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Phoenix61

(18,308 posts)
Thu Oct 3, 2024, 06:38 PM Oct 2024

My last day at a job I hated and resigned from was Monday.

I was happily looking forward to getting a bunch of chores done. Sadly, my back had other ideas. Bless whoever invented muscle relaxers.

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My last day at a job I hated and resigned from was Monday. (Original Post) Phoenix61 Oct 2024 OP
Congratulations! Sounds Like Your Move Might Have Been Just In Time The Roux Comes First Oct 2024 #1
I think so. Chronic stress is never a good thing. nt Phoenix61 Oct 2024 #5
Congrats. There's been a few times in my life where I was second guessing myself quitting. captain queeg Oct 2024 #2
Thank you. I've stayed in jobs long after I Phoenix61 Oct 2024 #6
Congratulations.... anciano Oct 2024 #3
Thank you! The meds are definitely helping. nt Phoenix61 Oct 2024 #7
Speedy Recovery Wishes To You ProfessorGAC Oct 2024 #4
Thank you. Happily I had some meds left from the Phoenix61 Oct 2024 #8
Cool ProfessorGAC Oct 2024 #9
I can handle a job that's stressful. I die a little inside when it's toxic. Aristus Oct 2024 #10
It was soul crushing. I spent my time cleaning up Phoenix61 Oct 2024 #11

captain queeg

(11,780 posts)
2. Congrats. There's been a few times in my life where I was second guessing myself quitting.
Thu Oct 3, 2024, 06:54 PM
Oct 2024

But that’s just fear of the unknown. I’ve never ended up regretting it in the long run.

Phoenix61

(18,308 posts)
6. Thank you. I've stayed in jobs long after I
Thu Oct 3, 2024, 07:37 PM
Oct 2024

should have quit and have always regretted it. I’ve learned, finally, to recognize when it’s never going to get better and bail.

anciano

(1,772 posts)
3. Congratulations....
Thu Oct 3, 2024, 07:15 PM
Oct 2024

hope you have a speedy recovery from the back issue.
Best wishes for your future endeavors!

ProfessorGAC

(72,431 posts)
4. Speedy Recovery Wishes To You
Thu Oct 3, 2024, 07:30 PM
Oct 2024

I slipped my SI joint several years ago.
Spasms so bad it buckled my knees.
Went to doctor. He did no x-rays, just a quick physical exam.
Saud he knew exactly what it was. He said it happened to him in residency.
Prescribed my 5 days of muscle relaxers & anti-inflammatory.
Said in 2 or 3 days, I'd feel something pop in my back and it would be like nothing ever happened.
Nearly exactly 48 hours later, I felt that pop; he was spot on. Like it never happened.
Happened one more time since. Same outcome, different doctor!
I'm with you on the wonder of those muscle relaxers!

Phoenix61

(18,308 posts)
8. Thank you. Happily I had some meds left from the
Thu Oct 3, 2024, 07:41 PM
Oct 2024

last time this happened. I think it’s an accumulation of stress and lack of exercise. The stress ended Monday and I’ll be at the gym as soon as I’m able.

ProfessorGAC

(72,431 posts)
9. Cool
Thu Oct 3, 2024, 07:57 PM
Oct 2024

Very fortunately, I never had a job like that.
If I had though, with my education & background I could have gone anywhere.
Maybe they knew that, and that's why they treated me respectfully. Doesn't matter. I've been retired 6 years.

Aristus

(69,774 posts)
10. I can handle a job that's stressful. I die a little inside when it's toxic.
Thu Oct 3, 2024, 10:26 PM
Oct 2024

I’m enjoying an inter-employment period right now. So far, most time I’ve had off in twelve years.

Hope your pain resolves and you can just enjoy chilling out for a while.

Phoenix61

(18,308 posts)
11. It was soul crushing. I spent my time cleaning up
Thu Oct 3, 2024, 11:07 PM
Oct 2024

messes staff made because they refused to follow the guidance I was being paid to give them. I gave it a year and decided to admit defeat. The position had been empty for 4 years before I took it because the situation was well known locally. But hell, I gave it my best shot, learned a lot, and left on good terms with most everyone. I’m going to call it a win. Inter-employment, I like it!

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