My life has changed dramatically in the past year.
In January, 2012, I lost my husband of 35 years and it was very hard. Even though my marriage was not wonderful, I was lonely. I dated a couple of guys, one in particular, who was a total heel. But then in September, just when I was about to give up looking for a companion, I found a man who has become the best friend I've ever had. We got engaged in December, and now we are sharing a home and planning our future. He is also a Virgo, born on September 21, 1954. I was born September 12, 1950.
Some things in my life are the same, but my new love has made everything better. The only fly in the ointment is Mike's health. He has adenocarcinoma of the lung, stage iv, but he has beaten the odds and stayed alive for nearly two years. Now he is in a clinical trial that is making him better (double blind study testing two similar drugs) and has found relief from pain through acupuncture.
Another thing that is different is, we have between us, three dogs and three cats. And they are all doing fine. A pit bull (mine), a German shepherd and a bichon frise (his) and my three cats. He is also a musician, like me, and we share much other fun things.
So, I just wanted to say, you never know what might happen.
Mnemosyne
(21,363 posts)There are no coincidences. You surely are where you are supposed to be, and the glow shines through in your post.
NBachers
(18,132 posts)DeSwiss
(27,137 posts)PinkTiger
(2,593 posts)I'm working on getting some of that.
DeSwiss
(27,137 posts)tavalon
(27,985 posts)And even if you only have a short time together, you sound truly wonderful together. Make many memories together and don't put off to tomorrow what you can do three times today.
PinkTiger
(2,593 posts)Even if it is only a short time, we are very connected. And I'm glad to be here for him.
PinkTiger
(2,593 posts)I will let everyone know how things go. In the meantime, check out my blog at faroutfarm.me
magical thyme
(14,881 posts)Wonderful that you two found each other and have time to be together.
(Interesting, Virgo is my ascendant and I had a big shift in September in the exact opposite way when I was freed for good of the creepy guy at the hospital who had been stalking me for nearly a year.)
southerncrone
(5,510 posts)Yes, the times they are achangin'!
kimmerspixelated
(8,423 posts)So happy for you! Maybe I'll be singing a similar tune in due time.
OneGrassRoot
(23,424 posts)Thank you SO MUCH for sharing that, PinkTiger.
Wishing you, Mike and your furbabies much love, joy, and good health!
Smilo
(1,950 posts)We all need to reminded of what good there is in life.
Wishing you both many years of happiness together.