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BumRushDaShow

(144,203 posts)
Sat Nov 30, 2024, 09:04 AM Nov 30

Emboldened 'manosphere' accelerates threats and demeaning language toward women after US election

Source: AP

Updated 12:06 AM EST, November 30, 2024


CHICAGO (AP) — In the days after the presidential election, Sadie Perez began carrying pepper spray with her around campus. Her mom also ordered her and her sister a self-defense kit that included keychain spikes, a hidden knife key and a personal alarm. It’s a response to an emboldened fringe of right-wing “manosphere” influencers who have seized on Republican Donald Trump ’s presidential win to justify and amplify misogynistic derision and threats online.

Many have appropriated a 1960s abortion rights rallying cry, declaring “Your body, my choice” at women online and on college campuses. For many women, the words represent a worrying harbinger of what might lie ahead as some men perceive the election results as a rebuke of reproductive rights and women’s rights. “The fact that I feel like I have to carry around pepper spray like this is sad,” said Perez, a 19-year-old political science student in Wisconsin. “Women want and deserve to feel safe.”

Isabelle Frances-Wright, director of technology and society at the Institute for Strategic Dialogue, a think tank focusing on polarization and extremism, said she had seen a “very large uptick in a number of types of misogynistic rhetoric immediately after the election,” including some “extremely violent misogyny.”

The phrase “Your body, my choice” has been largely attributed to a post on the social platform X from Nick Fuentes, a Holocaust-denying white nationalist and far-right internet personality who dined at Trump’s Mar-a-Lago club in Florida two years ago. In statements responding to criticism of that event, Trump said he had “never met and knew nothing about” Fuentes before he arrived.

Read more: https://apnews.com/article/trump-harris-election-womens-rights-social-media-d5cea53480437ac8bf837aaa821e5681

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Emboldened 'manosphere' accelerates threats and demeaning language toward women after US election (Original Post) BumRushDaShow Nov 30 OP
And they... 2naSalit Nov 30 #1
And pepper spray is illegal in Wisconsin AllyCat Nov 30 #2
Because women tend to be the ones carrying pepper spray. Irish_Dem Nov 30 #4
There's no reason a woman cannot cancel carry if that's her choice. paleotn Nov 30 #8
It may well come to this. Women will have to carry guns to protect themselves. Irish_Dem Nov 30 #10
Posting this because Linda ladeewolf Nov 30 #13
I didn't know about these Sugarcoated Nov 30 #26
That's strange, but when has 2nd Amendment crap ever made sense. paleotn Nov 30 #7
Hair spray, spray paint ... cbabe Nov 30 #14
They will make it a crime for women to carry hair spray. Irish_Dem Nov 30 #15
Spray deodorant, spray perfume ... lots of way to spray ... cbabe Nov 30 #28
That is assanine. JHC Evolve Dammit Nov 30 #20
Pepper spray is legal in Wisconsin. Moosepoop Nov 30 #23
Well, that is good to hear. The word from my female friends is that the police can't tell the difference AllyCat Nov 30 #29
Travel sized hair spray is legal dlk Nov 30 #34
Trump's emboldening rhetoric will lead to an American version of Kristallnacht. sop Nov 30 #3
Trump is good at inciting violence. Irish_Dem Nov 30 #11
These BroF*ckers are not going to like what happens next. You can't put the Genie back in the bottle & women are pissed Joinfortmill Nov 30 #5
I believe that was the thinking that led many displacedvermoter Nov 30 #18
The Nick Fuentes who moved back to mom's house? paleotn Nov 30 #6
Your Body My Choice! surfered Nov 30 #9
I like it! I keep hoping Lady Liberty will show up and kick some serious ass. (sigh) Evolve Dammit Nov 30 #21
yet there are still LOTS of ppl, that think we lost the election from something other than racism and sexism PortTack Nov 30 #12
You're right. Frank D. Lincoln Nov 30 #25
Total and complete stupidly, Jesus, dumb down dudes. republianmushroom Nov 30 #16
There is a typo in the headline lonely bird Nov 30 #17
Women should abandon social media Aviation Pro Nov 30 #19
Funny thing, that. Recent research has revised a lot of myths about Sparta... malthaussen Nov 30 #33
Josh Johnson had some thoughts on this after Weinstein got off GoneOffShore Nov 30 #22
When my daughter was young Figarosmom Nov 30 #24
As we all know, bullies are very insecure dlk Nov 30 #27
What I could never figure out Mr.Bill Nov 30 #30
Pathology isn't always logical dlk Nov 30 #31
Women need to go around in groups of no less than four again. malthaussen Nov 30 #32

AllyCat

(17,220 posts)
2. And pepper spray is illegal in Wisconsin
Sat Nov 30, 2024, 09:17 AM
Nov 30

But you can concealed carry which makes no sense to me.

Irish_Dem

(59,696 posts)
4. Because women tend to be the ones carrying pepper spray.
Sat Nov 30, 2024, 09:24 AM
Nov 30

We can't have women protecting themselves with pepper spray.
But of course men can conceal carry with no problem.

paleotn

(19,531 posts)
8. There's no reason a woman cannot cancel carry if that's her choice.
Sat Nov 30, 2024, 10:48 AM
Nov 30

And there's no reason why any woman cannot learn and become quite proficient with firearms.

Personally, I think we ought to adopt European style firearms laws. But that's not the world we live in, so we've adapted. I've been around firearms my whole life but was surprised back in Trump's 1st term when my partner wanted to buy a handgun. Sure, her choice of course and we don't have kids at home, but I insisted she train and become proficient. She looked at me with that look I've come to know well over 30+ years...."Well yeah, Mr. Obvious!"

Irish_Dem

(59,696 posts)
10. It may well come to this. Women will have to carry guns to protect themselves.
Sat Nov 30, 2024, 11:03 AM
Nov 30

I don't think women are psychologically there yet.

But yes, women get irritated when men mansplain to them that if they are going
to buy a gun they have to get proper training.

Duh we figured that one out already.

Linda ladeewolf

(492 posts)
13. Posting this because
Sat Nov 30, 2024, 11:05 AM
Nov 30

I know most ladies that don’t want to kill somone still need protection. I do not own one of these but, I might try to get one, they are non lethal weapons, I believe they are legal in all 50 states. I found this on an article I read about a week ago.

https://byrna.com/

paleotn

(19,531 posts)
7. That's strange, but when has 2nd Amendment crap ever made sense.
Sat Nov 30, 2024, 10:36 AM
Nov 30

Interestingly that does kind of follow my wife's response to the MommaBros. "My body, my Glock."

She decided in 2017 to take matters into her own hands and now concealed carries. Trained and proficient.

Irish_Dem

(59,696 posts)
15. They will make it a crime for women to carry hair spray.
Sat Nov 30, 2024, 11:13 AM
Nov 30

But carrying hair spray is a good idea.

Moosepoop

(2,006 posts)
23. Pepper spray is legal in Wisconsin.
Sat Nov 30, 2024, 12:05 PM
Nov 30

Mace and tear gas are illegal, but pepper spray without those ingredients mixed in is legal in a canister containing up to 2 ounces. It can't contain UV dye (like the police use), can't be disguised as another item like a pen or lipstick, and a person must be 18 to purchase and not have a felony record.

But straight 10% Oreoresin Capsicum pepper spray is legal to purchase, own and carry within the above restrictions.

https://www.zarc.com/t-pepperspraylaws/wisconsin-47

https://www.pepper-spray-store.com/pages/wisconsin-laws?srsltid=AfmBOopiHlsXdFxooQWnnSEqBWFtMfzeZTL2B7494Xl_1yGwle_PBAi_

AllyCat

(17,220 posts)
29. Well, that is good to hear. The word from my female friends is that the police can't tell the difference
Sat Nov 30, 2024, 01:15 PM
Nov 30

between Mace and pepper spray so no one carries either. Mace works better.

Would like it if I could carry something that is non-lethal.

dlk

(12,468 posts)
34. Travel sized hair spray is legal
Sat Nov 30, 2024, 07:48 PM
Nov 30

Travel sized insect repellant is legal, as well. Women will need to be creative protecting themselves from males with low frustration tolerance.

Joinfortmill

(16,622 posts)
5. These BroF*ckers are not going to like what happens next. You can't put the Genie back in the bottle & women are pissed
Sat Nov 30, 2024, 10:04 AM
Nov 30

displacedvermoter

(3,228 posts)
18. I believe that was the thinking that led many
Sat Nov 30, 2024, 11:28 AM
Nov 30

of us to believe there was going to be the proverbial "blue wave" election victory. Many women were not pissed enough, or not pissed at the right people.

paleotn

(19,531 posts)
6. The Nick Fuentes who moved back to mom's house?
Sat Nov 30, 2024, 10:25 AM
Nov 30

Ooooo....tough guy.

With a name like Fuentes, he better stay clear of the mass deportation squads. Wouldn't be a pity if the little fella got scooped up and kicked out.

PortTack

(34,830 posts)
12. yet there are still LOTS of ppl, that think we lost the election from something other than racism and sexism
Sat Nov 30, 2024, 11:04 AM
Nov 30

Any questions?

Frank D. Lincoln

(648 posts)
25. You're right.
Sat Nov 30, 2024, 12:09 PM
Nov 30

And once Trump comes to power again it's going to get really bad for practically every American but especially women and people of color. But I think the white women who voted for Trump are going to regret it most of all.

Aviation Pro

(13,569 posts)
19. Women should abandon social media
Sat Nov 30, 2024, 11:43 AM
Nov 30

Let these motherfuckers praise the glory of the Roman Empire or Sparta or whatever chubs them up all by their lonesomes.

malthaussen

(17,786 posts)
33. Funny thing, that. Recent research has revised a lot of myths about Sparta...
Sat Nov 30, 2024, 03:03 PM
Nov 30

... that were taken for granted as proving the Spartans to be the Manliest of Men (tm). And the whining and crying and protesting about it is loud and continuous. We're taking away their heroes!

-- Mal

GoneOffShore

(17,643 posts)
22. Josh Johnson had some thoughts on this after Weinstein got off
Sat Nov 30, 2024, 12:01 PM
Nov 30

From about 1:30 you'll get the idea -

?si=fqUqhX97mjyi3ajz

Figarosmom

(3,293 posts)
24. When my daughter was young
Sat Nov 30, 2024, 12:07 PM
Nov 30

I signed her up for karate classes. Later in life she had a job teaching xops self defense. I figured she was little like me (5')and cute so it would be useful. She dot such a thrill spilling the cops that were really wise ass and saying stuff like" what can a little girl like that do to me." FAFO

I predict there is going to be a Renaissance of self defense and a lot of guys that can't get laid.

dlk

(12,468 posts)
27. As we all know, bullies are very insecure
Sat Nov 30, 2024, 12:28 PM
Nov 30

It’s an indictment of American culture that so many males aren’t taught to respect and appreciate women as something other than servants, and, instead are taught to demean them. They forget we’re all born the same way.

I think much of this comes from our history of slavery and never fully addressing, and reconciling with our sordid past.

Trump’s election is a giant step backward and we have ever so much farther to go.

Mr.Bill

(24,866 posts)
30. What I could never figure out
Sat Nov 30, 2024, 01:53 PM
Nov 30

was they didn't want black men and women using the same bathroom or drinking fountain, but they were okay with them being the mothers of their children.

dlk

(12,468 posts)
31. Pathology isn't always logical
Sat Nov 30, 2024, 02:59 PM
Nov 30

Much of has to do with having power over others as opposed to having equal privileges

malthaussen

(17,786 posts)
32. Women need to go around in groups of no less than four again.
Sat Nov 30, 2024, 03:00 PM
Nov 30

What wonderful progress we have made. It amazes me that a bunch of cowardly wimps who whine about how they can't get a girl are figures of respect and honor now, rather than ridiculed as the pathetic losers they are.

-- Mal

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