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9. Welcome :)

I'm not the handgun person. But I'm sure several folks will reply with suggestions.
My impressions really don't count as I've fired a handgun very infrequently.

I will share #11 from the USMC rules for gun fighting: http://www.snipercountry.com/articles/gunfightrules.asp
Use a gun that works EVERY TIME.

It's a somewhat amusing list but does contain considerable wisdom.

I do strongly suggest both a good lock box and a trigger lock. Safety first.
While not all safety and security measures and devices are needed in all venues, you can only use the ones you have and it's better to have and not need than need and not have.

I would also strongly urge classes in incorporating self-defense and safety and a bunch of range time and regular practice.
I know of a school out West called Frontsight near Las Vegas. I don't know your location but there are some certified instructors here who could make suggestions. I'm sure someone at your local range can guide you as well.

Most of all, treat a firearm as truly your last resort. Prepare and take all aspects of home security seriously before someone else does again. Stronger doors, alarms, window locks, lighting, fencing, etc. Your local police will generally have the latest information on break-ins and the means and if there is common point of entrance for the scum.

Practicing at a range frequented by local law enforcement will give you the chance to become known and ask about any criminal activity in your town. At the worst, if you are again victimized and the police respond while the assailants are still in the house, they stand a better chance of recognizing you. If your area has a watch group, you may want to get involved. You can get info from law enforcement and others in the watch group and knowledge is power.

Cops often like Glocks because they are department issue and that's what they train with and carry. I have heard/read good things about the XD but I confess that I have no idea of the differences between the XD and XDM. One advantage of wheel gun (revolver) is they almost never jam. I'd suggest one as a backup. There are small caliber revolvers that hold 10 or 12 rounds but I wouldn't suggest one for defense.

Train hard... an ounce of sweat saves a pint of blood.