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maxrandb

(16,533 posts)
Sun Feb 9, 2025, 03:47 PM Feb 9

I think we may need to relax a little bit [View all]

I am going to try. Yes, it's horrible, disgusting, deplorable, fascist, racist and relentless, but life is a marathon, NOT a sprint.

I just talked to my children. One a member of the LGBT community, and one a female PHD working in a STEM field. They were upset, as can be expected, but I simply asked them to keep some perspective. I asked them to imagine what life was like for a gay person, or a minority, or a professional female scientist 40 to 50 years ago. At least in 2025, they have a large segment of the population that are their allies. I'd imagine that wasn't true 40 to 50 years ago.

I would also like to point out that this is what Donnie Dipshit has done his entire, miserable life. Whether in business, politics, or whatever fucking scam/con he is running, he comes in and steamrolls shit around like a monkey flinging poop. Eventually, the stuff he's bragadociously peddling as "the greatest, bestest, most beautiful shit ever seen", turns out to be as successful as Donnie Dipshit Steaks, or Vodka.

All he has done so far by EO can be overturned in a heartbeat. His only success so far has been to get people running around like the sky is falling. We won't survive a year, or two, or four, if we keep running at this pace.

I will take comfort in knowing that he will fail, and at a minimum, I am on the right side of history.

I am not going to ignore the harm he is doing, or the destruction he is capable of, but I won't let him live in my head.

Let's take action where we can (limiting our spending and ensuring we aren't supporting businesses that support fascism is probably the best tool we have).

Let's vow to take one post we were going to make on DU, and turn it into a letter, or phone call to our local and national reps. Or, take that one post and turn it into a Letter to the Editor.

EDITED TO ADD: This is 2025, so maybe less Letters to the Editor and more Blue-Sky, Tik-Tok, Instagram and You Tube messaging.

BTW - How many of you have shared DU with your friends, family, neighbors and co-workers?

Let's find our local Democratic Party office and volunteer in any way we can.

Let's engage with like minded folks.

Let's be ready to respond to idiot MAGAs at our grocery stores, churches, gas stations, malls and neighborhood block parties. You don't have to allow MAGAs into your life, I sure won't! But, you can push back when you hear them retreading fascist talking points.

If any have read some of my posts, you know I am not a Pollyanna, but....

We are going to get thru this. We are about at the Wedding Scene in The Godfather Part I point of this Donnie Dipshit misadministration. There is a long way to go to the part in Godfather III where Michael is alone clutching at his chest.

Let's save some popcorn for the end.

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K & R................. Lovie777 Feb 9 #1
I needed these wise words today Easterncedar Feb 9 #2
Thanks, Max UpInArms Feb 9 #3
Well said Arthur_Frain Feb 9 #4
Thanks for that. bif Feb 9 #5
You almost brought me to tears. phylny Feb 9 #6
Thank you mzmolly Feb 9 #7
I'm afraid I won't be able to relax until he's dead or in prison. groundloop Feb 9 #8
Maybe "relax" is the wrong word. Maybe "refocus" is better maxrandb Feb 9 #9
If one can be posthumously pardoned... dickthegrouch Feb 9 #10
For your wonderful, thoughtful and optimistic post, I just gave you another heart PLUS a rec! CaliforniaPeggy Feb 9 #11
Big problem with that is dickthegrouch Feb 9 #12
We've disincentivized most of the world from helping us. Pax Romana is Maru Kitteh Feb 9 #35
Both Thomas and Alito will retire before the end of MFer's term. maxsolomon Feb 10 #42
Yep malaise Feb 9 #13
Thank you Duncanpup Feb 9 #14
I am taking a political vacation soon RainCaster Feb 9 #15
How fortunate for you. Maru Kitteh Feb 9 #31
Sounds fun hibbing Feb 9 #37
I'd also recommend some non-political volunteering EdmondDantes_ Feb 9 #16
There was a time when I kept a couple of blank pieces Tanuki Feb 9 #17
Yes, pacing ourselves is very important LymphocyteLover Feb 9 #18
If it were just Donald, maybe, but I think we need to consider that we really TBF Feb 9 #19
Excellent Post! ProfessorGAC Feb 9 #20
I've been feeling the same way the past two days. Nt Quixote1818 Feb 9 #21
Sorry, but I disagree. FoggyLake Feb 9 #22
I'm mellowing out listening to my old tunes IrishBubbaLiberal Feb 9 #23
You are correct mr715 Feb 9 #24
You are right Pris Feb 9 #25
Recommended. H2O Man Feb 9 #26
I wish I could.... usedtobedemgurl Feb 9 #27
No. This needs to be stopped now! Legal minds, get the lawsuits going. His gang is shooting up our town. The Wielding Truth Feb 9 #28
Trying to finally exhale on this. Thank you, Alice B. Feb 9 #29
I fear that overturning the damage in a heartbeat is overly optimistic whopis01 Feb 9 #30
Well done townie Feb 9 #32
Much easier said than done, when family members are affected. This is another full-on coup Evolve Dammit Feb 9 #33
I'm hoping to escape stillcool Feb 9 #34
Thank you Keepthesoulalive Feb 9 #36
You and your kids can relax if you want, but he's harming my kid, so no. Jerryatric Feb 10 #38
maxrandb.......... Upthevibe Feb 10 #39
To be honest, I am keeping my perspective - while also simultaneously freaking the eff out ms liberty Feb 10 #40
Most here don't involve themselves in the MAGAots lives, DENVERPOPS Feb 10 #41
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