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sandensea

(22,850 posts)
Fri Jul 26, 2019, 11:22 AM Jul 2019

TN pastor refuses to host funeral since dying man's son is gay

A 71-year-old man in Tennessee will probably die in the coming days.

He made two final requests of his son, Jessie Goodman. He wanted his funeral at Lee’s Chapel Baptist Church in Sweetwater, TN, which was the first church he ever attended, and he wanted Jessie to sing the hymn “The Anchor Holds” at the service.

Simple enough… until Pastor Jay Scruggs found out Jessie was in a same-sex relationship. Now Scruggs is refusing to hold the funeral — for the straight father.

“As long as I was going to take part in any way, he (Jessie’s father) could not have his service there,” said [Jessie] Goodman.

Goodman says the church’s pastor, and some of its members, don’t want him or his fiance [Brandon Smitty] to be involved in the service because they’re gay.

At: https://friendlyatheist.patheos.com/2019/07/25/baptist-church-to-dying-man-you-cant-have-a-funeral-here-since-your-son-is-gay/



Jessie Goodman (right) and his fiancé Brandon Smitty.

Goodman's ailing father is being refused his dying wish by the local pastor, who objects to his son's same-sex relationship.
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TN pastor refuses to host funeral since dying man's son is gay (Original Post) sandensea Jul 2019 OP
So sad. But then, this is the NEW SOUTH I am afraid.... ProudMNDemocrat Jul 2019 #1
Radicalized slowly but surely. sandensea Jul 2019 #2
Anti-human world wide wally Jul 2019 #6
So outrageous that people claim to be Christians while madaboutharry Jul 2019 #3
Republican church-goers, in general, worship hatred sandensea Jul 2019 #4
if this standard was applied to xtian adulterers the church might be empty lol nt msongs Jul 2019 #5

ProudMNDemocrat

(19,058 posts)
1. So sad. But then, this is the NEW SOUTH I am afraid....
Fri Jul 26, 2019, 11:29 AM
Jul 2019

Anti-LGBTQ, Anti-Diversity, and worst of all….ANTI-AMERICAN

sandensea

(22,850 posts)
2. Radicalized slowly but surely.
Fri Jul 26, 2019, 11:34 AM
Jul 2019

I lived in Mississippi for years, and saw this at work during the '90s.

The right-wingers there had more or less learned to live within certain ideological bounds after the civil rights era.

Until Rush Lumpball and Faux News came along - and with a major supporting role from many of the local pastors.

Almost overnight, around '92 or so, extremism became acceptable again. And as you know, it only tends to get worse over time.

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