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sellitman

(11,680 posts)
Fri Nov 29, 2024, 09:05 PM Friday

I was just with my very Liberal family for Thanksgiving in Massachusetts.

5 of us. I'm the oldest. I have two brothers and two sisters.

None of us could discuss politics.

I'm wondering if we all have PTSD?

I feel like the whole sane population of the US does.



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I was just with my very Liberal family for Thanksgiving in Massachusetts. (Original Post) sellitman Friday OP
Same here, all libs, not much political talk, everything but. Clouds Passing Friday #1
Same here WiVoter Friday #9
Talking about how to make our communities stronger right now is vital. There's no better time to organize. WhiskeyGrinder Friday #2
Absolutely. Seeing it locally, and weekly. bucolic_frolic Friday #3
Yes Cirsium Saturday #22
Although I am truly shell-shocked... Trueblue Texan Saturday #28
Yes. It's why MSNBCs ratings tanked right after the election. CrispyQ Friday #4
I think a lot of the US has PTSD BigmanPigman Friday #13
I agree Cirsium Saturday #23
I'm certain you're right. soldierant Saturday #29
I have not heard much from my friends Meowmee Friday #5
We were with 12, none even close to being a MAGAt. Abolishinist Friday #6
Just had a family dinner out Nictuku Friday #8
My latest insight is about facts. SleeplessinSoCal Friday #7
K&R spanone Friday #10
Put on the movie "Dave". It gives me hope. LT Barclay Friday #11
Same. YodaMom2 Friday #12
i think so. barbtries Saturday #14
I was at Thanksgiving with three other families Prairie Gates Saturday #15
Rule in the house when it comes to meals sakabatou Saturday #16
We all are on the same page. sellitman Saturday #17
Why ruin a beautiful meal? stollen Saturday #18
Message auto-removed Name removed Saturday #19
MAGA-vellian? Thanks for the heads-up! JoseBalow Saturday #21
I missed it 😂 NT Tickle Sunday #34
Class action lawsuit for 9 years of abusive actions. Sad part is, he was just warming up. He wants to destroy us. n/t Evolve Dammit Saturday #20
This is a big deal KT2000 Saturday #24
Yes, I agree sellitman Monday #35
Had all four of our kids and a few grown grandkids, all democrats 70sEraVet Saturday #25
People that care, are taking a break. Been on DU from, I guess, early on. OAITW r.2.0 Saturday #26
I definitely have PTSD. Different Drummer Saturday #27
Yes, PTSD, post election wendyb-NC Saturday #30
It was pretty much the same at our Thanksgiving. GoodRaisin Sunday #31
Same with my very liberal family in Texas. (nt) Paladin Sunday #32
I think it will take around spring or summer next year JI7 Sunday #33

Clouds Passing

(2,370 posts)
1. Same here, all libs, not much political talk, everything but.
Fri Nov 29, 2024, 09:12 PM
Friday

Delicious food, beautiful table, excellent company, It was delightfully pleasant and fun

Trueblue Texan

(2,957 posts)
28. Although I am truly shell-shocked...
Sat Nov 30, 2024, 08:53 PM
Saturday

…I did accept the position of secretary for the county Dem party. I don’t even know how to begin to breathe political air again, even after being a lifelong dem. Stepping blindly into the future…at least that’s how it feels as this world now seems completely foreign to me.

soldierant

(7,920 posts)
29. I'm certain you're right.
Sat Nov 30, 2024, 09:21 PM
Saturday

Armed combat is not necessary to give someone PTSD. Of course with unarmed combat the symtoms are different - which is a good thing. There is never a time when it would be good for the country for a bunch of liberals to shoot themselves.

Meowmee

(5,713 posts)
5. I have not heard much from my friends
Fri Nov 29, 2024, 09:27 PM
Friday

Usual emails from one, but he doesn’t always reply right away and he’s a lot older. And an email from another just sent the borowitz explanation of how psycho could win again or something like that. I have not heard back from her thoughts. But she’s not really good at replying to emails so I have to call her. Otherwise it’s just me and my brother and we have talked about various things and my cats of course who I talk to, but I’m trying to keep them calm because me being upset does not help them.

Abolishinist

(2,009 posts)
6. We were with 12, none even close to being a MAGAt.
Fri Nov 29, 2024, 09:50 PM
Friday

Interesting, I never thought about it until you brought this up, but except for one comment by yours truly, politics was never brought up!

We were all enjoying the moment, why downgrade it with such.

So except for moi, COOL!

Nictuku

(3,871 posts)
8. Just had a family dinner out
Fri Nov 29, 2024, 11:09 PM
Friday

Kind of a rare thing. Not for Thanksgiving, but for my mom's (our Matriarch) Birthday. We are all basically Liberals.

Me, Mom and my Cousin talk politics all the time, but at this dinner with his 2 boys (and their girlfriends)... we all abstained from politics.

For me it was kind of weird. I have this sarcastic inside voice constantly going on about (doom gloom TSF, etc) that I had to make sure didn't come out. It would ruin things for everyone else, who seemed to be having a marvelous time.

Edit to add: That sure does make me look at myself.... maybe I am making myself miserable with all these politics. I feel weary of it all.

SleeplessinSoCal

(9,688 posts)
7. My latest insight is about facts.
Fri Nov 29, 2024, 09:53 PM
Friday

When Vance said "no fact checking" during his debate, we learned that debates are meaningless. And that goes for discussion. BS is no way to run the world.

YodaMom2

(48 posts)
12. Same.
Fri Nov 29, 2024, 11:31 PM
Friday

Two very progressive siblings, plus nieces and nephews, and conservative but T***p-hating parents. We agreed up front that politics would not be discussed. The closest we came to a political discussion was comparing the severity of our insomnia since election night.

barbtries

(29,867 posts)
14. i think so.
Sat Nov 30, 2024, 12:06 AM
Saturday

have for some time. on the right, i think it's mass sociopathy. We're a sick nation and I blame, primarily, republicans.

Prairie Gates

(3,211 posts)
15. I was at Thanksgiving with three other families
Sat Nov 30, 2024, 12:09 AM
Saturday

Not a single person there had watched a minute of news since November 6. We were all talking about our other activities: reading novels, watching shows and documentaries, various exercises and hobbies, travel.

People are fucking done with it.

sellitman

(11,680 posts)
17. We all are on the same page.
Sat Nov 30, 2024, 11:28 AM
Saturday

There were 14 adults and young adults all of voting age.

We are all politically minded. This was the first Thanksgiving where no one wanted to " go there".

Response to sellitman (Original post)

JoseBalow

(5,314 posts)
21. MAGA-vellian? Thanks for the heads-up!
Sat Nov 30, 2024, 07:31 PM
Saturday

Would you like to pre-order your pizza now, or wait until later?

Evolve Dammit

(18,793 posts)
20. Class action lawsuit for 9 years of abusive actions. Sad part is, he was just warming up. He wants to destroy us. n/t
Sat Nov 30, 2024, 07:25 PM
Saturday

KT2000

(20,877 posts)
24. This is a big deal
Sat Nov 30, 2024, 08:08 PM
Saturday

and we are dealing with a shift within ourselves. How could half the population of this country have such different values? I don't know about you, but I thought we all shared basic values. Now we know that so many think so differently - and with such hate.

70sEraVet

(4,171 posts)
25. Had all four of our kids and a few grown grandkids, all democrats
Sat Nov 30, 2024, 08:34 PM
Saturday

All HATE Trump.
I told my wife before they all came, that I wanted to get all of the Harris/Walz signs, as well as the Biden/Harris signs out of the shed and put the around the dining room. We could make believe, in just that room, that Kamala won the election!
Wife said no.

OAITW r.2.0

(28,449 posts)
26. People that care, are taking a break. Been on DU from, I guess, early on.
Sat Nov 30, 2024, 08:47 PM
Saturday

Losing to Bush/Cheney sucked and blew up the ME. Project for a New American Century:.

Now it's Project 2025. Will this be the future? IDFK.

wendyb-NC

(3,845 posts)
30. Yes, PTSD, post election
Sat Nov 30, 2024, 11:04 PM
Saturday

I don't dwell on the loss on November 5th, and can take news only in short increments and not every day.

GoodRaisin

(9,601 posts)
31. It was pretty much the same at our Thanksgiving.
Sun Dec 1, 2024, 03:23 AM
Sunday

We’re all liberals and all still in a state of shock I guess. I know none of us want to talk about Trump. We’ve had our fill of him.

JI7

(90,653 posts)
33. I think it will take around spring or summer next year
Sun Dec 1, 2024, 06:07 AM
Sunday

before we can really start to discuss things again.

I think it's also best to focus on ourselves and doing what you need to make life easier for you.

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