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AllaN01Bear

(22,396 posts) Tue Sep 17, 2024, 11:34 AM Tuesday

i may be at the point where i might confront a bully in my apartment tonight.

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i may be at the point where i might confront a bully in my apartment tonight. (Original Post) AllaN01Bear Tuesday OP

What happened AllaN01Bear? debm55 Tuesday #1

Good luck. Sorry it's come to that, but I get it. Silent Type Tuesday #2

Oh no! Don't do that, be safe and careful and avoid the creep. Call the police if you need to. SWBTATTReg Tuesday #3

its really hard when that person lives under me. AllaN01Bear Tuesday #4

Don't do it alone... Think. Again. Tuesday #5

yepprs . i shall honour your advie. building managers are as useless as fleas on a dogs u know what. AllaN01Bear Tuesday #6

Stay safe. Think. Again. Tuesday #9

Please be careful. debm55 Tuesday #7

please see my post #7 AllaN01Bear Tuesday #8

debm55

(30,810 posts)

1. What happened AllaN01Bear?

Reply to AllaN01Bear (Original post)

Tue Sep 17, 2024, 11:36 AM

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Silent Type

(5,566 posts)

2. Good luck. Sorry it's come to that, but I get it.

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Tue Sep 17, 2024, 11:36 AM

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SWBTATTReg

(23,553 posts)

3. Oh no! Don't do that, be safe and careful and avoid the creep. Call the police if you need to.

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Tue Sep 17, 2024, 11:37 AM

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AllaN01Bear

(22,396 posts)

4. its really hard when that person lives under me.

Reply to SWBTATTReg (Reply #3)

Tue Sep 17, 2024, 11:37 AM

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police and revelant agencys do no good . harrassment law is only for big ticket persons . eesp when a naughty act is caught.

Think. Again.

(15,606 posts)

5. Don't do it alone...

Reply to AllaN01Bear (Original post)

Tue Sep 17, 2024, 11:42 AM

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If you can't have any authorities of any kind with you (building manager?), at least have someone around who will stay out of it all and just be a witness.

And VIDEO IT on your phone.

All that being said, if there's ANY DANGER of physical violence, just don't engage them at all.

AllaN01Bear

(22,396 posts)

6. yepprs . i shall honour your advie. building managers are as useless as fleas on a dogs u know what.

Reply to Think. Again. (Reply #5)

Tue Sep 17, 2024, 11:46 AM

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even though the job description also entails to keeping order . i have friends who have had managed apartments in the distant past and have activly remoed troublemakers w police assistance . this story has been going on for years .