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Uben

(7,719 posts) Wed Dec 14, 2011, 01:45 PM Dec 2011

Bone mets all over

Darn it! I sure hope the oncologist has some encouraging news tomorrow. Carol, my wife, is getting worse by the day, and the bad news just seems non-stop.

I guess I should be thankful for the last eight years. Back then, if you had told me we had eight more years, I would probably have heralded that news. It's hard to accept an "end of life" situation, but when it's your soul mate, it's devastating.

I am hoping they can ease her pains and extend her life for years to come, but we know what can happen, so we now have to prepare for it.

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Bone mets all over (Original Post) Uben Dec 2011 OP

I am keeping both of you in my prayers, Irishonly Dec 2011 #1

I'm sorry Uben Sienna86 Dec 2011 #2

As long as she has a good quality of life libodem Dec 2011 #3

You and she will be in my thoughts jumptheshadow Dec 2011 #4

I am so sorry Uben. KC Dec 2011 #5

Waiting for news is so hard. cmd Dec 2011 #6

Such tough news-- JohnnyLib2 Dec 2011 #7

You & Carol are in my thoughts dmr Dec 2011 #8

So sorry Betty88 Dec 2011 #9

Irishonly

(3,344 posts)

1. I am keeping both of you in my prayers,

Reply to Uben (Original post)

Wed Dec 14, 2011, 01:50 PM

Dec 2011

Carol is on my list for my candles. I am keeping it lit all day. I still maintain if we spent as much on cancer research as we do on defense or bailing out banks there would be no need for this group.

I am also keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.

Sienna86

(2,151 posts)

2. I'm sorry Uben

Reply to Uben (Original post)

Wed Dec 14, 2011, 01:52 PM

Dec 2011

Your post reminds me to be grateful for each and every day.

libodem

(19,288 posts)

3. As long as she has a good quality of life

Reply to Uben (Original post)

Wed Dec 14, 2011, 02:00 PM

Dec 2011

I've known folks, who survived years on Ensure and morphine, with bone mets.

jumptheshadow

(3,312 posts)

4. You and she will be in my thoughts

Reply to Uben (Original post)

Wed Dec 14, 2011, 02:18 PM

Dec 2011

It sounds like she has been blessed to have you as a caregiver, and you have both been blessed with an enduring love.

KC

(1,995 posts)

5. I am so sorry Uben.

Reply to Uben (Original post)

Wed Dec 14, 2011, 05:03 PM

Dec 2011

I know how devastating this must be for you and Carol too. I pray that you do get some better news from the oncologist and also see what treatment is available for her!

I know that you and Carol are each other's soul mate and I am SO thankful she has you in her life !

My thoughts and prayers are with you both as always.

cmd

(5,673 posts)

6. Waiting for news is so hard.

Reply to Uben (Original post)

Wed Dec 14, 2011, 05:19 PM

Dec 2011

I hope Carol has better news tomorrow. Every visit to the oncologist is filled with fear. I pray there is something new out there that will ease her pain and give her many great days.