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MineralMan

(148,835 posts)
Mon Nov 11, 2024, 04:19 PM Nov 2024

Note to All Men about "Your Body; My Choice":

Starting now, if you hear someone use the "Your Body; My Choice" nonsense, immediately call that person out and let them know that they should STFU with that shit. If a female friend or acquaintance tells you that someone has confronted them with that nonsense, go to the person who did that and let them know, in no uncertain terms that nothing had better happen to your friend or acquaintance or you'll be the one they have to answer to.

We, as men, really need to nip this crap in the bud from the very beginning. We owe that to the women we know.

Of course, you already know better than to use that phrase yourself, right?

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Note to All Men about "Your Body; My Choice": (Original Post) MineralMan Nov 2024 OP
I don't think you'll find too many of them here wryter2000 Nov 2024 #1
I agree. However, you'll find a lot who will stand up for MineralMan Nov 2024 #2
Actually it scares me B.See Nov 2024 #10
I don't want to post what I will do in response goddammit but anyone would be fucking wise not say that shit around me. SoFlaBro Nov 2024 #34
I'd prefer that men ALL stand up even for the women they don't know. ancianita Nov 2024 #22
Sounds like a good plan. MineralMan Nov 2024 #24
Very true wryter2000 Nov 2024 #33
I think only on line will you hear this. I never would have known it was a thing without DU mentioning it. jimfields33 Nov 2024 #8
A young acquaintance of mine was confronted with this crap on her college campus... MANative Nov 2024 #15
Saw report of this happening to girls at an elementary school. Very young boy involved Attilatheblond Nov 2024 #27
I'd be shocked if there were ANY here! choie Nov 2024 #32
MinMan... Hekate Nov 2024 #3
Right back at you! MineralMan Nov 2024 #4
And for women, the response should be "Your nuts, my knee." Ocelot II Nov 2024 #5
Yes, that, too! MineralMan Nov 2024 #7
That's just what I was gonna write Walleye Nov 2024 #16
or: Your nuts, my loppers Attilatheblond Nov 2024 #28
I fucking like this! I'm with women. I'm on some real stupid shit when it come to defending women. SoFlaBro Nov 2024 #36
Someone on DU replied the other day on a different thread SomedayKindaLove Nov 2024 #38
My innate programming as a man Otto_Harper Nov 2024 #6
Yes. It's more about recognizing the threat. MineralMan Nov 2024 #9
When a man says that to a woman she ought to say "In your dreams baby - you'll never get close to this body." tetedur Nov 2024 #11
Women response that I read..... Lovie777 Nov 2024 #12
Yep! Walleye Nov 2024 #18
I think bdamomma Nov 2024 #13
I don't know how you'd ban those ED drugs. MineralMan Nov 2024 #14
We need to approach the Supreme Court. Hope22 Nov 2024 #23
I don't see any situation where I would say that. BlueTsunami2018 Nov 2024 #17
It's not about you saying it. MineralMan Nov 2024 #19
Your inquiry at the end sparked my response. BlueTsunami2018 Nov 2024 #21
A good reply????.....My foot, your Balls. apcalc Nov 2024 #20
My knee Katcat Nov 2024 #40
I'm 5'4''. I will not challenge anyone. Broken ego will heal much faster than broken bones. Mr.Bill Nov 2024 #25
Maga men will discover that when the women they care about CrispyQ Nov 2024 #26
The problem is more Jilly_in_VA Nov 2024 #29
There may be more that we would not want to acknowledge. It's a sickening "thing." Evolve Dammit Nov 2024 #30
That earns an immediate dick-punch. Orrex Nov 2024 #31
i sure as hell WILL. GaYellowDawg Nov 2024 #35
Message auto-removed Name removed Nov 2024 #37
Gisele Pelicot google her and weep irisblue Nov 2024 #39
American women had one job Dem4life1234 Nov 2024 #41
Sounds like an excellent ForgedCrank Nov 2024 #42

MineralMan

(148,835 posts)
2. I agree. However, you'll find a lot who will stand up for
Mon Nov 11, 2024, 04:24 PM
Nov 2024

the women they know and care about if someone pulls that crap.

SoFlaBro

(3,426 posts)
34. I don't want to post what I will do in response goddammit but anyone would be fucking wise not say that shit around me.
Mon Nov 11, 2024, 06:47 PM
Nov 2024

ancianita

(40,246 posts)
22. I'd prefer that men ALL stand up even for the women they don't know.
Mon Nov 11, 2024, 05:56 PM
Nov 2024

This isn't about how close the battle is to men. This about all men standing up for women who have to face this battle at all.

MineralMan

(148,835 posts)
24. Sounds like a good plan.
Mon Nov 11, 2024, 05:58 PM
Nov 2024

I haven't encountered anyone saying or wearing that. If I do. I'll speak right up, I promise

 

jimfields33

(19,382 posts)
8. I think only on line will you hear this. I never would have known it was a thing without DU mentioning it.
Mon Nov 11, 2024, 04:29 PM
Nov 2024

MANative

(4,164 posts)
15. A young acquaintance of mine was confronted with this crap on her college campus...
Mon Nov 11, 2024, 04:46 PM
Nov 2024

in Connecticut. Someone had posted it on an internal message board. It's out there.

As a woman of a certain age, I can't begin to tell you how enraging this juvenile misogyny is. I'm holding back - no one wants to hear me get wound up on this, trust me. The rant would be beyond epic, bordering on it's own level of lunacy.

Attilatheblond

(5,609 posts)
27. Saw report of this happening to girls at an elementary school. Very young boy involved
Mon Nov 11, 2024, 06:12 PM
Nov 2024

Wonder what else that little boy is hearing at home

SoFlaBro

(3,426 posts)
36. I fucking like this! I'm with women. I'm on some real stupid shit when it come to defending women.
Mon Nov 11, 2024, 06:49 PM
Nov 2024

I'm on my fucking bully bout THAT.

tetedur

(1,231 posts)
11. When a man says that to a woman she ought to say "In your dreams baby - you'll never get close to this body."
Mon Nov 11, 2024, 04:35 PM
Nov 2024

bdamomma

(67,923 posts)
13. I think
Mon Nov 11, 2024, 04:36 PM
Nov 2024

those who say this filth, is to ban all Viagra/Cialis meds, if they ban Mifepristone we should fight fire with fire,

How many times can we see that advertisement ????? Let's hit them below the belt???

How would be able to do this???

Thanks MineralMan

MineralMan

(148,835 posts)
14. I don't know how you'd ban those ED drugs.
Mon Nov 11, 2024, 04:39 PM
Nov 2024

I can't think of any way to do that. Not a bad idea, though.

Hope22

(3,881 posts)
23. We need to approach the Supreme Court.
Mon Nov 11, 2024, 05:57 PM
Nov 2024

God broke that thing for a reason and men should not interfere with the plan!

BlueTsunami2018

(4,282 posts)
17. I don't see any situation where I would say that.
Mon Nov 11, 2024, 04:51 PM
Nov 2024

It’s dumb first of all.

Secondly, I’m not a child to go around taunting people.

I don’t see any reason for anyone to be saying this.

But the kids are all in with these incel podcasters and such. The internet is at once the best and worst thing ever. It’s easy to radicalize people, fool them and scam them. People just aren’t that smart.

MineralMan

(148,835 posts)
19. It's not about you saying it.
Mon Nov 11, 2024, 04:54 PM
Nov 2024

It's about someone you know having it said to them. I thought that was clear in my OP. Oh, well.

BlueTsunami2018

(4,282 posts)
21. Your inquiry at the end sparked my response.
Mon Nov 11, 2024, 04:58 PM
Nov 2024

I honestly don’t anticipate hearing anyone say this, ever.

But in the off chance I do, I would certainly say something.

Mr.Bill

(24,906 posts)
25. I'm 5'4''. I will not challenge anyone. Broken ego will heal much faster than broken bones.
Mon Nov 11, 2024, 06:05 PM
Nov 2024

However, I am 71 years old, so if they threaten me I will just invite them to throw the first punch after I inform them that assault and battery to an elder is a felony in California. Probably the same in many states.

CrispyQ

(39,415 posts)
26. Maga men will discover that when the women they care about
Mon Nov 11, 2024, 06:10 PM
Nov 2024

are away from their community where everyone knows them, they will be targets, too. Girls especially, are vulnerable.

Jilly_in_VA

(11,742 posts)
29. The problem is more
Mon Nov 11, 2024, 06:22 PM
Nov 2024

at the middle school level, from what I'm hearing. And moms should tell their daughters to report this as a threat of sexual assault. If the school doesn't take it seriously from the girls, then the parents should go straight to the principal's office. Meanwhile, enroll your daughters in martial arts classes (Krav Maga would be good!) and maybe teach them to retort, "Your cock, my Glock!"

Orrex

(64,973 posts)
31. That earns an immediate dick-punch.
Mon Nov 11, 2024, 06:33 PM
Nov 2024

I will happily attack any flaccid shithead I hear/see using this bullshit misogynist attack.

Haven't yet encountered it in real time, but I'm watching for it.

GaYellowDawg

(4,952 posts)
35. i sure as hell WILL.
Mon Nov 11, 2024, 06:49 PM
Nov 2024

As a white male, I recognize that it's particularly important for me to speak up.

Response to MineralMan (Original post)

irisblue

(34,866 posts)
39. Gisele Pelicot google her and weep
Mon Nov 11, 2024, 06:59 PM
Nov 2024

A lot of men will rape and use a woman's body if the chance is there

ForgedCrank

(2,594 posts)
42. Sounds like an excellent
Mon Nov 11, 2024, 07:35 PM
Nov 2024

way to get my ass kicked.
I believe women can handle themselves without my intervention.

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