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opiate69

(10,129 posts)
27. and...... results...
Sat Feb 15, 2014, 06:16 PM
Feb 2014
On Sat Feb 15, 2014, 05:03 PM you sent an alert on the following post:

Well cunt-ish wouldn't be okay. I guess we have to stick with dick-ish. nt
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1114&pid=12936

REASON FOR ALERT

This post is disruptive, hurtful, rude, insensitive, over-the-top, or otherwise inappropriate.

YOUR COMMENTS

Offensive use of vulgar, misogynist language. "Cuntish" = cunt = ish. What kind of person thinks that kind of thing is okay? This level of hatred for women and their bodies is pathological not fitting a civilized website. The Democratic Party includes women. This is way over the top.

JURY RESULTS

A randomly-selected Jury of DU members completed their review of this alert at Sat Feb 15, 2014, 05:09 PM, and voted 2-4 to LEAVE IT ALONE.

Juror #1 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: No explanation given
Juror #2 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: ...on-going debate over acceptable hate-terms, nothing to see, folks, keep moving...
Juror #3 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: This is a comparison and complaint about the use of various sexist remarks, it is not an endorsement nor use of the word
Juror #4 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: But Dickish is OK? Whole thread is immature and childish. The whole thing should be wiped clean. But this one post being worse than the others? Nope.
Juror #5 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: "But he/she did it first" is no defense. Way over the top. The 'c' word, yet. shameful.
Juror #6 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: No explanation given
Community double standards [View all] Major Nikon Feb 2014 OP
Really? An alerter thinks "dickish" is as loaded a word as "bitch"? Scuba Feb 2014 #1
Yes, after I suggested another poster seemed tense, I orchestrated a break in at the Watergate Hotel Warren DeMontague Feb 2014 #4
Obviously the community proved it wasn't as loaded Major Nikon Feb 2014 #5
Wish I could say I was surprised.... opiate69 Feb 2014 #2
She also called me "cute", so, maybe it sort of balances out. Warren DeMontague Feb 2014 #3
I really wouldn't expect you to be all that hung up on that post Major Nikon Feb 2014 #6
The alert ought to be on calling you "cute". westerebus Feb 2014 #8
Hell, I'll take what I can get. Warren DeMontague Feb 2014 #9
I hear ya. westerebus Feb 2014 #10
what term SHOULD we use to describe Palin and the rest of her ilk? Doctor_J Feb 2014 #7
Well cunt-ish wouldn't be okay. I guess we have to stick with dick-ish. nt Bonobo Feb 2014 #12
Yet another alert survivor... TreasonousBastard Feb 2014 #22
and...... results... opiate69 Feb 2014 #27
Pretty much pegs the irony meter Major Nikon Feb 2014 #30
I don't even think that's a word. Warren DeMontague Feb 2014 #23
Was that necessary to say that? hrmjustin Feb 2014 #25
Good question... TreasonousBastard Feb 2014 #21
I think there's always going to be a double standard noamnety Feb 2014 #11
"historically oppressed" doesn't mean the same thing for the two groups you are conflating Major Nikon Feb 2014 #15
This was just left to leave 3-3. RiffRandell Feb 2014 #13
Disgusting. opiate69 Feb 2014 #14
I have a better one. lumberjack_jeff Feb 2014 #16
The perpetually outraged about sexism on DU have no issues with it when it goes the other direction Major Nikon Feb 2014 #17
Believe it or not, it was once much much worse. lumberjack_jeff Feb 2014 #18
That thread is laughable ProudToBeBlueInRhody Feb 2014 #19
there is another post in that thread that includes the term Doctor_J Feb 2014 #28
Check out what a little songbird told me... opiate69 Feb 2014 #20
"Men pretend that using adjectives like "dickish" is as bad as calling women "bitches". " Major Nikon Feb 2014 #31
I just want to be referred to as "Mr. Dickish" Warren DeMontague Feb 2014 #24
That's Doctor Dickish to you. lumberjack_jeff Feb 2014 #29
I also believe that women use that epithet on each other Doctor_J Feb 2014 #26
It really seems to come down to who is called as a jury. In_The_Wind Feb 2014 #32
This is absolutely correct Major Nikon Feb 2014 #33
I totally agree with you. In_The_Wind Feb 2014 #34
They are hypervigilant too. Doctor_J Feb 2014 #35
I propose a new abbreviation: DYSTIG. Bonobo Feb 2014 #36
I second the proposal! In_The_Wind Feb 2014 #37
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