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"I refuse to let my sons play with dolls" (Original Post) Nevilledog Jan 2024 OP
WOW !!!!!! Karadeniz Jan 2024 #1
I Thought This Was Going Someplace Aggravating ProfessorGAC Jan 2024 #2
So did I, but I saw it being passed around by like-minded accounts so I hit play. Nevilledog Jan 2024 #23
Woweee! Alliepoo Jan 2024 #3
Same Rebl2 Jan 2024 #27
Bravo! peggysue2 Jan 2024 #4
That... is some powerful stuff. LakeArenal Jan 2024 #5
Excellent, very well said and heartfelt. Walleye Jan 2024 #6
Kick. Caliman73 Jan 2024 #7
Well done. He gets your attention, and then he pulls you in. patphil Jan 2024 #8
Moving beyond words Mousetoescamper Jan 2024 #9
TY for posting the link. I rarely use YouTube so I forget. Nevilledog Jan 2024 #11
Thank you again for posting Mousetoescamper Jan 2024 #12
Thanks for the YT Delphinus Jan 2024 #26
You're welcome! Mousetoescamper Jan 2024 #28
Holy shit!! That was so powerful! BComplex Jan 2024 #10
Hear! Hear! LoisB Jan 2024 #13
Very powerful. yardwork Jan 2024 #14
Wow..powerful Demovictory9 Jan 2024 #15
I am so in awe of this young man! kimbutgar Jan 2024 #16
just wow!!! fantase56 Jan 2024 #17
That was NOT what I was expecting Warpy Jan 2024 #18
I have goosebumps. What a guy! AllyCat Jan 2024 #19
Hold on, I have to get a tissue...OK, I'm back...THAT is powerful, very eloquent, and one can see that it came Escurumbele Jan 2024 #20
Preach Demetri, Preach. Fla Dem Jan 2024 #21
Absolutely brilliant. Share this! nolabear Jan 2024 #22
Whoever raised him raised a hell of a man. StarryNite Jan 2024 #24
Magnicent malaise Jan 2024 #25
Powerful. FM123 Jan 2024 #29
Thank you for posting that. Think. Again. Jan 2024 #30
Blown away by his beautiful soul. Timeflyer Jan 2024 #31
I think I'll just K&R this...more people need to see it...nt Wounded Bear Jan 2024 #32
Kick IcyPeas Jan 2024 #33
Wow. Powerful. A_Woman_from_MI Jan 2024 #34
Whoa! Stinky The Clown Jan 2024 #35
I am in tears Hekate Jan 2024 #36
Kick Nevilledog Jan 2024 #37
Very eloquent Wild blueberry Jan 2024 #38
In just looking at the title, my first reaction was, "g. i. joe, jerk!" Then I looked niyad Jan 2024 #39
I really didn't want to give away the content. It's so powerful as delivered. Nevilledog Jan 2024 #40

peggysue2

(11,519 posts)
4. Bravo!
Tue Jan 30, 2024, 01:13 PM
Jan 2024


We need more men speaking out. May not be as eloquent or powerful as this, but every man's voice in behalf of the women they know and love is a solid defense against misogyny and on-going abuse.

Good one on this young man.

patphil

(7,118 posts)
8. Well done. He gets your attention, and then he pulls you in.
Tue Jan 30, 2024, 01:58 PM
Jan 2024

Very powerful stuff. I am in awe of this guy.

Mousetoescamper

(5,509 posts)
9. Moving beyond words
Tue Jan 30, 2024, 02:02 PM
Jan 2024

Edited because I realized that my post was an unintentional spoiler.

Thanks, Nevilledog.

I hope you won't mind my posting the YouTube video for those who don't do X but want to share.

?si=VOVQQWJ9UUy2u4VV

Delphinus

(12,159 posts)
26. Thanks for the YT
Tue Jan 30, 2024, 05:49 PM
Jan 2024

I was trying to figure out how to find it on TikTok and this is so much better.

BComplex

(9,155 posts)
10. Holy shit!! That was so powerful!
Tue Jan 30, 2024, 02:02 PM
Jan 2024
I'm sitting here in tears. I've never heard anyone put it like that, either.

fantase56

(471 posts)
17. just wow!!!
Tue Jan 30, 2024, 03:01 PM
Jan 2024

I shared this with my wife from my office almost simultaneously as she shared it with me from home.......

Warpy

(113,131 posts)
18. That was NOT what I was expecting
Tue Jan 30, 2024, 03:20 PM
Jan 2024

Wow, just wow. Stereotype shattered forever.

Then again, I remember the silly period in which boys got dolls and girls got trucks along with sex typed toys. The boys would hold Barbie by her feet and yell "BANG!" The girls would wrap a truck in a blankie and put it to bed. Yes, I personally witnessed both behaviors, along with the shock and disgust on their mother's face.

But he makes a good point, even if playing Barbies with a sister when there are no boys around is not what causes them to treat women like livestock.

It's male culture, that adolescent stew of pimples, unwanted erections, and a breaking voice that tells them they can cover it all up by being swaggering assholes who are vicious to girls. That's what grown men need to address. Maybe this guy will make a start.

Escurumbele

(3,648 posts)
20. Hold on, I have to get a tissue...OK, I'm back...THAT is powerful, very eloquent, and one can see that it came
Tue Jan 30, 2024, 03:46 PM
Jan 2024

from the heart...

WOW, WOW, WOW...

Send it to everyone you know, I have.

nolabear

(43,280 posts)
22. Absolutely brilliant. Share this!
Tue Jan 30, 2024, 03:49 PM
Jan 2024

I love Spokenword. I do Spokenword. This is why Spokenword was created, for this kind of message and impact. I’ve never seen this young man but you can be sure I’ll find him!

A_Woman_from_MI

(177 posts)
34. Wow. Powerful.
Tue Jan 30, 2024, 10:16 PM
Jan 2024

My son is a good man, but probably not so eloquent.

*rethinking my choice to let him play with dolls if he wanted to*

niyad

(120,678 posts)
39. In just looking at the title, my first reaction was, "g. i. joe, jerk!" Then I looked
Wed Jan 31, 2024, 12:25 PM
Jan 2024

at the first comments, and realized that I had to watch it. Powerful! This young man is amazing, and I am almost in tears.

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