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SalmonChantedEvening

(31,996 posts)
Tue Sep 17, 2024, 06:11 PM Tuesday

Our sweet girl Crystal crossed the Rainbow Bridge this afternoon.

She was almost 18, and was rescued 15 years ago. She was unable to walk, and her eyes were going. She adored her hoomans, her cousin dogs that would come and stay with her, and was as gentle as a lamb with kids.

She's with her big sister Daisy now, chasing her around and letting her win all the rasslin matches. Goodbye, little one.

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Our sweet girl Crystal crossed the Rainbow Bridge this afternoon. (Original Post) SalmonChantedEvening Tuesday OP
Sending you all love, BittyJenkins Tuesday #1
R.I.P. Lovie777 Tuesday #2
So sorry, it is so painful... rogerballard Tuesday #3
So sorry snowybirdie Tuesday #4
I'm so sorry.. Hugs. onecaliberal Tuesday #5
Deepest Condolences on Crystal's Crossing SheltieLover Tuesday #6
So very sorry for the loss of your little rescue. niyad Tuesday #53
TY, Niyad SheltieLover Tuesday #61
I'm so sorry SCE. QED Tuesday #7
fare thee well. AllaN01Bear Tuesday #8
So sorry for your loss WA-03 Democrat Tuesday #9
Deepest condolences, SCE. Mousetoescamper Tuesday #10
My condolences, dear SalmonChantedEvening. 2naSalit Tuesday #11
So sorry SalmonChantedEvening. May your memories of her be a blessing to you. debm55 Tuesday #12
:hug: elleng Tuesday #13
Glad to see youre already looking at the good she brought.... Karadeniz Tuesday #14
So sorry for your loss... Docreed2003 Tuesday #15
Crystal Clouds Passing Tuesday #16
very sorry, SCE Tetrachloride Tuesday #17
I am so sorry. Fla Dem Tuesday #18
So sorry montanacowboy Tuesday #19
sending you and yours strength and kindness Attilatheblond Tuesday #20
I'm so very sorry. catbyte Tuesday #21
I'm sorry, SCE. It is always painful to lose a furbaby. brer cat Tuesday #22
RIP Crystal MustLoveBeagles Tuesday #23
Holding you and Crystal's fan club in my heart. Such a painful loss... TygrBright Tuesday #24
I'm so sorry. 💔 🐾 GentryDixon Tuesday #25
My sorry for your loss kimbutgar Tuesday #26
So sorry Figarosmom Tuesday #27
Glad to hear she was met on the other side! biophile Tuesday #28
Condolences, SCE sarge43 Tuesday #29
I always try and celemourn my sweet babies JMCKUSICK Tuesday #30
Sending you hugs and condolences. chowder66 Tuesday #31
Tough going losing a furry friend. We love them and when they go it is hard. RIP Crystal! n/t PatrickforB Tuesday #32
I'm so sorry MerrilyMerrily Tuesday #33
I'm so sorry, FoxNewsSucks Tuesday #34
So sorry, SCE. It's so hard to lose our hearts. littlemissmartypants Tuesday #35
My heart goes out to you and your family, SalmonChantedEvening! We have lost several of our beloved furry kids over the LaMouffette Tuesday #36
18, wow.. Permanut Tuesday #37
Sorry for your loss. AltairIV Tuesday #38
I am so very sorry for your & your families loss irisblue Tuesday #39
Such a hard thing rockbluff botanist Tuesday #40
Awhhh..I'm so sorry...I know your pain! PortTack Tuesday #41
Big Hug proud patriot Tuesday #42
Very sorry Chicagogrl1 Tuesday #43
I'm sorry for your loss. nt Gore1FL Tuesday #44
I am so sorry. I am also glad she is romping around with Daisy and all the others in doggie paradise. LoisB Tuesday #45
I'm so sorry, SCE From The Ashes Tuesday #46
I'm so sorry cate94 Tuesday #47
Many of us on DU, myself included, feel your pain. 70sEraVet Tuesday #48
Lady of the Beasts, please take Your Crystal gently home in Your loving arms, niyad Tuesday #49
I'm sorry, Salmon. judesedit Tuesday #50
Deepest condolences. sinkingfeeling Tuesday #51
I'm so sorry. jtb653 Tuesday #52
please take care et tu Tuesday #54
Sending blessings of peace to you, and to Crystal Wicked Blue Tuesday #55
Ouch. tavernier Tuesday #56
Condolences SCE gademocrat7 Tuesday #57
Blessings to you all and sweet Crystal 🔮 1WorldHope Tuesday #58
Crystal MoonlightHillFarm Tuesday #59
So sorry for your loss. colorado_ufo Tuesday #60
Aw my heart goes out to you wendyb-NC Tuesday #62
It's hard when friends cross condolences SCE. MiHale Tuesday #63
so sad orleans Tuesday #64
Sincere condolences Picaro Tuesday #65
I will hold Crystal in my prayers. LastLiberal in PalmSprings Tuesday #66
Sorry It happened Wolf Frankula Tuesday #67
So sorry. It sucks to have that happen COL Mustard Tuesday #68
I'm so sorry Danmel Tuesday #69
So sorry... FirstLight Tuesday #70
I'm so sorry, SCE. It's so painful to have to say goodbye here. But you're right to picture her healthy and highplainsdem Tuesday #71
I'm so sorry SCE. Diamond_Dog Tuesday #72
She will live forever in your heart. ZonkerHarris Tuesday #73
Condolences Nigrum Cattus Tuesday #74
I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope it helps a little to know you gave her a beautiful life full of love. femmedem Tuesday #75
So sad for your loss. Maybe a picture of your Crystal when you post on Sunday Morning 😿 Deuxcents Tuesday #76
I am so sorry, I know the pain. AloeVera Tuesday #77
It is so very sad to say goodbye to our angels peacebuzzard Tuesday #78
Sorry for your loss. Hotler Tuesday #79
I'm so sorry. My deepest condolences. HeartsCanHope Tuesday #80
I'm so sorry for your loss... Trueblue Texan Tuesday #81
I'm so sorry. area51 Tuesday #82
Rest in peace Chrystal. And I wish you the peace that passes Maraya1969 Tuesday #83
Awwww, I'm so sorry for your loss. calimary Yesterday #84
The worst! Lulu KC Yesterday #85
I'm so very sorry for your loss, SCE mnhtnbb 23 hrs ago #86
I'm sorry for your loss Laurelin 20 hrs ago #87
So sorry for your loss 🙏 it's so difficult losing a loved one TommieMommy 20 hrs ago #88
I'm so sorry - Erda 19 hrs ago #89
Sad for you! birdographer 19 hrs ago #90
My deepest condolences. Mad_Dem_X 18 hrs ago #91
RIP Chrystal JustinBulletin 17 hrs ago #92
Our furbaby's leave a huge hole in our hearts when they leave us. 10 Turtle Day 17 hrs ago #93
rest in peace crystal...i am so sorry for your loss sce. dawn5651 16 hrs ago #94
So sorry for your loss... Phentex 14 hrs ago #95
I'm sorry JoseBalow 14 hrs ago #96
Rest in Paradise, beloved Crystal Niagara 14 hrs ago #97
So sorry for you Linda ladeewolf 13 hrs ago #98
Love for you get the red out 13 hrs ago #99
Crystal Ladythatvotesblue 11 hrs ago #100
Your post touched me and brought to mind an old Kipling Poem Josiesdad 11 hrs ago #101
I love the imagery in this poem pat_k 10 hrs ago #102
So Sorry ProfessorGAC 8 hrs ago #103

rogerballard

(3,517 posts)
3. So sorry, it is so painful...
Tue Sep 17, 2024, 06:17 PM
Tuesday

cliche but it really doesn't get easier. Hardest thing in life. I miss my 2 girls so much.

Docreed2003

(17,475 posts)
15. So sorry for your loss...
Tue Sep 17, 2024, 06:33 PM
Tuesday

May sweet Crystal enjoy her gallops along the rainbow bridge with Daisy and enjoy their days until you are reunited...

Fla Dem

(25,194 posts)
18. I am so sorry.
Tue Sep 17, 2024, 06:36 PM
Tuesday

You never realize how much you will miss a beloved pet until they are in their last days. I could barely function after we put our 17 year old girl (cat) on her trip. I could barely function for a week. This was just about a year ago, and I still miss her.



kimbutgar

(22,480 posts)
26. My sorry for your loss
Tue Sep 17, 2024, 06:45 PM
Tuesday

Losing a long time pet is also the hardest.

Crystal will always be there in your heart!❤️

sarge43

(29,105 posts)
29. Condolences, SCE
Tue Sep 17, 2024, 06:51 PM
Tuesday

May your loving memories bring you peace and comfort.

Will Rogers once said that if there are no dogs in heaven, he doesn't want to go there. That is so for all fur and feathered kids.

JMCKUSICK

(339 posts)
30. I always try and celemourn my sweet babies
Tue Sep 17, 2024, 06:51 PM
Tuesday

For all they blessed me with during their lives shared with me.
Each one of my Rainbow babies, Spoon, Snuggles, ChiChi and Freddie Bear gave unique gifts to me, so it's extra special to memorialize each one.
God Speed and may your most treasured moments with Crystal give you comfort.

littlemissmartypants

(23,725 posts)
35. So sorry, SCE. It's so hard to lose our hearts.
Tue Sep 17, 2024, 07:00 PM
Tuesday

I'm happy for you that you had her love in your life and that her crossing was peaceful. It's all we can hope for each other.





❤️

LaMouffette

(2,200 posts)
36. My heart goes out to you and your family, SalmonChantedEvening! We have lost several of our beloved furry kids over the
Tue Sep 17, 2024, 07:04 PM
Tuesday

past several years, and it simply rips your heart out every time. You and your family and Crystal were blessed to have found each other and to have enjoyed so many years together. I am sure that she had the best life ever once you rescued her. Take care of yourself at this tough time!

Permanut

(6,329 posts)
37. 18, wow..
Tue Sep 17, 2024, 07:05 PM
Tuesday

Last edited Tue Sep 17, 2024, 08:45 PM - Edit history (1)

So she had a long and happy life, with one of our dearest DU members. That's the way it's supposed to work, but dang, that's hard. Crystal was clearly a cool cat.

Editing, thanks to niyad; Crystal would surely not like to be referred to as a cat, even a cool one. My apologies for the senior moment .

rockbluff botanist

(252 posts)
40. Such a hard thing
Tue Sep 17, 2024, 07:16 PM
Tuesday

She had 15 years of her best life and she was so loved. You hang on to that thought, SalmonChantedEvening. It helps me.

PortTack

(33,980 posts)
41. Awhhh..I'm so sorry...I know your pain!
Tue Sep 17, 2024, 07:17 PM
Tuesday

My Kasper has been gone almost a yr now….he waits…I wait too, but not patiently!

niyad

(118,030 posts)
49. Lady of the Beasts, please take Your Crystal gently home in Your loving arms,
Tue Sep 17, 2024, 07:44 PM
Tuesday

and send peace and comfort to her grieving loved ones.

SCE, I am so very sorry for the loss of your precious baby girl. How well I remember a photo of the two of you that you shared once. Such a litle sweetie. huggggs

59. Crystal
Tue Sep 17, 2024, 08:21 PM
Tuesday

I am so very sorry. I’ve lost many over the years and it’s never easy. We love them so much. My heart goes out to you.

wendyb-NC

(3,661 posts)
62. Aw my heart goes out to you
Tue Sep 17, 2024, 08:44 PM
Tuesday

She so loved you guys, and you loved her back, you gave her a wonderful life and she gave you a world of happy times.
R.I.P. to sweet Crystal.

66. I will hold Crystal in my prayers.
Tue Sep 17, 2024, 08:53 PM
Tuesday

The thing I missed the most when our dogs departed this earth was the sound of their paws clicking on the hardwood floors as they lived their doggy lives. It was a constant reminder of how much a part of our family they were. I didn't know Crystal, but it sounds like she found the best forever home ever. The image of her playing with Daisy has warmed my heart. Rest in peace, Crystal.

highplainsdem

(51,441 posts)
71. I'm so sorry, SCE. It's so painful to have to say goodbye here. But you're right to picture her healthy and
Tue Sep 17, 2024, 09:06 PM
Tuesday

young again, playing with Daisy on the other side, because that is her reality now. And you will see her again.

AloeVera

(1,577 posts)
77. I am so sorry, I know the pain.
Tue Sep 17, 2024, 09:28 PM
Tuesday

I lost my Max 2 years ago and it still hurts. I console myself believing he is with my Szüli, my Chloe and all his cat friends too. Running wild in the fields that they loved.

As Crystal and Daisy are together again.

All comfort and peace to you.

Hotler

(11,812 posts)
79. Sorry for your loss.
Tue Sep 17, 2024, 10:08 PM
Tuesday

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Epitaph_to_a_Dog
Epitaph to a Dog
George Gordon Byron
1788 –1824
When some proud Son of Man returns to Earth,
Unknown to Glory but upheld by Birth,
The sculptor's art exhausts the pomp of woe,
And storied urns record who rests below.
When all is done, upon the Tomb is seen
Not what he was, but what he should have been.
But the poor Dog, in life the firmest friend,
The first to welcome, foremost to defend,
Whose honest heart is still his Masters own,
Who labours, fights, lives, breathes for him alone,
Unhonour'd falls, unnotic'd all his worth,
Deny'd in heaven the Soul he held on earth.
While man, vain insect! hopes to be forgiven,
And claims himself a sole exclusive heaven.

Oh man! thou feeble tenant of an hour,
Debas'd by slavery, or corrupt by power,
Who knows thee well, must quit thee with disgust,
Degraded mass of animated dust!
Thy love is lust, thy friendship all a cheat,
Thy tongue hypocrisy, thy heart deceit,
By nature vile, ennobled but by name,
Each kindred brute might bid thee blush for shame.
Ye! who behold perchance this simple urn,
Pass on, it honours none you wish to mourn.
To mark a friend's remains these stones arise;
I never knew but one — and here he lies.

Trueblue Texan

(2,729 posts)
81. I'm so sorry for your loss...
Tue Sep 17, 2024, 10:40 PM
Tuesday

But I'm glad you have such warm memories of such a sweet girl. They break our hearts when they go, but oh! how empty life would be without our babies. Peace and healing to you.

calimary

(83,446 posts)
84. Awwww, I'm so sorry for your loss.
Wed Sep 18, 2024, 12:08 AM
Yesterday

They sure leave holes in your heart, don’t they!

I often wonder if I’m going to reconnect with all the fur babies I’ve known, loved, and lost. Wasn’t it Will Rogers who wondered if dogs went to Heaven? And then he said if not, then he wanted to go where they are.

mnhtnbb

(31,727 posts)
86. I'm so very sorry for your loss, SCE
Wed Sep 18, 2024, 06:07 AM
23 hrs ago

I, too, like to think of my Snowy being reunited with her kitty brother, Simba, at the Rainbow Bridge, and that Simba brought along his kitty brother, Mouse, to greet Snowy when she arrived in June 2020.

Our furry kids bring us so much joy. It's so hard to see them go. I hope they know how much they are missed.

birdographer

(2,184 posts)
90. Sad for you!
Wed Sep 18, 2024, 10:06 AM
19 hrs ago

I've been there more times than I care to remember.

If Crystal could, she would have left you a note that said "Thanks for everything! I had a great time!"

10 Turtle Day

(324 posts)
93. Our furbaby's leave a huge hole in our hearts when they leave us.
Wed Sep 18, 2024, 11:55 AM
17 hrs ago

Hugs to you. I’m so sorry Crystal is gone from your life.

Linda ladeewolf

(238 posts)
98. So sorry for you
Wed Sep 18, 2024, 03:47 PM
13 hrs ago

My much loved cat passed several years ago, I’d had her for 17 years, raised her from 3 weeks. I’ve never gotten over it, so I have difficulty commenting on these posts, it brings back too many memories.

get the red out

(13,515 posts)
99. Love for you
Wed Sep 18, 2024, 04:23 PM
13 hrs ago

From me and Retro and my 14 year old Layla. It's hard stuff. I lost my Shelby in June, and I still can't stand to post about it. They are our Angels on Earth and beyond.

Ladythatvotesblue

(210 posts)
100. Crystal
Wed Sep 18, 2024, 06:11 PM
11 hrs ago

I am sure she was a sweet girl. I know your heart is broken.
I am so sorry. Please take care,
a friend at DU.

Josiesdad

(48 posts)
101. Your post touched me and brought to mind an old Kipling Poem
Wed Sep 18, 2024, 06:27 PM
11 hrs ago

He was a famous critter lover and had both a poet's heart and a way with words.

I have often found a catharsis by reading his words at times like this...

The Power of the Dog
Rudyard Kipling -- 1912

There is sorrow enough in the natural way
From men and women to fill our day;
And when we are certain of sorrow in store,
Why do we always arrange for more?
Brothers and Sisters, I bid you beware
Of giving your heart to a dog to tear.

Buy a pup and your money will buy
Love unflinching that cannot lie
Perfect passion and worship fed
By a kick in the ribs or a pat on the head.
Nevertheless it is hardly fair
To risk your heart for a dog to tear.

When the fourteen years which Nature permits
Are closing in asthma, or tumour, or fits,
And the vet’s unspoken prescription runs
To lethal chambers or loaded guns,
Then you will find—it’s your own affair
But… you’ve given your heart to a dog to tear.

When the body that lived at your single will,
With its whimper of welcome, is stilled (how still!).
When the spirit that answered your every mood
Is gone—wherever it goes—for good,
You will discover how much you care,
And will give your heart to a dog to tear.

We’ve sorrow enough in the natural way,
When it comes to burying Christian clay.
Our loves are not given, but only lent,
At compound interest of cent per cent.
Though it is not always the case, I believe,
That the longer we’ve kept ’em, the more do we grieve:
For, when debts are payable, right or wrong,
A short-time loan is as bad as a long—
So why in—Heaven (before we are there)
Should we give our hearts to a dog to tear?

pat_k

(10,318 posts)
102. I love the imagery in this poem
Wed Sep 18, 2024, 06:33 PM
10 hrs ago
In My Good Death

I will find myself in high summer grass.
The humming shock of the golden light.
And I will hear them before I see them
and know right away who is bounding across the field to meet me.
All my good dogs will come then, their wet noses bumping against my palms,
their hot panting, their rough, faithful tongues.
Their eyes young and shiny again.
The dense scruff of their fur,
The unspeakable softness of their bellies,
their velvet ears against my cheeks.
I will bend to them, my face covered with their kisses,
My hands full of them.
In the grass I will let them knock me down.

- by Dalia Shevin


The pain of loss is so deep because they brought us such joy. And that joy will always live within us.

ProfessorGAC

(68,412 posts)
103. So Sorry
Wed Sep 18, 2024, 08:37 PM
8 hrs ago

We lost both of our kitties earlier this year. We got 2 new kittens though.
Our Vincent is only 2 & ½, so we should be able to avoid that pain for a while.
Take care.

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