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Yo_Mama_Been_Loggin

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Sun Aug 4, 2024, 12:50 PM Aug 2024

As India ages, a secret shame emerges: Elders abandoned by their children

GARHMUKTESHWAR, India (AP) — They were found in gutters, on streets, in bushes. They were boarded on trains, deserted in hospitals, dumped at temples. They were sent away for being sick or outliving paychecks or simply growing too old.

By the time they reached this home for the aged and unwanted, many were too numb to speak. Some took months to mouth the truth of how they came to spend their final days in exile.

“They said, ‘Taking care of him is not our cup of tea,’” says Amirchand Sharma, 65, a retired policeman whose sons left him to die near the river after he was badly hurt in an accident. “They said, ‘Throw him away.’”

In its traditions, in its religious tenets and in its laws, India has long cemented the belief that it is a child’s duty to care for his aging parents. But in a land known for revering its elderly, a secret shame has emerged: A burgeoning population of older people abandoned by their own families.

https://apnews.com/article/india-abandoned-elderly-population-aging-44701de4079bf8bca01cfa3217fdf1c8

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As India ages, a secret shame emerges: Elders abandoned by their children (Original Post) Yo_Mama_Been_Loggin Aug 2024 OP
It's everywhere, and sometimes it has to do with 90+ parents with 70+ children and few grandchildren. marble falls Aug 2024 #1
Horror, thanks for posting. appalachiablue Aug 2024 #2
Thank you FDR NewDeal for Social Security delisen Aug 2024 #3
Horrifying. Mosby Aug 2024 #4
It's called Senicide the custom of abandoning or killing the elderly ...not that new.. mitch96 Aug 2024 #5
In 2018 Modi govt considered increasing jail time from 3 to 6 months pat_k Aug 2024 #6

delisen

(6,509 posts)
3. Thank you FDR NewDeal for Social Security
Sun Aug 4, 2024, 01:14 PM
Aug 2024

and ah followed up in more recent times by Medicare.

Amazing what societies can accomplishing by investing in ourselves and our neighbors.

pat_k

(10,879 posts)
6. In 2018 Modi govt considered increasing jail time from 3 to 6 months
Sun Aug 4, 2024, 07:11 PM
Aug 2024

. . .for neglect or abandonment of a senior, but I can't find an indication this happened.

Sounds like this has been going on for a while and is only getting worse. My only thought is that some of these caretakers are probably in pretty dire straits themselves.

A 2018 report
https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/india/govt-mulling-six-month-jail-term-for-those-abandoning-elderly-parents/articleshow/64133978.cms

Not sure how reliable, but heres a statement of the law in 2022
https://nyaaya.org/legal-explainer/punishment-for-abandoning-and-neglecting-senior-citizen/

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