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ChazInAz

(2,780 posts)
Sat Nov 16, 2024, 07:47 PM Nov 16

I am very proud.

On Monday, my best friend Bill and his adopted son Alias will speak before Congress. Bill's not a polished speaker, and I know he's going to get emotional. They will be talking about Brigada's Syndrome, the hard-to-spot genetic heart defect that took Alias's twin brother Rocky three years ago at the age of fifteen. Alias, naturally, has it too. Usually the first symptom of it is when you enter puberty and drop dead without any warning. If you're really lucky you might have a remote chance of reaching thirty, but no older. There's no cure. Alias has a pacemaker installed, and carries a defib box with him everywhere.
When we lost Rocky, he was taken to Children's Mercy Hospital, where he saved many lives through organ donations
So...yeah. Bill's going to be emotional. I don't blame him, I will be, too.

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LoisB

(8,678 posts)
2. I wish Bill and Alias well. Emotional is quite alright. Who wouldn't be if your child suddenly died at the age
Sat Nov 16, 2024, 07:59 PM
Nov 16

15? I am very sorry for your friend Bill's loss and hope for a medical breakthrough for Alias.

magicarpet

(16,523 posts)
4. We erroniously think we have a heavy and overwelming load to bear,...
Sat Nov 16, 2024, 08:07 PM
Nov 16

... but others are so much more burdened with life's twists and turns.

We just have to keep an eye on each other so we can endure what life dishes out at us - and remember to share a laugh and smile as frequently as we can.

Biophilic

(4,744 posts)
5. Thank you for sharing this.
Sat Nov 16, 2024, 08:23 PM
Nov 16

Whenever I think enough is enough I find others’ stories that make me realize how lucky I’ve been and continue to be. I wish them both well whatever support I can give.

surfered

(3,141 posts)
6. Tragic. Good luck. At my age, dropping dead suddenly would seem like a blessing.
Sat Nov 16, 2024, 08:24 PM
Nov 16

Not trying to minimize your story, just stating a fact.

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