I've been caring for my mother -- who has Alzheimer's -- for the last six years. She lived with me and my now-ex for the first three, but after we split up, I could no longer take care of her myself. I do have four siblings, but two are unable to help and the other two are unwilling.
My mother was pretty abusive when we were growing up, so there are still a lot of bad feelings within the family. But as her dementia has progressed, she's actually become a really sweet old lady, and it's been easier for me to deal with the past. I think in some ways that's been a gift, and I wish my siblings could benefit from it. But they've chosen their own paths....
In any case, it's been hard -- both emotionally and financially. I see her 4-5 days a week, take her to all her appointments, take her for drives and meals when she's up to it. Thankfully she gets a Navy pension, which covers a fair amount of her care. Nonetheless, I've slowly drained my own savings because dementia care costs a sh**load of money. I half-joke with her that once the money runs out we'll do a Thelma and Louise. She laughs, even though I know she has no idea what I'm talking about. Then again, maybe she does. :-/
But I just came across this group, and I thank you for asking this question. It feels good to vent a little. But gotta stop now before I start crying. 
Good luck and all the best to everyone here!
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