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Catherina

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10. It astounds me that nature gave us a means to feed our children
Fri Jun 1, 2012, 10:15 AM
Jun 2012

Last edited Fri Jun 1, 2012, 11:08 AM - Edit history (1)

free of charge, in an intimate nurturing way yet we're told to either not do it or do it in private because it makes people uncomfortable. Is that because we allowed our consumer culture to convince us that breastfeeding is for savages or poor Third World women who can't afford the *better* stuff that's full of bovine growth hormone and pesticides? This would be the same culture that barely gives women any maternity leave to take care of her child and pushes the sale of formula and now breast pumps to get those women back to work.

One other thing that shocks me is the reaction to women who breastfeed their children until they're 5 or so. What's wrong with that?

I love seeing toddlers, of all ages, run up to their moms, lift up her top and have a quick drink before running off. It's a lot healthier than grabbing something full of sugar and chemicals that keeps the corporate machine going.

I think it's prudery and perversion that explains some of the reactions and that those reactions are deliberately encouraged. Take for example how a few weeks ago, people were outraged that Times had a magazine cover of a woman standing up to feed her toddler because it wasn't natural to suckle a boy toddler that long and it wasn't natural to do it standing up. A few are openly disapproving that it's not happening in dark rooms where their filthy minds won't have something to cluck over.

Excuse me? What's this Victorian attitude?

Beautiful Mayan women in my neck of the woods, openly breastfeed their toddlers all day, standing up even! The amazing thing is that these children don't cry. I've never heard a baby crying down here and they go with their mothers everywhere. All day long, they're strapped to their mother's back and they're the happiest, best adjusted children I've ever seen.

Nobody even bats an eye over it.

In order not to make your thread too picture-heavy for people with slower connections, I'll start a different thread of just pictures of beautiful Mayan women feeding and being with their toddlers. This is just the first one.



The rest are here: http://www.democraticunderground.com/11396452

I'm a lesbian and I like breasts [View all] obamanut2012 Jun 2012 OP
Working in third world settings a fair part of my life, this was not an issue... hlthe2b Jun 2012 #1
I think that's definitely part of it obamanut2012 Jun 2012 #6
Quit injecting all that sanity into this debate! Scuba Jun 2012 #2
Sex is a really weird thing in this country obamanut2012 Jun 2012 #7
But it's okay to show people getting their brains blown out on TV, Dash87 Jun 2012 #24
sex is a primal thing qazplm Jun 2012 #3
I read somewhere... Whisp Jun 2012 #22
Generally, I like them too ... but I have to see them to be sure ... zbdent Jun 2012 #4
Funny you should mention it. Watch GMA they are discussing breastfeeding in uniform. southernyankeebelle Jun 2012 #5
Remember when Salma Hayek breastfeed a baby in Sierrea Leone? obamanut2012 Jun 2012 #8
I think breastfeeding = not buying formula. Whisp Jun 2012 #16
Disappointed TlalocW Jun 2012 #9
I can't stop reading the subject to the tune of "I'm a lumberjack, and I'm okay" petronius Jun 2012 #21
It astounds me that nature gave us a means to feed our children Catherina Jun 2012 #10
I find this interesting re the Time cover LadyHawkAZ Jun 2012 #13
I thought the Time cover was a little staged too Catherina Jun 2012 #15
I have often watched women struggle with a baby while doing everyday things in public, Jamastiene Jun 2012 #20
That really struck me here Catherina Jun 2012 #23
Sometimes I think it's not really about breasts (and I'm a lesbian and I like breasts too) justiceischeap Jun 2012 #11
I think the concept of unwanted hair is pretty stupid. Neoma Jun 2012 #14
I agree. Starry Messenger Jun 2012 #17
The result of a sexually repressed society LadyHawkAZ Jun 2012 #12
I think people are, fortunately, way less uptight about it than they used to be. Warren DeMontague Jun 2012 #18
Breast feeding is perfectly natural. Jamastiene Jun 2012 #19
I am also a lesbian Aerows Jun 2012 #25
I will try to excuse the headline... happy juneteenth Jun 2012 #26
What's that supposed to mean? nt Zorra Jun 2012 #27
I know obamanut2012 Jun 2012 #28
Is it because you used the highly provocative word breasts? LeftyMom Jun 2012 #30
When I was 7... Neoma Jun 2012 #31
That poster is no longer with DU. yardwork Jun 2012 #29
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