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Uponthegears

(1,499 posts)
11. On a more concilatory note
Tue Dec 13, 2016, 02:05 PM
Dec 2016

I am appalled that a majority of this country voted for a man who used his power and wealth to coerce sexual favors from women. It's disgusting.

Unfortunately for me (and I am guessing almost everyone else), I completely missed what Trump was doing by marching out the Paula Jones brigade. I thought it was some over-the-top misogynistic message about Hillary not having the ability to control Bill, so how could she control the country (which I figured would actually offend every thinking person on the planet). I was dead wrong. It was about whether a man who uses his power to coerce women for sex is unqualified to be president. In other words, it was about Trump, not Hillary.

I would hope all of us would answer that question "Of course such a man is totally unqualified," but the fact is that many of us (particularly older voters) did not give that answer during past elections.

The fact that we should be damned for that silence obviously does not in any way justify damning ourselves yet again. It does, however, suggest that the message that Trump is a sexual predator might have been better received if it were presented as a chance for our redemption. (Apologies for the religious allusions).

We are on the same side.

Edited to add (NOT A MAJORITY, not by 2.8 million+ voters, only a majority of electoral votes)

I think people should read the party platform and formulate their message. NCTraveler Dec 2016 #1
A number of people seem to confuse positions or message BainsBane Dec 2016 #2
Message is derived from positions. NCTraveler Dec 2016 #3
Unfortunately for many BainsBane Dec 2016 #6
Amen. nt brer cat Dec 2016 #39
Obviously we need as many good candidates as possible Uponthegears Dec 2016 #4
Hillary Clinton won voters earning under $50k BainsBane Dec 2016 #5
What utter tripe Uponthegears Dec 2016 #8
I didn't mention Sanders or his supporters BainsBane Dec 2016 #13
And yet, we could not agree more on some things Uponthegears Dec 2016 #31
please make this it's own op DonCoquixote Dec 2016 #28
+1000 PotatoChip Dec 2016 #51
"Clearly you don't sit down with those you disagree with." Are you referencing the poster? Eleanors38 Dec 2016 #9
Yes, I was BainsBane Dec 2016 #14
On a more concilatory note Uponthegears Dec 2016 #11
BB. +10000 Hekate Dec 2016 #12
Same here Gothmog Dec 2016 #33
Unfortunately some want to control the Democratic Party message from the outside. George II Dec 2016 #7
That is not an accurate gauge of whether a message can resonate with people. Just running and tyring JCanete Dec 2016 #10
But that's the thing, isn't it? bravenak Dec 2016 #17
Winning with our current party is fan-fiction that our leaders keep regurgitating and fawning over. JCanete Dec 2016 #23
I disagree with your analysis Gothmog Dec 2016 #18
How can you disagree with my analysis and then say if your campaign resonates, donors will JCanete Dec 2016 #21
Have you worked on a campaign? Gothmog Dec 2016 #32
who are those key groups? Who are the people usually engaged at this level? JCanete Dec 2016 #35
Again, you are not answering my question Gothmog Dec 2016 #37
So, the premise I was responding to was basically "if your ideas are so hot prove it JCanete Dec 2016 #40
Again, go work with a county party or on a real campaign Gothmog Dec 2016 #42
sad and wrong... your words are the things I was saying were reinforcing my argument. Not that I JCanete Dec 2016 #46
In the real world the concern is electability and being competitive Gothmog Dec 2016 #53
now you're basically saying that in the "real world" donors don't give a shit about policy, just JCanete Dec 2016 #55
I understand there are all kinds of obstacles to running BainsBane Dec 2016 #22
Where I agree with you is that refighting the primary is pointless, and that energy spent JCanete Dec 2016 #27
my problem with your analsysis BainsBane Dec 2016 #38
That recurring theme about rhetoric versus policy--excuse me for being cute--is rhetoric. JCanete Dec 2016 #41
You do know that Sanders outspent Clinton in most primaries? Gothmog Dec 2016 #43
but that is nothing compared to the megaphone that went out over the corporate media from JCanete Dec 2016 #47
Again, you are wrong Gothmog Dec 2016 #52
okay, I see, you're not responding to what I'm posting, just to a preconceived notion you already JCanete Dec 2016 #54
Rhetoric is meaningless BainsBane Dec 2016 #45
Except that I didn't say populist rhetoric was good just cuz it feels good to hear it. JCanete Dec 2016 #48
You relied on his claim BainsBane Dec 2016 #49
Well that's not exactly fair. He's a Presidential Candidate. He could have said "this is the only JCanete Dec 2016 #50
DU does not reflect the Democratic Party or the real world Gothmog Dec 2016 #15
Interesting ticket split in your county BainsBane Dec 2016 #16
Yep Gothmog Dec 2016 #19
Another way is for everyone to call their Democratic congressmen, lots of them, and OFTEN mtnsnake Dec 2016 #20
Would you actually call based on rhetoric you want them to use? BainsBane Dec 2016 #24
Do you honestly think that tons of people here are going to follow your advice mtnsnake Dec 2016 #30
No, but you're advocating calling representatives BainsBane Dec 2016 #34
I would encourage those that aren't the type to run to still get involved and proactively seek good think Dec 2016 #25
I agree local politics are key BainsBane Dec 2016 #26
A grad student I talked with today told me my generation was at fault. redstatebluegirl Dec 2016 #29
Great idea, BB. Too bad Zephyr Teachout's message didn't Cha Dec 2016 #36
And the Sanders supported candidate running against DWS also lost Gothmog Dec 2016 #44
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