Bereavement

relayerbob

(7,020 posts)

23. Having been a widower

Sat Nov 25, 2023, 12:12 PM

Nov 2023

I understand your position. But being that incredibly rude is neither funny nor appropriate. Our society seems to be thriving on hurting and fucking with others, and we should not be contributing to that. A simple no, thank you and then moving on is all that is required.

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Sister in law friend kept asking me out. [View all] Duncanpup Nov 2023 OP

Too funny! MOMFUDSKI Nov 2023 #1

People who won't take No for an answer Diamond_Dog Nov 2023 #2

Well played! And I wonder what she'll tell your sister-in-law? Ocelot II Nov 2023 #3

yeah, we deserve an update to the OP once he has talked to his sister in law or brother prodigitalson Nov 2023 #19

I second the motion! ShazzieB Nov 2023 #47

Maybe that... 2naSalit Nov 2023 #4

Have to be careful with that. She might like it. Srkdqltr Nov 2023 #5

Win win. Lochloosa Nov 2023 #26

Very well played! N/t gay texan Nov 2023 #6

Nicely played!😂🤣 Hope22 Nov 2023 #7

Wow how ignorant Duncanpup Nov 2023 #10

Hahahahaha!!!! Goddessartist Nov 2023 #8

What if she said "That's my favorite 2st date!" ? KS Toronado Nov 2023 #9

Parole Officer says I have to be in by nine or back to prison. Where do you want to go? twodogsbarking Nov 2023 #11

Well done, sir! Jean Genie Nov 2023 #12

Good thing she didn't say "sounds like fun". Keep your sense of humor. Things will go your way. twodogsbarking Nov 2023 #13

You're my hero. Jello works if you're out of paste. Hermit-The-Prog Nov 2023 #14

Just reminded me of a guy I worked with. He said he and a gal put wesson oil MOMFUDSKI Nov 2023 #53

See if we have chemistry would have sent me running too. Freethinker65 Nov 2023 #15

My brother, widowed 8 years, is finally dating again Freddie Nov 2023 #16

I'd block her if it's your cell phone she's contacting. littlemissmartypants Nov 2023 #17

I rather like being alone PatSeg Nov 2023 #18

Well said! BigOleDummy Nov 2023 #31

Thanks PatSeg Nov 2023 #37

Greatest reply ever!!! Moostache Nov 2023 #20

Its rather disrespectful to your privacy and to your right to grieve. 70sEraVet Nov 2023 #21

lol, good for you! nt Habibi Nov 2023 #22

Having been a widower relayerbob Nov 2023 #23

Perhaps you misread the original post . . . SarcasticSatyr Nov 2023 #33

I read the whole post relayerbob Nov 2023 #42

...and what would you have done if she said..."ooo kinky...game on...see you soon..." Lucky Luciano Nov 2023 #24

Lmao cate94 Nov 2023 #25

She's just lonely. Sad. LakeArenal Nov 2023 #27

People just don't understand. If she's that pushy with everyone, no wonder why she is alone! Ziggysmom Nov 2023 #28

It's too soon. barbtries Nov 2023 #29

I am proud to call you, Friend Bayard Nov 2023 #30

I love it! LoisB Nov 2023 #32

What about Elmers glue, then roll around in glitter? That might be acceptable and freaky enough. Hey, we've TeamProg Nov 2023 #34

Good for you! WinstonSmith4740 Nov 2023 #35

good job. WhiteTara Nov 2023 #36

Stick with the dogs. They're the best company you can have (except for cats.) japple Nov 2023 #38

One dog is about the same trouble as five cats so I am sticking with a cat n/t. airplaneman Nov 2023 #44

FWIW, my husband died in 2004. I was 54 yrs. old. I have never been interested in japple Nov 2023 #45

Take care, Duncanpup. If and when you are ready to date again, you will know when and who that will be. debm55 Nov 2023 #39

Thanks for this Marthe48 Nov 2023 #40

this gal has already displayed traits that make her unappealing Skittles Nov 2023 #41

If she shows up with red, white and blue glitter... rubbersole Nov 2023 #43

Well played. MLAA Nov 2023 #46

You may not have heard from her because she is moniss Nov 2023 #48

The only thing is.. Permanut Nov 2023 #49

Ah Dunc, who knew you were kinky? The dog hair would likely scare her away. twodogsbarking Nov 2023 #50

Give her a cpl weeks to think it over Beachnutt Nov 2023 #51

Good for you. Polly Hennessey Nov 2023 #52

A classic case of pushy coming to being shoved DFW Nov 2023 #54

I don't think I ever told you how sorry I am you lost your wife. It is horrible to lose someone you love. PatrickforB Nov 2023 #55

Made me laugh. Very sorry for your loss. Joinfortmill Nov 2023 #56