendary status--while someone who has worked as a prostitute is viewed as essentially corrupted, and more or less denied the chance to ever play an honorable role in society.

That doesn't dismiss the awfulness of sending soldiers to die in wars that benefit the few, and their suffering is certainly a gendered thing. But I don't think that pointing out the gender-based injustice and oppression faced by both men and women needs to be a competition. It has the same root cause. The same power elites (generally but not universally upper class males) are subjugating both groups to maintain their own status.

 

Lionessa

(3,894 posts)
25. I believe that's called ageism, though normally one thinks about it being young against old these
Fri Jul 13, 2012, 01:25 AM
Jul 2012

days. Yes, you should break them up into groups by age since that's more accurate, and call it ageism, which is what it is, oh, and a healthy dose of greed, because the young men you kill the more there is for old men and with less threat of losing to a young man. Just saying, you have hit the nail on the head, you just don't realize it, I think.

HereSince1628

(36,063 posts)
8. Please explain that.
Thu Jul 12, 2012, 08:31 PM
Jul 2012

"I don't think you can call the gender that is making decisions about it's own gender, sexist against that gender.





 

Lionessa

(3,894 posts)
10. You can still call them sexist against women, which is how this idea that men should go to war
Thu Jul 12, 2012, 08:34 PM
Jul 2012

originated and women should be ... well many things over the years but not on the battle field. Right?

HereSince1628

(36,063 posts)
15. Sorry that wasn't actually the question I wanted answered.
Thu Jul 12, 2012, 08:46 PM
Jul 2012

I would like to know about the philosophical underpinnings of the notion that a person can't make a sexist comment about their own sex.

Is someone in feminist theory responsible for that, or does it follow from some more general principle?







 

Lionessa

(3,894 posts)
27. I mean pick another reason. As mentioned above and throughout, it can be ageism, class-ism, but it
Fri Jul 13, 2012, 01:29 AM
Jul 2012

can't be sexism if it is it's own sex perpetrating it against itself. Then it must be something(s) else.

uppityperson

(115,871 posts)
51. Of course it can. Women can be sexist against women, men men. Any member of a group can
Sat Jul 14, 2012, 09:46 PM
Jul 2012

perpetuate "Xism" against other members of a group.

 

Lionessa

(3,894 posts)
26. I agree its a class and age thing, hence why I say it can't really be a sexism thing.
Fri Jul 13, 2012, 01:28 AM
Jul 2012

We are actually agreeing, I'm not sure why you sound disagreeable about it.

 

lumberjack_jeff

(33,224 posts)
37. Questionable logic.
Fri Jul 13, 2012, 02:02 PM
Jul 2012

So long as most of the decisionmakers are right-handed only left handed people can claim victimization/persecution/oppression.

The entire basis of your logic is that handedness is the only meaningful foundation of bias.

If person A looks more or less like person B, then person B has no valid claim of systemic oppression.

A better case could be made that women are denied equality - being discriminated against - by patriarchal prohibitions on sending them to die for geopolitical whims.

Yes. The male only draft is sexist because women must share the same responsibilities of citizenship to be equal. Sexism isn't limited to "things that harm women".

One other thing, would you consider the following quote sexist?

I think [women] should be armed but should not vote ... women have no capacity to understand how money is earned. They have a lot of ideas on how to spend it ... it's always more money on education, more money on child care, more money on day care.


Does the fact that it was said by a woman matter? If no, then it is demonstrably possible to be sexist against your own gender, institutionally as well as individually.
 

Lionessa

(3,894 posts)
39. I didn't say opinions couldn't be sexist within the same sex, however when the power over that sex
Fri Jul 13, 2012, 02:34 PM
Jul 2012

is the same sex, then something else is the motivation, not sexism. As suggested numerous times, and not just by me, it becomes more an issue of age-ism, elite-ism, and greed, and even other potential -isms, but it isn't sexism against it's own gender. (though I maintain that sexism against women in the armed forces is still a problem)

 

lumberjack_jeff

(33,224 posts)
40. If I think that you are weak, helpless and comparatively precious...
Fri Jul 13, 2012, 03:46 PM
Jul 2012

Then I'll send men off to die in wars instead, right?

A sexist bias that works in your favor is still a sexist bias.

 

Lionessa

(3,894 posts)
42. Not all women believe as you suggest as proven by women voluteering and serving with honor.
Fri Jul 13, 2012, 03:54 PM
Jul 2012

So the premise that it is in my or any others woman's favor is a strawman.

Secondly, I never said it wasn't sexist against/for (a subjective perspective to be sure) women, I said sexism isn't the reason men do it to themselves.

Now I've repeated this dozens of times in this thread. Having a masculine brain in my head, I thought a conversation in the mens' forum, wouldn't be plagued with this kind of passive aggressive bs. Clearly I was being sexist. I'll work on that.

Good day.

 

lumberjack_jeff

(33,224 posts)
43. That's the thing. Society doesn't do it *to men*, it just does it.
Fri Jul 13, 2012, 04:08 PM
Jul 2012

Society's prevailing sexist stereotypes guide our decisions.

The belief that men are aggressive, violent and disposable (see "women and children first" and "every man for himself&quot has a bookend; women are passive, indispensible helpless victims. Thus it is morally wrong to draft the latter into the military, and a bad idea to boot.

Sexism is all one thing. We're never going to get equality so long as the convenient stereotypes are internalized and promulgated.

I thought a conversation in the mens' forum, wouldn't be plagued with this kind of passive aggressive bs. Clearly I was being sexist. I'll work on that.


It might be worthwhile to look up "passive aggression". While you're at it, try "projection".

uppityperson

(115,871 posts)
52. If the decision is based on sex, yes, they can be sexist. Even if by the person of that gender.
Sat Jul 14, 2012, 09:47 PM
Jul 2012

Rather like racist, or ageism, or any other "ism". Being a member of a group does not exclude anyone from being "groupist".

 

loli phabay

(5,580 posts)
4. in this case, but its not always been so in history, plenty of times when a women has been the one
Thu Jul 12, 2012, 08:18 PM
Jul 2012

sending men off to war. Its an interesting question though as to whats worse, i guess it depends on an individuals perspective and if they would find the conditions of forced sex slaves or forced cannon fodder comparable or worse than each other.

 

Lionessa

(3,894 posts)
7. I think forced is the keyword here.
Thu Jul 12, 2012, 08:29 PM
Jul 2012

There are plenty of people who want to kill and enlist, there are plenty of women that like men in uniform and would volunteer for such jobs if a society wasn't so uptight. So why forced anything, really. We demonize women that hang around and sleep with our soldiers, here and abroad, and honor the men that are clients. Societies need to let women be as unique and outrageous as men, many very prominent as well respected by many, within obvious age and consent considerations. Then force and gender stops being an issue. Clearly there are women on the front lines, and currently men are not being drafted, so for the USA, this is a hypothetical at this moment and time, from the killing aspect.

The forced sex, unless all Nam and Korean war shows/movies/etc are totally wrong, like I said above, there are women more than willing, just treat them with respect, let them have ways of acquiring whats required for safe-sex, and hope they spend well at your place of business. That's my take on that aspect. Perhaps the Japanese like our society, had pushed the shame of female sexuality outside the marriage to a poiint that they could find no volunteers agreeable to the shame of self and family. So end the shame to family, call it an honor, and the problem resolves itself.

 

loli phabay

(5,580 posts)
14. no problem with people of either sex being outrageous and unique
Thu Jul 12, 2012, 08:42 PM
Jul 2012

was just commenting on the different perspectives of whether its worse to be forced as a women to sexually service strangers or to be forced as a man to don a tin hat and pick up a rifle and storm a position that means certain death. As you say there are plenty of men and women who would volunteer to do either job whether out of idealism or for good pay and its funny how one is acceptable but the other is scorned.

 

Lionessa

(3,894 posts)
21. No, I've got a difficult decision to make and I fear I'm being nitpicky about everything.
Thu Jul 12, 2012, 09:49 PM
Jul 2012

I lose my sense of humor when I'm deep in analysis, everything becomes literal for me. Perhaps a sign I should sign off for the night.

 

loli phabay

(5,580 posts)
22. Well i hold no grudge or malice and understand completely, try and get some sleep and hope it works
Thu Jul 12, 2012, 10:03 PM
Jul 2012

out ok

 

Lionessa

(3,894 posts)
35. I said, some I did not say all.
Fri Jul 13, 2012, 01:01 PM
Jul 2012

I also said some women like to have plenty of sex with uniformed men, I notice that didn't bother you, hmmm.

 

4th law of robotics

(6,801 posts)
45. But what about teh womynz!?!?
Sat Jul 14, 2012, 02:03 PM
Jul 2012

Perhaps if you're looking for sympathy for the plight of women in war (apparently they suffer horribly, men enjoy it) try on the women's forum. Not in the men's group.

 

4th law of robotics

(6,801 posts)
32. Yes of course. Being drafted and sent off to be maimed or killed against your will is a clear sign
Fri Jul 13, 2012, 08:53 AM
Jul 2012

of male privilege.

Maybe the next major war we can send only women so they can be equally privileged.



Lucky bastards.

/you confuse the privilege of a tiny fraction of a fraction of men (how many men out of the total population are running things?) with the entire gender. Men in charge aren't looking out for men. They're looking out for themselves.

 

Lionessa

(3,894 posts)
34. It's an -ism, I'm just saying it isn't sexism.
Fri Jul 13, 2012, 12:58 PM
Jul 2012

That was the OP's premise, and it's false. When men screw men, it's age-ism, elite-ism, greed, and so much more, but it isn't sexism.

 

4th law of robotics

(6,801 posts)
44. Interesting, because I've seen countless op-eds explaining how women can be culpable
Sat Jul 14, 2012, 02:02 PM
Jul 2012

in perpetuating stereotypes and sexism against women (slut-shaming is one of the biggest areas of complaints).

But apparently men can't perpetuate the stereotype that men are disposable killing machines.

That only works one way: so women can perpetuate the evil patriarchy. But men cannot possible act against the interests of other men.

 

Lionessa

(3,894 posts)
46. I wouldn't call what women do to each other sexism either.
Sat Jul 14, 2012, 02:57 PM
Jul 2012

Again, it would be an -ism, but not sexism, in my opinion.

For example, Jan Brewer signing into law a bill that says pregnancy starts the first day after one's last period. A woman making a hateful choice for women. But not sexism, it's hunger for power, money, and all the perks that come from nutjobs with money, religious, CCA, she's sees a lot of benefit, but she doesn't hate women, she just prefers old white women who hate the idea of young women enjoying themselves. It's amazing to me that these same women, many were coming of age just around the hippy years, and yet they are the worse now for voting for anti-choice agendas. It's still not sexism, it's entirely something else. I will agree however that women do adopt male forms of manipulating and humiliating women into obedience, because it works for most women,. . . so far.

 

4th law of robotics

(6,801 posts)
47. Sure sure. The definition is revised at need
Sat Jul 14, 2012, 02:59 PM
Jul 2012

to suit whatever argument is being made at that moment.

Yes or no: society viewing one gender as being mostly good for one thing (in this case dying painfully) is a sign of sexism?

I don't think anyone would have trouble saying that the Japanese deeming women to be valuable only for providing sexual services to men is a sexist decision.

 

Lionessa

(3,894 posts)
48. Japanese men made that decision against women, hence sexism.
Sat Jul 14, 2012, 03:34 PM
Jul 2012

As for revising definitions, please find where I've said that women are suffering at the hands of sexist women? I've never said such. I believe you have me confused with someone else.

Bless your heart.

Major Nikon

(36,900 posts)
64. Actually it's voters that make that choice
Mon Aug 27, 2012, 05:17 PM
Aug 2012

If being anti-war was that important, the electorate would vote in anti-war candidates. Seeing as how 54% of eligible voters are women, I'd say they are at least as responsible as men for these choices.

 

Lionessa

(3,894 posts)
65. A vote directly related to who goes to war was never offered tmk.
Mon Aug 27, 2012, 05:41 PM
Aug 2012

And the Legislature is primarily men, and the presidents that signed the bills were men. Nice trying to blame women, but monumental fail.

Major Nikon

(36,900 posts)
66. So how many election cycles passed during the Iraqi war and the Afghanistan war?
Mon Aug 27, 2012, 11:04 PM
Aug 2012

The Iraq War lasted over 8 years. That's 4 election cycles. The Afghanistan War has lasted over 11. That's 5 election cycles. If the voting public wanted these wars to end, it would have only taken 1 election cycle to prevent continued funding of the wars. Furthermore if the electorate had been anti-war to begin with, many of the people who made those decisions would have never been in office in the first place.

Unlike you, I'm not trying to blame men or women. I blame the electorate as a whole which happens to include men and women. Either you didn't understand my point, or you're simply being disingenuous with my comment.

 

Lionessa

(3,894 posts)
67. Wow, what dream world do you live in, and why are you trying to suggest that women haven't
Mon Aug 27, 2012, 11:27 PM
Aug 2012

effectively been in combat since the Iraq war? Perhaps not on paper, but certainly in reality, as I am absolutely certain there are women with war injuries as well as deaths.

As far as people wanting us out of wars, I believe most polls show that to be the case, but as usual the Legislature and the President do as they please.

Major Nikon

(36,900 posts)
68. Please post exactly where I claimed anything within a cab ride of this
Tue Aug 28, 2012, 12:16 AM
Aug 2012

And I'm the one living in a dream world?

That is rich.

If your debate tactics include putting words in people's mouths to somehow score rhetorical points which you seem unable to do otherwise, I really wish you would find a new playmate as I'm just not into those games. This makes twice you've done this, and I'm just not biting anymore, especially since I've given you far more courtesy than your condescending replies deserve. Clearly your only interest is in being argumentative, and you don't even seem to be doing all that well at that. Feel free to have the last word as I'm sure such things are greatly important to you.

Cheers!

 

NYC_SKP

(68,644 posts)
5. The US Selective Service is, by definition, sexist:
Thu Jul 12, 2012, 08:20 PM
Jul 2012

(unless they've changed this)

Penalties for Failure to Register for the Draft

Men who do not register could be prosecuted and, if convicted, fined up to $250,000 and/or serve up to five years in prison. In addition, men who fail to register with Selective Service before turning age 26, even if not prosecuted, will become ineligible for:

Student Financial Aid - including Pell Grants, College Work Study, Guaranteed Student/Plus Loans, and National Direct Student Loans.
U.S. Citizenship - if the man first arrived in the U.S. before his 26th birthday.
Federal Job Training - The Job Training Partnership Act (JTPA) offers programs that can train young men for jobs in auto mechanics and other skills. This program is only open to those men who register with Selective Service.
Federal Jobs - men born after December 31, 1959 must be registered to be eligible for jobs in the Executive Branch of the Federal government and the U.S. Postal Service.

In addition, several states have added additional penalties for those who fail to register.

http://usgovinfo.about.com/od/defenseandsecurity/a/draftreg.htm


It seems to apply only to men. FWIW, I wouldn't seek to change it to include women, but I would seek to eliminate it altogether as part of a huge reduction in our military expenditures.

 

Lionessa

(3,894 posts)
9. Due to the dramatic change of our armed forces and our techniques and the show
Thu Jul 12, 2012, 08:32 PM
Jul 2012

of women (even with outstanding issues; surely I don't want to forget military rape or similar issues) have shown to be good soldiers on and off.

So either 100% volunteer,
Or everyone.

I agree that rule is sexist and should go.

Kaleva

(38,171 posts)
12. So our current all volunteer force isn't sexist?
Thu Jul 12, 2012, 08:36 PM
Jul 2012

As everyone serving has volunteered "to go and kill".

 

Warren Stupidity

(48,181 posts)
29. Well no, it still discriminates against women. It is a sexist institutiion.
Fri Jul 13, 2012, 06:40 AM
Jul 2012

However as the draft has been inactive since 1975, that part of it is not a factor in the oppression of men or women, other than men still being compelled to register.

limpyhobbler

(8,244 posts)
31. Oh yeah I forgot I had the opposite position yesterday.
Fri Jul 13, 2012, 07:15 AM
Jul 2012

I really need to get my act together.

I think we should have the draft but only for families making more than $269,000 /year income.

Just to equalize things. Since poorer people have money pressures compelling them to join the military.

Draft the sons and daughters of the rich.

This will end all wars.

 

Dokkie

(1,688 posts)
72. Yea
Sat Sep 1, 2012, 08:51 AM
Sep 2012

reinstating the draft will make new wars very difficult to start. Think of how most of the voters totally disregard the war issue, they probably say to themselves "I will never go off to fight" "it doesnt affect me" etc etc.

Reinstating the draft will bring about those massive war demonstrations, voters will come out in full force to voter out the people promoting and funding the wars

Please reinstate the draft for men and women.

caseymoz

(5,763 posts)
36. No, not sexist.
Fri Jul 13, 2012, 02:01 PM
Jul 2012

The draft was perceived as a necessity, and in fact, in the US was only implemented after hostilities had started. In other words, reluctantly and as a necessary evil.

Whereas the sex slaves were not. Almost every country did not do what the Japanese did. Oh, other belligerents did other violations of rights, but the Japanese could have very well conducted the war without sex slavery.

In other words: nobody questioned the draft. Things had always been like that. It was a war, they needed soldiers, they weren't going to question it. Whereas putting women into sex slavery was questionable. So, someone had to consciously put the policy into place. That was a direct act of sexism.

The other thing is, the worldwide culture was different. Telling soldiers to fight was not considered in any way as awful as telling the soldiers to bugger each other for sexual relief. You could bet that order would have never come down. The fact is, they either did not consider it as shameful if the women performed sex acts for men, or they did not think the women mattered. If they had died "in service," nobody was going to write a letter to the family lauding their daughter's sacrifice for the country.

To underscore this fact, the Japanese did not draft their own women like that. No, they drafted Korean women into it. I don't think they impressed Korean men into military service. So, there was some other shameful quality to it that carried the sexism. It was made to shame them and put their country in its place. You could bet that these women are owed compensation.

Any order our military to commit rape or violate a person is an illegal order, but they can order a man or women in service to kill. It underscores that there is a certain psychological quality to rape which is even more shameful than murder. I'm not saying it's rational, but it's there.

So, I'm sorry to disagree. Sexism comes down to the emotional reason why a decision is made, not necessarily to the gender of the people who are burdened with it.

ZenLefty

(20,924 posts)
38. Is the notion that 'men are better suited for combat than women' sexist?
Fri Jul 13, 2012, 02:30 PM
Jul 2012

If it is, then yes, a male only draft is sexist*.

To answer your second question, I feel that it is worse to force women to become prostitutes to service soldiers. That's not just sexism, that's rape, and to me that's worse.

* There seems to be over 150,000 definitions of 'sexist' on this website, so I went with Merriam-Webster: (i) Prejudice or discrimination based on sex; especially ((but not excluding)) discrimination against women.

 

Clames

(2,038 posts)
49. Men are inherently stronger and better suited to the rigors of combat and austere environments.
Sat Jul 14, 2012, 07:27 PM
Jul 2012

Not sexism. Just genetics.



I also take exception to those of you who labor under the belief that those in the armed forces are somehow forced to become murderers. I'm sure if any of you that held such views actually interacted with a group of service members for any length of time would realize how utterly ignorant and myopic such statements are. Very shameful such statements are aired on DU. Supposed to be better than that here...

Bonobo

(29,257 posts)
50. We don't fight with battle-axes anymore.
Sat Jul 14, 2012, 09:35 PM
Jul 2012

Pointing a gun can be done just as well by women as men. And as far as "austere" environments, I do not agree that men are inherently better suited to surviving extreme cold, heat or hunger. In fact, probably the opposite is true.

As to the murderer part, I am not referring to your volunteer army. Whether you call it "killing" or "murder" is really a matter of semantics. But I am of the opinion that if a country drafts someone against their will, gives them a weapon and tells them to kill, they are forcing a person to become a murderer. If it offends you to hear that killing makes a person a murderer, I think you need to toughen up or think a little harder.

 

Clames

(2,038 posts)
60. If you think pointing a gun is all there is to it...
Sun Jul 15, 2012, 12:09 AM
Jul 2012

...then you have a serious misunderstanding of the situation.

It's not just pointing an 8 lb rifle. It's carrying 75 - 100+ lbs of gear, rations, water, and ammunition to go along with it. The body armor with SAPI plates alone is 40+ lbs. Sophisticated communications and other electronics takes batteries....LOTS of them. Women have a tendency to shift loads lower towards their hips because they don't have the absolute torso strength to support a load up high. This puts much more stress on the hips, knees, and ankles as they adjust their marching gait. 30 - 40 lbs there isn't much difference between men and women. 50 lbs and more it becomes significant. Nobody is going to the field with less than 50 lbs anymore, that's exceeded with IBA, rifle, ammo, and water easily. Muscle doesn't just move a load it also supports and spreads the load evenly through the body structure. Men do handle austere environments better and anyone with a basic understanding of the physiological differences understands why. Killing and murder maybe just a matter of semantics to you (your are obviously no lawyer) but it makes a difference especially since nobody is drafted against their will these days and hasn't been in several decades. Outdated thinking entirely but it is only your opinion. I think you need to think much harder though.

obamanut2012

(27,807 posts)
53. Women in conquered nations weren't forced to becoem prostitutes
Sat Jul 14, 2012, 09:50 PM
Jul 2012

That was a lie, and is a lie still continued by many in the Japanese government even today.

The so-called "Comfort Women" were sex slaves, and were raped and beaten until they died. Some of the Korean sex slaves lived, but most of the Chinese victims died. Girls as young as seven and as old as 80+ were forced into this. The sex slaves were often tied into a chair with their legs spread, and raped with sticks, bayonets, and other foreign objects.

So, yeah, that really is worse than a draft.

I personally believe there should be no draft or a universal one, if women are allowed to fill all roles in the military, although morally I believe in no draft.

Bonobo

(29,257 posts)
55. "The sex slaves were often tied into a chair with their legs spread, and raped with sticks, bayonets
Sat Jul 14, 2012, 09:55 PM
Jul 2012

Can you post a link to where you got that information?

obamanut2012

(27,807 posts)
56. Are you kidding me?
Sat Jul 14, 2012, 10:09 PM
Jul 2012


It has been common knowledge. Unless you are stating all of the testimony of Korean and Chinese Comfort Women were lies. Or that Japanese soldiers, who took photographic evidence of doing this, photoshopped these photos? Maybe you think Japanese soldiers and officials were admitted to these war crimes were just making it all up?

You do realize that your asking that is as appalling and insulting as asking me to post a link to where I got information showing Jews were killed by the Nazis? If you don't realize that, then I feel very, very sorry for you.

No, I won't post any links, just like I won't post links showing the devastation to Pearl Harbor, or the Rape of Nanking, or the firebombing of Dresden, or Nagasaki. or London being bombed, or the piles of bodies at Bergen-Belsen. These are historical facts, not some kind of propaganda, no matter how much modern Japanese Fascist groups try to say it's all lies lies lies!

My God.

Bonobo

(29,257 posts)
57. No, asking for a link is not appalling.
Sat Jul 14, 2012, 10:18 PM
Jul 2012

Feel as sorry for me as you want, but if you don't actually have a source where you learned that very specific information about being tied to a chair and raped with bayonets, than I don't see why you can expect me to believe that it is anything other than a made up detail.

I never said that the sex slaves in WW2 weren't terrible --I merely asked for a source for your specific information.

If you can't share a source, let me just say I am not surprised. It sounds sort of made up.

obamanut2012

(27,807 posts)
58. Except it isn't made up, which you know
Sat Jul 14, 2012, 11:04 PM
Jul 2012

am, quite frankly, disgusted that this is allowed to be posted in this forum. I know a lot of the guys who post in here, and we respect one another. I know that they would not post something denying something that is a FACTUAL WAR CRIME, with photographic evidence, with testimony.

People also thought Rudy Vrba was lying when he escaped Auschwitz and told about the ovens. It sounded kinda made up and far fetched, you see. And yes, I do feel sorry for you.

A quick and simple Yahoo or Google search shows returns many, many hits. Just as a search on Nazis raping Ukrainian women would.

Here are just the first two hits. I'm sure you will proclaim these lies. Both include sex slaves tied to chairs. Gosh, how far fetched and kinda madeup sounding, huh?! Why does admitting Japan committed these war crimes seem to bother you so much? Don't bother to answer. I won't be able to see it.

http://sun.menloschool.org/~khanson/westernstudies/wwii/nanking/terror.html

http://wwww.c-spanvideo.org/appearance/600394734





 

4th law of robotics

(6,801 posts)
61. "So, yeah, that really is worse than a draft. "
Sun Jul 15, 2012, 12:19 AM
Jul 2012

Indeed.

No man every drafted was subject to physical abuse and ultimately death.

Never.

Male soldiers mostly spent their time riding roller coasters and eating cotton candy.

uppityperson

(115,871 posts)
54. Now, in these days, with the technology we have? Yes. It is sexism. Not going to argue which is
Sat Jul 14, 2012, 09:51 PM
Jul 2012

worse though as both are awful and need to be stopped.

discntnt_irny_srcsm

(18,577 posts)
63. Today's military...
Sun Aug 26, 2012, 10:41 PM
Aug 2012

...is volunteer. I think it was a bigger wrong having a draft at all.


I do however like an exchange from the movie The Recruit between Al Pacino and Colin Farrell.

Farrell is being recruited by Pacino for the CIA and asks, "Would I have to kill anyone?"
Pacino asks Farrell, "Would you like to?"

 

4th law of robotics

(6,801 posts)
69. In any situation where a disposable human is needed it is invariably men
Tue Aug 28, 2012, 09:24 AM
Aug 2012

look at all the most dangerous jobs in the country and throughout history (including but not limited to the military).

In every one men dominate.

Consider who is assumed cowardly for not dying to protect their mate. Always men.

Who is wrong for not running in to a burning building to save someone else. Always men.

And so on.

If you want some job done and likely it will kill the person doing it go find a man.

Yes, this is sexism. And it doesn't matter that historically the top .1% have been men. All that means is that 51% of women (always a slight majority) and 48.9% of men have been oppressed. Men are over represented in the top it's true. But they're also over represented at the bottom (when was the last woman garbage collector you saw?). And men at the top aren't making laws to benefit men, they're making laws to benefit themselves.

 

Dokkie

(1,688 posts)
71. Thats a hard one
Sat Sep 1, 2012, 08:28 AM
Sep 2012

On one hand people dont usually die from having sex but loads of people die in war. Now a s a straight guy, I would sooner become a male prostitute than enlist in a brutal war like WW II.

Then again I would prefer not be forced into either option

ChaoticTrilby

(211 posts)
73. Yes, it is sexism.
Thu Oct 11, 2012, 01:55 AM
Oct 2012

Discriminating based on gender is inherently sexism and the drafting of men to go into war while forcing women to stay home is inherently discriminatory. Even though men (usually the wealthy of politically powerful ones) have been facilitating it, it is still sexism. Whether or not it is worse than forcing women to become prostitutes (Non Sugar-Coated Version: "turning women into sex slaves&quot all depends on whether you'd rather shoot people to bits yourself/get shot to bits or be raped repeatedly by multiple men.

I'll let you decide on that last one. Personally, I'd rather kill and be killed than be raped. It isn't "just" a way of violating someone - it's also torturous and can lead to bleeding, which can cause slow and painful death just as much as a mortal wound can.

Anywho, the way I see it, if a draft were to ever be instated again, the only way to make it "fair" to both sexes would be to make it based on merit. And, by that I mean, prior training or, failing that, overall health. The more qualified parent from each family. Single parents (male or female) would be excluded so that children would be taken care of. Single men and women would be equally examined/tested/etc. for strength and training. If a woman just so happens to be strong/fit/trained enough to be a soldier and either single or married to a spouse less suited than she, then there's no reason she wouldn't be drafted. Likewise, if a man most definitely were not healthy or trained, then that would make him less eligible than the aforementioned woman.

Naturally, of course, my merit-based draft method would be difficult and costly to implement. From the government's perspective, it's easier just to round up the men. Always has been. Can't say I'm happy about it though. It basically means not even bothering to look into half of the population for viable (and even, in some cases, willing!) soldiers. Silly, considering the fact that there have been skilled female soldiers. Textbook Example: Joan of Arc. For a pragmatist like me, that's just downright wasteful.

tl;dr version: Yup. Fits the definition of sexism perfectly. The women forced to be raped repeatedly are probably getting the worst part of the deal though, but then that might just be the way I see it.

Upton

(9,709 posts)
77. 17,725 draftees (30.4%) died in Vietnam..
Tue Dec 4, 2012, 09:53 AM
Dec 2012

every single one of them a man. Many not even believing in the cause...I don't see how the draft could be considered anything other than sexist.

http://www.veteranshour.com/vietnam_war_statistics.htm

Bonobo

(29,257 posts)
78. Yes, but it can't be discussed as a male issue cause we did it to ourselves, right?
Tue Dec 4, 2012, 09:57 AM
Dec 2012

What bullshit.

Upton

(9,709 posts)
79. Apparently so...at least that's what I keep seeing..
Tue Dec 4, 2012, 10:27 AM
Dec 2012

No matter the issue, it always seems to come back around to blaming men. Some people don't even want a discussion, or your progressive credentials are challenged by a self appointed grand inquisitor...

Sure it's bullshit..

Major Nikon

(36,900 posts)
81. The same people who claim it's always the man's fault for men's problems...
Thu Jan 3, 2013, 10:09 AM
Jan 2013

Also seem to be the one's who claim it's our culture that is responsible for women's problems, and they define our culture as "the patriarchy". So that way when women cause or exacerbate the problems that women face, they can still blame men.

For further reading...

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Scapegoating

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