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Cleita

(75,480 posts)
Tue Apr 3, 2012, 05:55 PM Apr 2012

Damn, I lost my job.

Doc found someone who was willing to work for $2 less an hour than me. Bummer in this job market and it's not easy for someone my age to find work, even part time work. I live in a college town so most of the part time jobs are snapped up by students.

I really don't know why I'm posting. I guess I just want to get it off my chest.

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Damn, I lost my job. (Original Post) Cleita Apr 2012 OP
Am sorry, Cleita. Hope you will survive. What are you going to do? glinda Apr 2012 #1
Fortunately, I get SS, but I'm really going to have to pinch pennies. Cleita Apr 2012 #2
That sucks. Kookaburra Apr 2012 #3
Thanks Kookaburra. n/t Cleita Apr 2012 #4
SO sorry! kimmerspixelated Apr 2012 #5
Thank you. n/t Cleita Apr 2012 #7
guh FirstLight Apr 2012 #6
I seem to be coming up dry. Cleita Apr 2012 #8
Ouch. Mars Retrograde in Virgo *bites.* BlueIris Apr 2012 #9
I guess. Cleita Apr 2012 #10
Can you get unemployment while you search? Digit Apr 2012 #11
I don't believe so. Cleita Apr 2012 #12
Sorry, I did not realize you were an independent contractor Digit Apr 2012 #22
Sorry to hear this, Cleita Proud_Lefty Apr 2012 #13
Thank you Proud_Lefty for your good wishes. n/t Cleita Apr 2012 #15
Dayum. That's cold. MorningGlow Apr 2012 #14
Thanks MorningGlow. Cleita Apr 2012 #16
Oh I'm so sorry! Tumbulu Apr 2012 #17
Thank you Tumbulu. Cleita Apr 2012 #18
Cleita, check this out NJCher Apr 2012 #21
I haven't listened to your link yet, cause I had some Cleita Apr 2012 #28
Man, that's a bummer. icymist Apr 2012 #19
Thank you icymist. Cleita Apr 2012 #20
FWIW, my pendulum thinks you will have another job BlueIris Apr 2012 #23
Thank you BlueIris. That means a lot to me. Cleita Apr 2012 #29
I'm sorry, Cleita :( OneGrassRoot Apr 2012 #24
Thank you so much for caring. Cleita Apr 2012 #30
I am so sorry to hear this Sanity Claws Apr 2012 #25
Vibes and thoughts are much appreciated by me. Cleita Apr 2012 #31
Ah, but are they willing to do the job as well as you did? WolverineDG Apr 2012 #26
Well, I feel sorry for the new girl. Cleita Apr 2012 #32
You might get a call with an offer of your job back eilen Apr 2012 #40
Oh Cleita I'm so sorry!!! Howler Apr 2012 #27
Thank you for your wonderful wishes. Cleita Apr 2012 #33
jobs link magical thyme Apr 2012 #34
Thanks magical thyme. Cleita Apr 2012 #36
I'm so sorry get the red out Apr 2012 #35
Thank you for your kind words. n/t Cleita Apr 2012 #37
Oh no! I am so sorry to hear you are facing this! davsand Apr 2012 #38
Thank you Laura. Cleita Apr 2012 #43
No way!!!! I never met any other Lauras until I was in my 20's. davsand Apr 2012 #47
Cleita, that sucks. BanzaiBonnie Apr 2012 #39
Thank you dear. Cleita Apr 2012 #44
wow Why Syzygy Apr 2012 #41
Thanks. I don't really think any job is that secure, but since Cleita Apr 2012 #45
I'm sorry that happened, Cleita kentauros Apr 2012 #42
Thanks and thanks for the link. n/t Cleita Apr 2012 #46

Cleita

(75,480 posts)
2. Fortunately, I get SS, but I'm really going to have to pinch pennies.
Tue Apr 3, 2012, 06:07 PM
Apr 2012

Everything is going up, all my expenses. Gas and food are through the roof. I suppose I will start hitting the pavement to see if there is anything out there.

FirstLight

(14,096 posts)
6. guh
Tue Apr 3, 2012, 07:57 PM
Apr 2012

I pray that you will have some alternative reveal itself to you, keep asking your guides to help you find your best way to be in service to mankind and in your own JOY

BlueIris

(29,135 posts)
9. Ouch. Mars Retrograde in Virgo *bites.*
Tue Apr 3, 2012, 08:54 PM
Apr 2012

And no, I'm not suggesting that Mars Rx "took" your job. Just that it's known for...issues in employment, specifically, people being fired for petty reasons.

Cleita

(75,480 posts)
10. I guess.
Tue Apr 3, 2012, 09:06 PM
Apr 2012

It's just not a good time, but then is there ever a good time to be fired? It seems four and a half years of faithful service counts for nothing in this world.

Cleita

(75,480 posts)
12. I don't believe so.
Tue Apr 3, 2012, 09:36 PM
Apr 2012

I was considered contract labor, so he never took out deductions for unemployment. I basically had to file my FICA and FIT taxes myself. I didn't really make enough for state taxes so my accountant never filed for them. Thank you for your hug.

Digit

(6,163 posts)
22. Sorry, I did not realize you were an independent contractor
Wed Apr 4, 2012, 12:04 AM
Apr 2012

Currently the kids are still in school so you have the advantage of being available now.

It seems really shortsighted IMO for your employer to let you go for $2.00 an hour difference
when there is training necessary for a new employee and he does not know how they will work
out. Really, after you gave them four years of service they do this. Sad.

Here's another hug in case the first one wears off....



MorningGlow

(15,758 posts)
14. Dayum. That's cold.
Tue Apr 3, 2012, 10:05 PM
Apr 2012

Sorry to hear it, Cleita. Sending good vibes for the perfect job for you. Hang in there.

Tumbulu

(6,448 posts)
17. Oh I'm so sorry!
Tue Apr 3, 2012, 11:39 PM
Apr 2012

Here's my hope- something much more fun, which pays a tad more finds it's way to you.

Sending hope and hugs,


Tumbulu

NJCher

(37,889 posts)
21. Cleita, check this out
Wed Apr 4, 2012, 12:01 AM
Apr 2012

I heard this interesting program tonight on "On Point." It's an avenue for odd jobs and also to sell things.

http://onpoint.wbur.org/2012/04/03/micro-labor-websites

I hope you listen to the program. They had a number of experts on the show that I thought had good comments. There are some articles listed below at the web site that you might also want to read.

There are at least three sites to check out. Zaarly looked like the most interesting one to me.

I think it's sickening that your employer let you go over $2 an hour! I think he will be sorry. He will have to train, and that's an expense he'll have to recoup right there. In a friendly way, maybe you can say that if things don't work out for him, he is welcome to recontact you.

I would go see all the other docs in town and do it right away, too.

Don't let the age thing get you down. In my circle of friends in the last year:

--1 65-year old attained a high-level national management job
--1 62-year old attained a $350 a day consulting job on an indefinite basis
--1 56-year old opened a creative business where she restores and sells furniture out of a workshop in her home. Business is booming and she's having a ball meeting new people.
1 62-year old attained a regular, f-t job in a school of dentistry, where she places students in residencies

Keep us posted. You might be surprised at what comes up.

Also, I agree with Blue Iris, above. I think this is a time for employment falling by the wayside for reasons that are not so substantial.


Cher




Cleita

(75,480 posts)
28. I haven't listened to your link yet, cause I had some
Wed Apr 4, 2012, 01:21 PM
Apr 2012

appointments I had to keep this morning, but I will and thank you so much for sharing. I'll let you know when I do.

Cleita

(75,480 posts)
29. Thank you BlueIris. That means a lot to me.
Wed Apr 4, 2012, 01:23 PM
Apr 2012

I was talking to one of the trainers at the gym today and she says she will keep her ears open with her clients because a lot of them are business owners in the area. This may be the way. In this job market even the poorest paying jobs in my area have hundreds of applicants.

Sanity Claws

(22,038 posts)
25. I am so sorry to hear this
Wed Apr 4, 2012, 06:17 AM
Apr 2012

All I can do is send you positive vibes and thoughts. They are going out to you right now.

WolverineDG

(22,298 posts)
26. Ah, but are they willing to do the job as well as you did?
Wed Apr 4, 2012, 07:48 AM
Apr 2012

therein lies the rub......

I'm sorry you lost your job. That sucks. But I have a sneaking suspicion that you'll be missed because you did more than this other person would be willing to do.

Here's hoping that another, much better job comes your way soon!!

eilen

(4,950 posts)
40. You might get a call with an offer of your job back
Thu Apr 5, 2012, 05:27 AM
Apr 2012

Hiring a new employee during a Mars/Mercury retro is probably a bad move. I bet there will be something with the new moon later this month.

Howler

(4,225 posts)
27. Oh Cleita I'm so sorry!!!
Wed Apr 4, 2012, 09:17 AM
Apr 2012

Sending !!! I can't wait till you find the right job for you! Where you will be fairly compensated for your work and appreciated for the wonderful employee that you are!. And really kick ass benifits!!!

 

magical thyme

(14,881 posts)
34. jobs link
Wed Apr 4, 2012, 02:39 PM
Apr 2012

person who gave me this said she's had some luck in the past with this.

www.virtualvocations.com

Cleita

(75,480 posts)
36. Thanks magical thyme.
Wed Apr 4, 2012, 04:47 PM
Apr 2012

It looks like they have a lot of jobs there and working from home is appealing.

davsand

(13,428 posts)
38. Oh no! I am so sorry to hear you are facing this!
Wed Apr 4, 2012, 11:01 PM
Apr 2012

May your path brighten soon! Call it a feeling, if you wish, but I think you will come out of this better off than you were.






Laura

Cleita

(75,480 posts)
43. Thank you Laura.
Thu Apr 5, 2012, 07:36 PM
Apr 2012

Did I ever tell you that my first name is Laura too? Although I go by a nickname and don't use it much.

davsand

(13,428 posts)
47. No way!!!! I never met any other Lauras until I was in my 20's.
Thu Apr 5, 2012, 09:09 PM
Apr 2012

Nice to find another! Mrs Grumpy (can't remember her curret DU name, I know she changed it to something else) is also named Laura. We used to joke about it sometimes in our posts. Well met!



Laura

BanzaiBonnie

(3,621 posts)
39. Cleita, that sucks.
Thu Apr 5, 2012, 01:21 AM
Apr 2012

Sending my highest vibes to you for something much better, working with someone you respect and doing work that brings you joy.

Why Syzygy

(18,928 posts)
41. wow
Thu Apr 5, 2012, 03:25 PM
Apr 2012

What a shock! From what you've said from time to time, I thought your job was secure. I imagine this just came out of nowhere. So sorry you have to deal with this now. I feel like you'll get something that is easier on you and pays even better!

Cleita

(75,480 posts)
45. Thanks. I don't really think any job is that secure, but since
Thu Apr 5, 2012, 07:38 PM
Apr 2012

we don't have any laws to cover workplace abuses I guess we have to suck it up. Frankly, I feel like a weight has lifted. Now I just have to figure out how to make some money.

kentauros

(29,414 posts)
42. I'm sorry that happened, Cleita
Thu Apr 5, 2012, 04:22 PM
Apr 2012

It always sucks to lose a job, no matter what the circumstances. I hope you find something you love, soon

Here's another site to look at, though it's for coaching to work what you love or put your love into your work: http://www.workfromwithin.com/

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