So my wife's going away for the weekend.

[bif]

When she did this in the past, there was a voice, way in the back of my head telling me I should cut loose and drink while she's gone. This is probably the first time I'm not hearing that voice. Here's hoping it doesn't return and I get through the weekend unscathed!

She's going to go away a couple more times next month as well. I think I've got this!

[niyad]

1. I hope that little voice is silent forever. Your DU family is here for you.

[Irish_Dem]

2. Can you make some plans for the weekend?

Some projects and/or some fun things?
Getting out of the house a bit?

[bif]

4. I'll probably go for a hike tomorrow

After a morning meeting. And I'll do some painting, no doubt. And I have a bunch of movies lined up.

[Irish_Dem]

6. Usually when there is a stressful weekend coming up, some structure helps.

Does not have to be rigid.
But a tentative schedule of activities.

Your plans sound good.
You might want to add some back up in case it is not enough.
Like a call to a friend or family member.

[bif]

7. Well, it has been 4 1/2 years

I'm not too worried. It'll actually be nice to not be busy.

[Irish_Dem]

8. Yes make it relaxing and fun.

Yes I agree, you have this covered.
Just giving you a little support because you made the post.

[bif]

9. Thanks!

[Chainfire]

3. Good for you!

There will come a day that the thought of a having a drink of alcohol will be disgusting to you.

[bif]

5. Actually I took a sip of my wife's wine last night.

It didn't make me want to have any more. I was just curious.