The DU Lounge
Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsAmerican hustle-culture gone mad.
For a brief time earlier this year, Mrs. Aristus and I subscribed to a delivered meal program called Factor, on the recommendation of one of her co-workers. We're always too tired to make dinner for ourselves at the end of the day, and we're so sick of take-out. The meal program lets you select a menu of pre-prepared dishes that are delivered to your home, and that you can heat up in a matter of minutes, and then eat.
Despite an actually quite diverse menu, the dishes all ended up tasting the same, or too much like each other, at any rate, to afford real variety. So we quit the program.
The delivery boxes were marked with a slogan that went something like this: "Get Dinner Sorted Out So You Can Get Back To Your Goals!"
Goals.
Shit.
Everything is, has, or demands, a goal. Having a nice, relaxing dinner? Not a goal; a distraction from them. Saving our diminishing reserves of energy with an easy-to-prepare meal? Not a goal; a distraction from them.
Corporate America lives in mortal terror that someone, somewhere, somehow, has an object in mind other than drudging away for their obscene profits. "Life coaches" everywhere are nervously speculating that not everyone subscribes to the go-go-go, now-now-now, achieve-achieve-achieve culture that lends their vocation relevance.
If I were to have one 'goal' at all, it would be to end this shitty rat-race, and replace it with what many Western European nations have: a fulfilling, but not exhausting, work life, and enough time left over every day, and every week, to relax, socialize, turn our work-phones off without setting off warning signals to our employers, and enjoy the lives we are ostensibly working for.
That's it.
KT2000
(20,742 posts)My toothpaste says "Do a Little Good Today." A nice message but I too am sick of being hustled. I doubt the Clorox Corp. really cares but someone had this idea to humanize toothpaste for us.
Something I have noticed is that people are getting really good at selling themselves. In many cases the follow-through is lacking though. It is all about the sale.
dobleremolque
(832 posts)SWBTATTReg
(23,556 posts)or haven't done this or that, oh no! etc. etc. etc. Good grief, it is nice to shut off everything, isn't it?
Commercialism gone mad, and I'd would even say paranoid, I'd say.
Every moment of our lives is interrupted by a plug of advertising to do this, buy that, etc., or this is going on, we must do that or this, all exhorting us to do something. Constantly! Even here on DU, where I thought that we would get no advertising, I still get some, despite my yearly payment to DU.
Enough, I say! That's why in the a.m., when I get up, I make my coffee, w/ nothing blaring in the background (and I don't put my hearing aids in either). It's so nice and quiet, w/ not a peep at all. I get my one surviving dog her treats and water, give her a little love, and then walk into my office (and it's all silent throughout the house too) and plop down to my computer, to get the news from DU. No commercials, no sounds, nothing. Just a nice tidbit of reading up on the news, sipping my coffee. I enjoy this so much (so there is a benefit to not having any hearing).
Then eventually I'll wake up from the coffee and run some errands, if I feel like it. I hate shopping, but I do need to sometimes go out and get us caught up on groceries, and sometimes that is okay, in the store, sometimes I'll run into some friends, and we'll get to visit, chat, catch up on news, etc., always a very good thing.
I love your snark (I know it wasn't meant as such) about so-called life coaches...get the heck away from me. If you are like me (I'm close to 70 years old), I think I've had enough coaching from everybody thus far in my life, so stay away. Only if I ask someone myself will I seek something (e.g., like your food service deal). My sister got me such a service, but I haven't really felt like dealing w/ anyone else, having to then wait for them to show up at the door whenever they do so, and get the meal. It, by itself, sounds like a hassle too.
Take care.
Aristus
(67,624 posts)I think the idea of a life coach is very insulting. "Hi. I'm doing very well in my life, and it's my self-developed job to assert that everyone else is not, and that they need my help in order to have a better life. I can assure you I certainly will once you have paid me!"
malthaussen
(17,521 posts)Oh, and by the way, buy my beer.
-- Mal
calimary
(83,453 posts)Pondering an end to the shitty rat-race and just building and enjoying the better and less stressful life like the Europeans do.
Thats the impossible dream here in America, at least until you reach retirement, if you survive the stress and live to see it.
Hugs to you.
Response to Aristus (Original post)
Name removed Message auto-removed