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mr_lebowski

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15. Match your phone records with your bank records ...
Tue Nov 17, 2020, 01:41 PM
Nov 2020

If you see a consistent pattern that you hear back after money was taken out, well ...

Doesn't mean it HAS to be opioids though, could be anything.

But it's probably something ... and I doubt it's booze, pot, or nicotine, sorry to say

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Ask bank to set account to deny overdraws lettucebe Nov 2020 #1
I don't know about opioids. irisblue Nov 2020 #2
It sounds like a potential alcohol problem. I know that fentanyl is very expensive. Before I catbyte Nov 2020 #3
Depends on what you're doing. BlueTsunami2018 Nov 2020 #4
There's no way to tie a specific amount of money to a particular drug ... mr_lebowski Nov 2020 #5
Thank you for your insight! She will often go days without answering my texts or calls. RamblingRose Nov 2020 #7
No problem. Feel free to direct message me if you want to take it offline. mr_lebowski Nov 2020 #11
EXACTLY! When she returns my calls she seems happy & talkative. I brush it aside & think all is well RamblingRose Nov 2020 #13
Match your phone records with your bank records ... mr_lebowski Nov 2020 #15
YOU NAILED IT! She made an $80 withrdrawal today. I called her but she didn't answer her phone. RamblingRose Nov 2020 #18
Well, the good news is ... $400 in that amount of time ... that's not that much $ ... mr_lebowski Nov 2020 #19
This message was self-deleted by its author RamblingRose Dec 2020 #20
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she got addicted to nicotine by vaping. A counselor once told me nicotine is a gateway drug RamblingRose Nov 2020 #6
Tell her if she's going to vape she should buy a mod and juice to refill it separately. mr_lebowski Nov 2020 #12
Package store as in liquor store? Midnightwalk Nov 2020 #8
That is exactly what my son used to do Freddie Nov 2020 #9
Yup. Hope Scholarship at UGA. I looked it up & the ATM is at the convenience store. RamblingRose Nov 2020 #10
After a time you're just using to feel normal, you don't get high anymore ... mr_lebowski Nov 2020 #14
This site gives info for place, type, etc RockCreek Nov 2020 #16
Wow. It's amazing what you can find on the internet. RamblingRose Nov 2020 #17
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