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NurseJackie

(42,862 posts)
Tue Jun 7, 2016, 11:15 AM Jun 2016

What's a Hillary supporter to do? If we offer an olive branch, we're "insincere". And if we ...

... celebrate Hillary's success, we're "grave dancing". If we offer a handshake, we're "condescending". If we offer a hug, we're "arrogant". If we point out facts, we're "lying". If we remain silent, we're "scared". If we refute lies, we're "bullying".

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What's a Hillary supporter to do? If we offer an olive branch, we're "insincere". And if we ... (Original Post) NurseJackie Jun 2016 OP
I say fuck 'em. We don't need them. stopbush Jun 2016 #1
Best answer. Cha Jun 2016 #16
Not just fuck 'em, fuck 'em and feed 'em briars. tonyt53 Jun 2016 #26
You've gotta dance like there's nobody watching. nt BobbyDrake Jun 2016 #2
We smile, politely wave at them, and wait until they get up after being hit by reality. CrowCityDem Jun 2016 #3
I ignore the angry people... JSup Jun 2016 #4
Denial is a powerful thing. Probably not much you can do other than ignore the worst of it and give TwilightZone Jun 2016 #5
I am confident that people will do what they decide is best Tal Vez Jun 2016 #6
I'm gonna go with this... yallerdawg Jun 2016 #7
LOL! Cha Jun 2016 #17
Omg! ismnotwasm Jun 2016 #25
Right now the best thing you can do is just let them be. They need some time to process Arkansas Granny Jun 2016 #8
I agree pandr32 Jun 2016 #18
Agreed. TwilightZone Jun 2016 #23
Completely agree. auntpurl Jun 2016 #35
It is damn if you do and damn if you don't. Those who subscribe to that philosopohy most likely still_one Jun 2016 #9
Nothing. question everything Jun 2016 #10
Keep in mind, some of these Bernie supporters justiceischeap Jun 2016 #11
See my latest post in GD-P. nt Jitter65 Jun 2016 #12
9 more doays wont really matter beachbum bob Jun 2016 #13
I guess I will celebrate at home alone. LisaM Jun 2016 #14
I don't know of anything preventing us from celebrating liberal N proud Jun 2016 #20
I have declared a 72 hour moratorium on giving a shit. nt DURHAM D Jun 2016 #15
Let them have a little time to digest liberal N proud Jun 2016 #19
I find I'm not good at on-line psychology ismnotwasm Jun 2016 #21
We celebrate!! missingthebigdog Jun 2016 #22
Its going to take some time BlueStateLib Jun 2016 #24
I always loved that song ... NurseJackie Jun 2016 #29
Mass movement mind. Ellen Forradalom Jun 2016 #27
I am to the point right now Coolest Ranger Jun 2016 #28
I'm amazed by their posts *demanding* respect, yet in the same post ... NurseJackie Jun 2016 #30
I love they way insults are handed out with threats ismnotwasm Jun 2016 #31
I'll do you one better guys Coolest Ranger Jun 2016 #32
If you are talking about the Bernie Supporters here on DU..... Walk away Jun 2016 #33
It's like this ... BlueMTexpat Jun 2016 #34
Time! ~~Give them Time! Her Sister Jun 2016 #36
Time wounds all heels Blue Idaho Jun 2016 #37

JSup

(740 posts)
4. I ignore the angry people...
Tue Jun 7, 2016, 11:20 AM
Jun 2016

(not with ignore list) and I thank the gracious ones.

You (well some people) can tell when someone is ready to 'accept moving on'; when I'm angry there's no point in apologizing or trying to make nice.

TwilightZone

(28,833 posts)
5. Denial is a powerful thing. Probably not much you can do other than ignore the worst of it and give
Tue Jun 7, 2016, 11:21 AM
Jun 2016

the reasonable ones some time to process it all.

The amount of emotional investment some of them have made in this campaign is sky-high, and it's going to take some time to deal with the reality that it's over.

Been there, done that, more times than not.

Tal Vez

(660 posts)
6. I am confident that people will do what they decide is best
Tue Jun 7, 2016, 11:21 AM
Jun 2016

when the time comes to do something. I will be voting in November. I will undoubtedly vote for the Democratic nominee for president. I am confident that nearly all people with political views close to mine will do the same thing that I do and they won't need any prodding from me.

Arkansas Granny

(31,827 posts)
8. Right now the best thing you can do is just let them be. They need some time to process
Tue Jun 7, 2016, 11:25 AM
Jun 2016

the fact that Bernie is not going to be the nominee. No need to rub salt in the wound. I remember feeling pretty low in 2008 when Hillary lost.

pandr32

(12,170 posts)
18. I agree
Tue Jun 7, 2016, 11:35 AM
Jun 2016

...and look what we all found out! That Obama became an amazing president and we all support him whole-heartily. Bernie supporters who are really progressive and not libertarian, or whatever, will gradually come to realize that Hillary Clinton isn't "the lesser of two evils", but an awesome Madame president. They will learn that their opinions of her now are wrong and they will let it all go.

auntpurl

(4,311 posts)
35. Completely agree.
Tue Jun 7, 2016, 04:03 PM
Jun 2016

I felt the same in 08. Voted for Obama in November of course, and have never had cause to regret it. But I needed time, and really would have liked to punch the face off of anyone who suggested I get excited for Obama to be our nominee the day after the race was called, lol!

still_one

(96,541 posts)
9. It is damn if you do and damn if you don't. Those who subscribe to that philosopohy most likely
Tue Jun 7, 2016, 11:27 AM
Jun 2016

will not seek or desire any reconciliation

Hillary supporters do not need to do anything. Those who supported Bernie who want to stop Trump, will act accordingly.

Most will realize that we have common goals, and agree on most of the issues, and come together.

It doesn't mean we won't disagree, argue, debate, and compromise, but there is a common good that we all strive for.

question everything

(48,806 posts)
10. Nothing.
Tue Jun 7, 2016, 11:29 AM
Jun 2016

I don't know about them here, but for Sanders and Weaver to, all of a sudden, elevate super delegates to their cause is hypocritical and, of course, non democratic.

Let them go through the "four stages" of loss.

justiceischeap

(14,040 posts)
11. Keep in mind, some of these Bernie supporters
Tue Jun 7, 2016, 11:29 AM
Jun 2016

will end up voting for Trump and they are not a true reflection of the real world.

 

beachbum bob

(10,437 posts)
13. 9 more doays wont really matter
Tue Jun 7, 2016, 11:31 AM
Jun 2016

sanders supporters will come to turns or not. Personally I don't care....I'm sick of all the threats. i'm sick of those who place their overblown egos above the well being of america

LisaM

(28,601 posts)
14. I guess I will celebrate at home alone.
Tue Jun 7, 2016, 11:32 AM
Jun 2016

Last edited Tue Jun 7, 2016, 12:03 PM - Edit history (1)

It shouldn't have to be this way. I can guarantee you that in 2008 Obama supporters didn't hold back while I quietly put away my Hillary button for 8 years.

liberal N proud

(60,945 posts)
20. I don't know of anything preventing us from celebrating
Tue Jun 7, 2016, 11:38 AM
Jun 2016

I can do that without dancing on the grave of the BS campaign.

liberal N proud

(60,945 posts)
19. Let them have a little time to digest
Tue Jun 7, 2016, 11:36 AM
Jun 2016

What has been a reality for most of us has not been quite so obvious for those who were in a day dream. They may still need time to return to reality after being out for so long.

Eventually, those who are truly Democrats will come around and the others will meet their fate.

They just lost their saint and that isn't easy.

ismnotwasm

(42,455 posts)
21. I find I'm not good at on-line psychology
Tue Jun 7, 2016, 11:42 AM
Jun 2016

I use to play that "what the hell is a matter with those people" game. Outside of a very few, very obvious types with their.. challenges..we are dealing with human beings with very bad information.

I spent some time chasing some of that information--there are legitimate criticisms of Hillary Clinton--but those aren't even the ones brought up. The ones brought up are spun bias, paranoid, repeat-it-until-you-believe-it memes that require little thought, much less analysis. Chasing ludicrous "links" that supposedly prove some '"progressive" point and ultimately finding right wing sources is not an enjoyable pastime, but I've done it.

I've noticed what you are referring too over and over. I struggle with a name for it, but I'm tired of naming bullshit as though bullshit deserves a special name.

It's why I've trashed GD-P--although I think I will untrash it now.

missingthebigdog

(1,233 posts)
22. We celebrate!!
Tue Jun 7, 2016, 11:49 AM
Jun 2016

One side wins, one side loses. That's just the way it works. The fact that some people are not happy should not take away from the accomplishment and exuberance we feel as our candidate makes history.

It is time for a victory party! We can celebrate publicly and proudly here. The only inappropriate thing would be taking the celebration to their safe place.

They need some time to adjust, and to heal. We have all been there. Most of them will come around. They will not be as enthused as we are, perhaps, but they will accept, and will work for what is best for the Country. A few will not- and of those, some were NEVER here for any reason other than to disrupt.

We enjoy this victory with all of the happiness it brings us, and then get back to work. We have a general election to win!

NurseJackie

(42,862 posts)
29. I always loved that song ...
Tue Jun 7, 2016, 12:16 PM
Jun 2016

It's going to take some time this time
To get myself in shape
I really feel out-of line this time
I really missed the gate
The birds on the telephone line (next time)
Are cryin' out to me (next time)
And I won't be so blind next time
And I'll find some harmony

Ellen Forradalom

(16,178 posts)
27. Mass movement mind.
Tue Jun 7, 2016, 12:12 PM
Jun 2016

Adherence to the ideas of the movement take precedence over the human being standing in front of you.

I don't worry. I'll let my vote do the talking.

Coolest Ranger

(2,034 posts)
28. I am to the point right now
Tue Jun 7, 2016, 12:14 PM
Jun 2016

where I am done trying to extend a gesture of friendship after the nasty way bernie supporters have treated me. They have given me hides where I shouldn't have been hides. I've been told to do research as if I'm too stupid enough to do research on my own. I don't want them

NurseJackie

(42,862 posts)
30. I'm amazed by their posts *demanding* respect, yet in the same post ...
Tue Jun 7, 2016, 12:18 PM
Jun 2016

... the continue on with their insults and name-calling. (There are a couple of live threads like that right now.)

ismnotwasm

(42,455 posts)
31. I love they way insults are handed out with threats
Tue Jun 7, 2016, 12:19 PM
Jun 2016

"Ack! You guys suck, your candidate sucks but you better be nice to us of we won't vote!"

Coolest Ranger

(2,034 posts)
32. I'll do you one better guys
Tue Jun 7, 2016, 12:24 PM
Jun 2016

on my own face book page. I have had Bernie supporters come on there insult me, tell me I had no right to post a pro-Hillary article at all. So I told them as nicely as I knew how that this is my page, I am the Sheriff and I will start blocking folks from my page. One had the nerve to tell me that I needed to be open to different views. I told one of them so it's okay for you to post all your Pro-Bernie and anti-Hillary stuff on your page but when I post something Pro-Hillary or Anti Bernie on my page suddenly I am the bad guy? I started banning Bernie supporters from my page and I have not looked back.

Walk away

(9,494 posts)
33. If you are talking about the Bernie Supporters here on DU.....
Tue Jun 7, 2016, 12:50 PM
Jun 2016

I honestly don't care what they think about Hillary, what they think about me, who they vote for or why.

After reading hundreds of pledges never to vote for Hillary Clinton for POTUS, I take them at their word. They are as meaningless as Republicans to me...actually, that's wrong, I have recently met several Republicans who intend to jump parties and I have a lot of respect for them.

 

Her Sister

(6,444 posts)
36. Time! ~~Give them Time!
Tue Jun 7, 2016, 04:20 PM
Jun 2016

The ones not going Trump-on-us will separate from the ones who are our more natural allies!

Let's let them separate themselves! Then it's more clear!

Give time and see what rises to the top! Who rises to the occasion!

Blue Idaho

(5,500 posts)
37. Time wounds all heels
Tue Jun 7, 2016, 04:27 PM
Jun 2016

And Time heals all wounds. There is plenty of time for the assholes to find the well lit exits on their own. Anyone left may be ready to elect a Democrat. If not, we can help them find the door.

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