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MineralMan

(148,286 posts)
Mon Nov 11, 2024, 03:19 PM Nov 11

Note to All Men about "Your Body; My Choice":

Starting now, if you hear someone use the "Your Body; My Choice" nonsense, immediately call that person out and let them know that they should STFU with that shit. If a female friend or acquaintance tells you that someone has confronted them with that nonsense, go to the person who did that and let them know, in no uncertain terms that nothing had better happen to your friend or acquaintance or you'll be the one they have to answer to.

We, as men, really need to nip this crap in the bud from the very beginning. We owe that to the women we know.

Of course, you already know better than to use that phrase yourself, right?

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Note to All Men about "Your Body; My Choice": (Original Post) MineralMan Nov 11 OP
I don't think you'll find too many of them here wryter2000 Nov 11 #1
I agree. However, you'll find a lot who will stand up for MineralMan Nov 11 #2
Actually it scares me B.See Nov 11 #10
I don't want to post what I will do in response goddammit but anyone would be fucking wise not say that shit around me. SoFlaBro Nov 11 #34
I'd prefer that men ALL stand up even for the women they don't know. ancianita Nov 11 #22
Sounds like a good plan. MineralMan Nov 11 #24
Very true wryter2000 Nov 11 #33
I think only on line will you hear this. I never would have known it was a thing without DU mentioning it. jimfields33 Nov 11 #8
A young acquaintance of mine was confronted with this crap on her college campus... MANative Nov 11 #15
Saw report of this happening to girls at an elementary school. Very young boy involved Attilatheblond Nov 11 #27
I'd be shocked if there were ANY here! choie Nov 11 #32
MinMan... Hekate Nov 11 #3
Right back at you! MineralMan Nov 11 #4
And for women, the response should be "Your nuts, my knee." Ocelot II Nov 11 #5
Yes, that, too! MineralMan Nov 11 #7
That's just what I was gonna write Walleye Nov 11 #16
or: Your nuts, my loppers Attilatheblond Nov 11 #28
I fucking like this! I'm with women. I'm on some real stupid shit when it come to defending women. SoFlaBro Nov 11 #36
Someone on DU replied the other day on a different thread SomedayKindaLove Nov 11 #38
My innate programming as a man Otto_Harper Nov 11 #6
Yes. It's more about recognizing the threat. MineralMan Nov 11 #9
When a man says that to a woman she ought to say "In your dreams baby - you'll never get close to this body." tetedur Nov 11 #11
Women response that I read..... Lovie777 Nov 11 #12
Yep! Walleye Nov 11 #18
I think bdamomma Nov 11 #13
I don't know how you'd ban those ED drugs. MineralMan Nov 11 #14
We need to approach the Supreme Court. Hope22 Nov 11 #23
I don't see any situation where I would say that. BlueTsunami2018 Nov 11 #17
It's not about you saying it. MineralMan Nov 11 #19
Your inquiry at the end sparked my response. BlueTsunami2018 Nov 11 #21
A good reply????.....My foot, your Balls. apcalc Nov 11 #20
My knee Katcat Nov 11 #40
I'm 5'4''. I will not challenge anyone. Broken ego will heal much faster than broken bones. Mr.Bill Nov 11 #25
Maga men will discover that when the women they care about CrispyQ Nov 11 #26
The problem is more Jilly_in_VA Nov 11 #29
There may be more that we would not want to acknowledge. It's a sickening "thing." Evolve Dammit Nov 11 #30
That earns an immediate dick-punch. Orrex Nov 11 #31
i sure as hell WILL. GaYellowDawg Nov 11 #35
Message auto-removed Name removed Nov 11 #37
Gisele Pelicot google her and weep irisblue Nov 11 #39
American women had one job Dem4life1234 Nov 11 #41
Sounds like an excellent ForgedCrank Nov 11 #42

MineralMan

(148,286 posts)
2. I agree. However, you'll find a lot who will stand up for
Mon Nov 11, 2024, 03:24 PM
Nov 11

the women they know and care about if someone pulls that crap.

SoFlaBro

(3,403 posts)
34. I don't want to post what I will do in response goddammit but anyone would be fucking wise not say that shit around me.
Mon Nov 11, 2024, 05:47 PM
Nov 11

ancianita

(39,206 posts)
22. I'd prefer that men ALL stand up even for the women they don't know.
Mon Nov 11, 2024, 04:56 PM
Nov 11

This isn't about how close the battle is to men. This about all men standing up for women who have to face this battle at all.

MineralMan

(148,286 posts)
24. Sounds like a good plan.
Mon Nov 11, 2024, 04:58 PM
Nov 11

I haven't encountered anyone saying or wearing that. If I do. I'll speak right up, I promise

 

jimfields33

(19,382 posts)
8. I think only on line will you hear this. I never would have known it was a thing without DU mentioning it.
Mon Nov 11, 2024, 03:29 PM
Nov 11

MANative

(4,148 posts)
15. A young acquaintance of mine was confronted with this crap on her college campus...
Mon Nov 11, 2024, 03:46 PM
Nov 11

in Connecticut. Someone had posted it on an internal message board. It's out there.

As a woman of a certain age, I can't begin to tell you how enraging this juvenile misogyny is. I'm holding back - no one wants to hear me get wound up on this, trust me. The rant would be beyond epic, bordering on it's own level of lunacy.

Attilatheblond

(4,949 posts)
27. Saw report of this happening to girls at an elementary school. Very young boy involved
Mon Nov 11, 2024, 05:12 PM
Nov 11

Wonder what else that little boy is hearing at home

SoFlaBro

(3,403 posts)
36. I fucking like this! I'm with women. I'm on some real stupid shit when it come to defending women.
Mon Nov 11, 2024, 05:49 PM
Nov 11

I'm on my fucking bully bout THAT.

tetedur

(1,135 posts)
11. When a man says that to a woman she ought to say "In your dreams baby - you'll never get close to this body."
Mon Nov 11, 2024, 03:35 PM
Nov 11

bdamomma

(67,195 posts)
13. I think
Mon Nov 11, 2024, 03:36 PM
Nov 11

those who say this filth, is to ban all Viagra/Cialis meds, if they ban Mifepristone we should fight fire with fire,

How many times can we see that advertisement ????? Let's hit them below the belt???

How would be able to do this???

Thanks MineralMan

MineralMan

(148,286 posts)
14. I don't know how you'd ban those ED drugs.
Mon Nov 11, 2024, 03:39 PM
Nov 11

I can't think of any way to do that. Not a bad idea, though.

Hope22

(3,382 posts)
23. We need to approach the Supreme Court.
Mon Nov 11, 2024, 04:57 PM
Nov 11

God broke that thing for a reason and men should not interfere with the plan!

BlueTsunami2018

(4,133 posts)
17. I don't see any situation where I would say that.
Mon Nov 11, 2024, 03:51 PM
Nov 11

It’s dumb first of all.

Secondly, I’m not a child to go around taunting people.

I don’t see any reason for anyone to be saying this.

But the kids are all in with these incel podcasters and such. The internet is at once the best and worst thing ever. It’s easy to radicalize people, fool them and scam them. People just aren’t that smart.

MineralMan

(148,286 posts)
19. It's not about you saying it.
Mon Nov 11, 2024, 03:54 PM
Nov 11

It's about someone you know having it said to them. I thought that was clear in my OP. Oh, well.

BlueTsunami2018

(4,133 posts)
21. Your inquiry at the end sparked my response.
Mon Nov 11, 2024, 03:58 PM
Nov 11

I honestly don’t anticipate hearing anyone say this, ever.

But in the off chance I do, I would certainly say something.

Mr.Bill

(24,905 posts)
25. I'm 5'4''. I will not challenge anyone. Broken ego will heal much faster than broken bones.
Mon Nov 11, 2024, 05:05 PM
Nov 11

However, I am 71 years old, so if they threaten me I will just invite them to throw the first punch after I inform them that assault and battery to an elder is a felony in California. Probably the same in many states.

CrispyQ

(38,837 posts)
26. Maga men will discover that when the women they care about
Mon Nov 11, 2024, 05:10 PM
Nov 11

are away from their community where everyone knows them, they will be targets, too. Girls especially, are vulnerable.

Jilly_in_VA

(11,402 posts)
29. The problem is more
Mon Nov 11, 2024, 05:22 PM
Nov 11

at the middle school level, from what I'm hearing. And moms should tell their daughters to report this as a threat of sexual assault. If the school doesn't take it seriously from the girls, then the parents should go straight to the principal's office. Meanwhile, enroll your daughters in martial arts classes (Krav Maga would be good!) and maybe teach them to retort, "Your cock, my Glock!"

Orrex

(64,535 posts)
31. That earns an immediate dick-punch.
Mon Nov 11, 2024, 05:33 PM
Nov 11

I will happily attack any flaccid shithead I hear/see using this bullshit misogynist attack.

Haven't yet encountered it in real time, but I'm watching for it.

GaYellowDawg

(4,902 posts)
35. i sure as hell WILL.
Mon Nov 11, 2024, 05:49 PM
Nov 11

As a white male, I recognize that it's particularly important for me to speak up.

Response to MineralMan (Original post)

irisblue

(34,560 posts)
39. Gisele Pelicot google her and weep
Mon Nov 11, 2024, 05:59 PM
Nov 11

A lot of men will rape and use a woman's body if the chance is there

ForgedCrank

(2,477 posts)
42. Sounds like an excellent
Mon Nov 11, 2024, 06:35 PM
Nov 11

way to get my ass kicked.
I believe women can handle themselves without my intervention.

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