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Secret. Lincoln Project (Original Post) MagaSmash Oct 28 OP
Not sure why, but the thought that went through my head was "sweet". RussellCattle Oct 28 #1
That's the same little smile I got from my mother after my father lectured her about... Harker Oct 28 #2
in lighter times it might be cute Kali Oct 28 #5
Both of my parents are long dead, but the stakes were high in those times, too... Harker Oct 28 #7
I came of voting age in the 70's. slightlv Oct 28 #28
He sounds like a very good, sound man! Harker Oct 28 #31
Bobby Kennedy, Martin Luther King, the VietNam War... slightlv Oct 28 #32
Yes. Tomorrow's here today. Harker Oct 29 #34
That is a GREAT ad. I hope this scenario is happening all over the country, this husband is proud of my wife's "K" vote. usaf-vet Oct 28 #3
Yes This Scenario is happening for SURE. MagaSmash Oct 28 #6
I know/hope this works, but Kali Oct 28 #4
yep, same here NJCher Oct 28 #8
It makes me sad. In fact I teared up. Demobrat Oct 28 #9
My father would be 113 years old today, and my mother 112. greatauntoftriplets Oct 28 #25
Would have been better if they went to the husband's ballots and they also selected Kamala. n/t OnlinePoker Oct 28 #10
Brilliant idea!! nt oldsoftie Oct 28 #17
yes! Kali Oct 28 #21
If Trump is elected DENVERPOPS Oct 28 #11
This is very good! StarryNite Oct 28 #12
Nice ad, and sentiment, Unfortunately, the husband/boyfriend still could see your vote as FailureToCommunicate Oct 28 #13
Interesting that the ad (and reality?) shows the women worried about how their husbands would react. erronis Oct 28 #14
K&R...though it is a sad commentary on our society... Wounded Bear Oct 28 #15
Awesome ad! n/t iluvtennis Oct 28 #16
We need more Lincoln Project & Midas Touch ads in GA oldsoftie Oct 28 #18
While voting should be private, markodochartaigh Oct 28 #19
Men can stand very close and likely won't get approached by a poll worker for looking over at his wife's ballot rainin Oct 28 #20
Sad, and clever. elleng Oct 28 #22
Forward this to R women you know, every little bit helps! KS Toronado Oct 28 #23
Hopefully they can divorce those assholes in the near future. progressoid Oct 28 #24
That HAS to be a Republican plan... dchill Oct 28 #26
This is so powerful. The power of the secret ballot. No one has the right to see your vote other than those SWBTATTReg Oct 28 #27
Great ad LetMyPeopleVote Oct 28 #29
In 2016 there was a photo of TFG and Melania voting Yo_Mama_Been_Loggin Oct 28 #30
Wow. It's come to this MadameButterfly Oct 29 #33

Harker

(14,938 posts)
2. That's the same little smile I got from my mother after my father lectured her about...
Mon Oct 28, 2024, 12:57 PM
Oct 28

not "canceling out" his republican votes.

If you can't openly discuss elections and voting with your spouse or loved one, you might be in the wrong relationship.

Kali

(55,739 posts)
5. in lighter times it might be cute
Mon Oct 28, 2024, 01:03 PM
Oct 28

but in this election? I would worry about her safety more than quaint differences in voting. if anybody in my house was inclined to vote for that mofo, they need to be the ones voting secretly and they also need to get the fuck out and fuck off.

Harker

(14,938 posts)
7. Both of my parents are long dead, but the stakes were high in those times, too...
Mon Oct 28, 2024, 01:33 PM
Oct 28

though there was general agreement about the form our government should take, and fascism wasn't openly touted by republicans as a good option.

Yes, they should fuck off forthwith.



slightlv

(4,332 posts)
28. I came of voting age in the 70's.
Mon Oct 28, 2024, 04:31 PM
Oct 28

My Dad had tried talking me into voting R for years (he was an old time R, nothing like even the "moderate" R's of yesterday). My Mom always voted "D". They both knew how each other voted and laughed about cancelling out each others votes. But you know what? They NEVER missed voting! They instilled in me and my sister (not so much my brother) the importance of doing your constitutional duty... especially after hearing Daddy talk about his experiences in WWII.

I never told them how I voted, but they knew. It was my dad who came upstairs to tell me the afternoon that Bobby Kennedy had been shot. I wasn't old enough to vote at that point, but he knew which way I was leaning when I could. He told me once if the Republican politicians couldn't offer me a reason to cast my vote for them, and he couldn't convince me, either... then to follow my heart and be proud of casting my vote. On one hand, I wish he were here to cast a vote for Harris. I know my Dad well enough to know he'd have voted for her over Trump. He'd have nothing good to say about trump. I would have liked to voted with him this time around. On the other hand, I'm so very glad he isn't here to see what trump has done to this country he was so proud of serving. It'd have given him a heart attack.

Harker

(14,938 posts)
31. He sounds like a very good, sound man!
Mon Oct 28, 2024, 06:18 PM
Oct 28

I was just thinking earlier today about how the present upsurge of fascism in this country is coincidental with the passing of the great majority of those who fought against Nazi Germany and its allies, and against Imperial Japan.

This cowardly cabal of traitors wouldn't have gone nearly so far as they have with those WWII veterans here in abundance.

Your beautiful post reminded me of my mom hearing of Bobby Kennedy's assassination on her bathroom radio the morning after. A gasp, followed by anguished sobbing.

Heartbreaking.

slightlv

(4,332 posts)
32. Bobby Kennedy, Martin Luther King, the VietNam War...
Mon Oct 28, 2024, 08:34 PM
Oct 28

that year it seemed like the hits against just kept coming one after another. We lost so many good people. I remember feeling, even at that age, that we were losing something we'd never get back again. Although I guess each generation goes through something similar, it seemed to me like it picked on us, in particular. And, actually, we didn't get back what we lost. I'm not just talking about the ideals of those we lost, but we lost our innocence then, too... and a piece of us was stripped from us we never recovered from, IMO. And they're still trying to rip us apart even more. We carry on; we fight; we dream of the better world we once shared as a dream with others. In the lingo of my day... we keep on truckin' ... tho the light seems so far in the distance. I said earlier in a message the only thing I can see is that we stand together as a coalition... all of us on the fringes, all of us whom they marginalize; standing together and fighting one for each other. Tonight, I'm feeling very old and tired in my skin. I voted for someone... a woman... whom I really want to see become president. That should make me elated. Instead, I'm still filled with worry and dread at what the fascists will come up with. For tonight, they beat me down. But there's always tomorrow to pick up the fight once again, right?

Harker

(14,938 posts)
34. Yes. Tomorrow's here today.
Tue Oct 29, 2024, 06:36 AM
Oct 29

If the energy republicans spend on hate could be repurposed for good we'd all be in good shape.

usaf-vet

(6,912 posts)
3. That is a GREAT ad. I hope this scenario is happening all over the country, this husband is proud of my wife's "K" vote.
Mon Oct 28, 2024, 12:57 PM
Oct 28

Kali

(55,739 posts)
4. I know/hope this works, but
Mon Oct 28, 2024, 01:00 PM
Oct 28

it pretty much just offends the fuck out of me. if I am so afraid of some asshole that I have to be secretive on my voting...fuck that. just fuck him and fuck that.

NJCher

(37,883 posts)
8. yep, same here
Mon Oct 28, 2024, 01:51 PM
Oct 28

I wouldn't be associated with anyone who would even consider voting for trump. Or be a republican.

Demobrat

(9,793 posts)
9. It makes me sad. In fact I teared up.
Mon Oct 28, 2024, 02:05 PM
Oct 28

This ad is acknowledging abuse and the fact that some women have to live in fear of their husbands. It’s a great ad, and needed.
It’s just so sad that it has to be.

greatauntoftriplets

(176,853 posts)
25. My father would be 113 years old today, and my mother 112.
Mon Oct 28, 2024, 03:22 PM
Oct 28

There is no way in hell that my father would ever have tried to intimidate my mother into voting for the candidate of his choice. And he knew that. He came from a Republican family, but my mother convinced him to vote for FDR.

Both of them raised me to vote my own mind.

DENVERPOPS

(9,955 posts)
11. If Trump is elected
Mon Oct 28, 2024, 02:08 PM
Oct 28

you can be sure that from then on, voting will no longer be "secretive"...............even though, from then on, voting won't even matter.
Trump has openly stated to his cult, that if they vote for him just one more time, they will never have to vote again........and they are all to stupid to realize what he/republicans mean by that statement......

FailureToCommunicate

(14,325 posts)
13. Nice ad, and sentiment, Unfortunately, the husband/boyfriend still could see your vote as
Mon Oct 28, 2024, 02:12 PM
Oct 28

you take it to the next desk to be tabulated.

A recent survey also showed about 75% of people believe "someone" can find out how you voted "somehow". Crazy.

I hope it works for anyone intimidated, but I fear it may not enough to make a difference.



erronis

(16,846 posts)
14. Interesting that the ad (and reality?) shows the women worried about how their husbands would react.
Mon Oct 28, 2024, 02:14 PM
Oct 28

I think it's totally possible that in some relationships, the husband may also worry.

The power flows in couples can be very interesting.

markodochartaigh

(2,066 posts)
19. While voting should be private,
Mon Oct 28, 2024, 02:33 PM
Oct 28

political discussion should be public. Political discussion should be encouraged. Not discussing politics only encourages ignorance and apathy.

rainin

(3,170 posts)
20. Men can stand very close and likely won't get approached by a poll worker for looking over at his wife's ballot
Mon Oct 28, 2024, 02:33 PM
Oct 28

If I felt scared walking in, those tiny barriers wouldn't make me feel safe. If husbands were separated from their wives across the room. Maybe then. She'd still have to be quick and get her ballot fed into the machine quickly enough. So many opportunities to be outed. Not sure I'd risk it if I were afraid of him

progressoid

(50,747 posts)
24. Hopefully they can divorce those assholes in the near future.
Mon Oct 28, 2024, 03:05 PM
Oct 28

Seems like a pretty horrible relationship to be in.

dchill

(40,476 posts)
26. That HAS to be a Republican plan...
Mon Oct 28, 2024, 03:28 PM
Oct 28

No secrecy envelope at the polls, but a secrecy envelope for mail ballots? Seems to me to be the exact reverse of the logic of "secrecy."

SWBTATTReg

(24,094 posts)
27. This is so powerful. The power of the secret ballot. No one has the right to see your vote other than those
Mon Oct 28, 2024, 03:29 PM
Oct 28

that are tabulating your ballot.

Don't ever let anyone intimidate you in the polls or outside the polls either (in Missouri, I had a small fear of such people hanging around our polling places but thank goodness nothing of the sort ever happened).

Yo_Mama_Been_Loggin

(115,324 posts)
30. In 2016 there was a photo of TFG and Melania voting
Mon Oct 28, 2024, 04:50 PM
Oct 28

It shows him looking over her shoulder as she fills out her ballot.

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