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obamanut2012

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Fri Jun 1, 2012, 07:34 AM Jun 2012

I'm a lesbian and I like breasts [View all]

I freely admit that, and have no shame in admitting that.

Having said that: when I see a woman breastfeeding, my first thought isn't OOOOOOOO BREASTS!!!!! YAY!!!! (no matter how attractive the woman is) or even OOOOOOO BREASTS!!! THIS MAKES ME FEEL ALL WEIRD AND UNCOMFORTABLE!!!!! My thought is usually nothing, because big deal, or maybe a Thank God I never had kids.

So, why do so many people get so bent out of shape about breastfeeding, including women? Is it prudery and perversion, to be all cutesy and alliterative? As a few people said in the military women breastfeeding thread in GD: how is it any different than giving a baby a bottle? To me, it isn't.

Have any of you ever been approached by someone when you were breastfeeding in public and been snarked at? Told to smother your baby in a blanket so someone doesn't freak out? Or take your baby to a bathroom to suckle?

Excuse the provocative header of the OP, but I was thinking this as I read that GD thread yesterday. I know first-hand breasts aren't JUST for feeding babies, but when they are feeding babies, breasts certainly aren't being sexy or provocative. I don't get it.


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I'm a lesbian and I like breasts [View all] obamanut2012 Jun 2012 OP
Working in third world settings a fair part of my life, this was not an issue... hlthe2b Jun 2012 #1
I think that's definitely part of it obamanut2012 Jun 2012 #6
Quit injecting all that sanity into this debate! Scuba Jun 2012 #2
Sex is a really weird thing in this country obamanut2012 Jun 2012 #7
But it's okay to show people getting their brains blown out on TV, Dash87 Jun 2012 #24
sex is a primal thing qazplm Jun 2012 #3
I read somewhere... Whisp Jun 2012 #22
Generally, I like them too ... but I have to see them to be sure ... zbdent Jun 2012 #4
Funny you should mention it. Watch GMA they are discussing breastfeeding in uniform. southernyankeebelle Jun 2012 #5
Remember when Salma Hayek breastfeed a baby in Sierrea Leone? obamanut2012 Jun 2012 #8
I think breastfeeding = not buying formula. Whisp Jun 2012 #16
Disappointed TlalocW Jun 2012 #9
I can't stop reading the subject to the tune of "I'm a lumberjack, and I'm okay" petronius Jun 2012 #21
It astounds me that nature gave us a means to feed our children Catherina Jun 2012 #10
I find this interesting re the Time cover LadyHawkAZ Jun 2012 #13
I thought the Time cover was a little staged too Catherina Jun 2012 #15
I have often watched women struggle with a baby while doing everyday things in public, Jamastiene Jun 2012 #20
That really struck me here Catherina Jun 2012 #23
Sometimes I think it's not really about breasts (and I'm a lesbian and I like breasts too) justiceischeap Jun 2012 #11
I think the concept of unwanted hair is pretty stupid. Neoma Jun 2012 #14
I agree. Starry Messenger Jun 2012 #17
The result of a sexually repressed society LadyHawkAZ Jun 2012 #12
I think people are, fortunately, way less uptight about it than they used to be. Warren DeMontague Jun 2012 #18
Breast feeding is perfectly natural. Jamastiene Jun 2012 #19
I am also a lesbian Aerows Jun 2012 #25
I will try to excuse the headline... happy juneteenth Jun 2012 #26
What's that supposed to mean? nt Zorra Jun 2012 #27
I know obamanut2012 Jun 2012 #28
Is it because you used the highly provocative word breasts? LeftyMom Jun 2012 #30
When I was 7... Neoma Jun 2012 #31
That poster is no longer with DU. yardwork Jun 2012 #29
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