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Dealing with the aftermath of a death 13 Uben Apr 2012 Sep 2013 8 57987

Bereavement Group Archives Link 1 orleans Feb 2012 Dec 2011 1 36569

My son passed [View all] 242 ChazII Mar 2020 Mar 2020 310 36617

Dear DUers, I have Heartbreaking and shocking [View all] 223 Cha Aug 2023 Sep 2023 354 33451

My sister committed suicide today. I'm the one who.found her and [View all] 218 sinkingfeeling Apr 2017 Apr 2017 198 54843

My mom passed away Thursday evening. [View all] 206 sheshe2 Jan 2022 Feb 2022 282 22782

Sunday morning I say goodbye to the love of my life [View all] 184 alfredo Nov 2023 Nov 2023 324 30880

My wife's death. First time I'm posting. [View all] 181 kairos12 Jun 2024 Jun 2024 314 15493

My twin sister died yesterday. [View all] 152 babylonsister Jul 2023 Sep 2023 314 18167

My 41-year-old nephew died suddenly yesterday. [View all] 151 greatauntoftriplets Oct 2021 Oct 2021 204 16181

My brother passed away last week. His penchant for not taking care [View all] 121 applegrove May 2021 May 2021 195 15946

My brother died. [View all] 116 murielm99 Aug 2021 Nov 2021 196 17184

grieving a suicide death of my son [View all] 116 equite Jul 2022 Aug 2022 232 17484

My son committed suicide 1/27--he was 25 years old [View all] 112 crimycarny Feb 2022 Feb 2022 160 13581

Gone too soon at 95 1/2. My darling darling died. [View all] 111 SleeplessinSoCal Jul 2024 Jul 2024 333 11258

I'm in MN for my mother's funeral [View all] 109 TygrBright Dec 2023 Jun 2024 87 11422

She isn't 43 years old today. [View all] 104 barbtries Jul 2023 Sep 2023 184 13257

My husband died suddenly in August. He was 52. [View all] 97 imavoter Nov 2021 Nov 2021 221 18520

My mom died today. [View all] 95 SleeplessinSoCal Feb 2024 Jun 2024 173 8485

The strangest and most beautiful thing happened today at mom's funneral. [View all] 94 sheshe2 Jan 2022 Jul 2022 189 13180

My Mother's dead. I don't know what to do. I'll never be able to hug [View all] 91 littlemissmartypants Jun 2022 Jun 2022 144 7930

I'm officially a widow as of this afternoon--update [View all] 90 mnhtnbb Dec 2018 Dec 2018 140 17414

My Dad ... 1923-2022. (edit) [View all] 87 dweller Jul 2022 Jul 2022 223 8576

My daughter died 20 years ago today. [View all] 84 barbtries Jul 2021 Jul 2021 89 10056

We lost Mrs K [View all] 82 kozar Feb 2022 Feb 2022 181 9662

UPDATE: My best friend passed away at 4 a.m. [View all] 78 Marthe48 Oct 1 Oct 2 264 6182

Tomorrow my son would have turned 40 if [View all] 71 ChazII Sep 2024 Sep 30 143 6005

I met with attorneys yesterday over my wife. [View all] 68 Duncanpup Apr 2023 May 2023 211 11490

My husband passed away 1/26/17 [View all] 66 Marthe48 Mar 2017 Apr 2017 44 10800

My niece's husband was just killed in a [View all] 64 murielm99 Feb 2020 Feb 2020 136 16732

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Thank you for your kind post over the loss of my wife. [View all] 63 Duncanpup Nov 2022 Nov 2022 191 8054

Tough times [View all] 60 Drunken Irishman Nov 2021 Nov 2021 66 8183

Sudden death of my brother, 2 months after my father died of pancreatic cancer [View all] 58 Dark n Stormy Knight Jan 2021 Jan 2021 44 6441

My mom died a month ago. It happened so suddenly [View all] 56 pnwmom May 2018 May 2018 63 7024

Sister in law friend kept asking me out. [View all] 56 Duncanpup Nov 2023 Nov 2023 138 9083

My mother passed this morning...her memory lives on and gives me strength...I love you mom! [View all] 53 Moostache Nov 2020 Nov 2020 101 6597

Yesterday I lerned my best friend had passed. [View all] 53 CanonRay Apr 2024 Apr 2024 200 7197

I lost my Mom two weeks ago. She passed away suddenly 49 livetohike Aug 2018 Sep 2018 27 6626

I just found out my Daddy passed away at 2300. 49 littlemissmartypants Dec 2020 Dec 2020 58 3983

When do you ever stop crying? 49 CountAllVotes Jul 2022 Jul 2022 60 13533

Wow....last entry was from 2013?. Or did I read that wrong..... 49 a kennedy Aug 2024 Aug 2024 82 4613

My little sister died yesterday. She was 58. Pancreatic cancer. I turned 65 the day before that. 47 BoomaofBandM May 2023 Jul 2023 125 11604

My mum passed away today. 46 bluecollar2 Mar 2021 Mar 2021 76 4262

Grief spasms. 46 barbtries Jan 2023 Feb 2023 57 3348

Not sure where to post this ... my mom just died. 42 CaptainTruth May 2018 May 2018 51 10579

It has been 4 years since my husband died 42 Marthe48 Jan 2021 Jan 2021 103 6166

Photos of mom and dad: 41 applegrove Nov 2022 Nov 2022 63 7575

My friend died and his "friends" are evil 38 RSherman Mar 2023 Mar 2023 125 8512

My brother's Obit 37 applegrove May 2021 May 2021 59 4610

My uncle died this evening. 37 LoisB Feb 2024 Feb 2024 40 2413

I lost my father very suddenly today. 36 boston bean Mar 2012 Mar 2012 0 10914

Is it normal to just want to sleep all the time? 36 Wicked Blue Feb 2022 Feb 2022 54 3823

I can actually physically feel the heaviness 35 MissMillie Jul 2020 Sep 2020 101 6244

Lost my mom on Saturday. 35 forgotmylogin Sep 2022 Sep 2022 56 2931

My sister is dying. She was diagnosed with Stage 4 34 Dark n Stormy Knight Nov 12 Nov 17 101 2630

Wife died Sunday, buried her today 32 Uben Feb 2012 Feb 2012 28 6073

My dad died a year ago, my mother two years ago 32 RFCalifornia Oct 2021 Oct 2021 7 2506

Over two years without my hubby 31 choie Oct 2018 Oct 2018 20 5488

Really struggling at 15 months out with losing my husband 31 imavoter Nov 2022 Dec 2022 31 5736

I ended our relationship 4mo ago. He died Wednesday Oct 14 30 Wawannabe Oct 2020 Oct 2020 66 5620

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2 years ago my son passed 30 ChazII Mar 2022 Mar 2022 49 2931

Lost my only Brother on 21 November, 2023 30 ProudMNDemocrat Nov 2023 Nov 2023 67 3807

Today marks 8 months since my dear friend AndyS died. 30 CaliforniaPeggy Aug 2024 Sep 30 50 1334

I need a safe place to emotionally blow up 29 MissMillie Aug 2020 Sep 2020 67 5062

Mom and my sweetest cat died this year. Mom in April and my little princess yesterday. 28 CousinIT Nov 2022 Nov 2022 42 4719

I touched my husband's ashes last night. 27 rhiannon55 May 2012 Nov 2013 25 31579

Looking for advice, bereavement related. 27 Coventina Apr 2020 Apr 2020 0 4452

The final good-bye, finally. 27 ChazII Sep 2021 Sep 2021 88 4085

It is with great sadness that i say we lost our dad yesterday. He had been in 27 applegrove Oct 2022 Oct 2022 62 3858

my mom is dying . . . 26 DollyM Jan 2012 Mar 2012 7 7371

My Father died on June 02, Friday just after 7am. 26 auntAgonist Jun 2017 Jun 2017 16 4602

WTH! Another suicide in barely over a month. 26 crimycarny Mar 2022 Jul 2022 13 15783

I think I figured out why my mom's death has been especially hard. 25 Maraya1969 Sep 2022 Sep 2022 61 4950

Dreamt of my wife last night I woke up smiling. 25 Duncanpup Mar 2023 Mar 2023 85 6643

Made my friend day yesterday she was happy. 25 Duncanpup Oct 2023 Oct 2023 122 5044

My cousin died today. 24 cate94 May 2021 May 2021 29 4147

My nephew passed away three days ago. 23 lastlib Feb 2022 Mar 2022 57 2726

I've grown accustomed to his face... 23 tavernier Jun 2017 Jun 2017 71 6949

It's already starting. 23 barbtries Jul 2022 Jul 2022 23 2907

Dad passed Friday evening 23 kozar Nov 2022 Nov 2022 41 2182

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