Hillary Clinton
Related: About this forum"We didn’t know where Hillary’s votes were coming from bc they didn’t feel it was safe"
Joanne Castle Miller had a great tweet about HRC voters not feeling safe in publicly supporting Hillary because of being harassed by haters (I urge everyone to read it):
https://twitter.com/jocastlemiller/status/740575041750867968
But, this Reddit thread by HRC supporters discussing that piece is a fantastic -- and sometimes sad -- read:
https://www.reddit.com/r/hillaryclinton/comments/4n6ciw/we_didnt_know_where_hillarys_votes_were_coming/
One comment that I loved:
I'm beginning to think that, instead of being worried about having to hide being a Clintonista, I could enjoy it by imagining myself as a subversive, slinking around looking innocent while awaiting the opportunity to cast a dastardly vote again!
Masquerading as a middle-class, middle-aged woman is the best cover, isn't it? because I have become invisible.
Starry Messenger
(32,375 posts)We really are a subversive group. 13% margin. It's like we all collectively decided to go large even without all knowing each other.
obamanut2012
(27,806 posts)Koinos
(2,798 posts)Those who bully are enemies of democracy. Those who peacefully vote are friends of democracy. It is all very simple, really.
BlueCaliDem
(15,438 posts)quiet about it in public.
I knew California would go for Hillary; that she'd win this State and the majority of delegates. I didn't think it was going to be 13%, though. I was thinking more along the lines between 7-10%, which, considering that NPPs could vote in the Democratic Party primary, was pretty generous! lol
I'm sorry to hear and read how Hillary supporters were driven to be quiet, but a true civilized and democratic society doesn't stage loud and violent protests. We exercise our passion through the ballot box (or mail), through phone-banking, through talking with our groups, through correcting the record where we could while withstanding the unjust angry. But we did it!
Thinkingabout
(30,058 posts)obamanut2012
(27,806 posts)Some people are quieter about their politics, religion, whatever.
riversedge
(73,130 posts)NurseJackie
(42,862 posts)Raissa
(217 posts)I have many friends online who supported Bernie. Whenever any of them made a post about not knowing anyone who supported Hillary I would politely speak up.
Inevitably many would follow, liking my post or voicing their own support. When one person steps out it makes everyone more comfortable speaking out.
Best of all, today many of those same people were hashtagging never trump and I'm with her.
Her Sister
(6,444 posts)Not listening to our voices, and moving quickly and relentlessly to squash what we thought and had to say! We had to go underground and then we surprised everyone because we existed even though had to be quiet and silent about it!
sarae
(3,284 posts)It explains so much of what's been going on, and mirrors how society treats women in general, especially older women. The only difference now is that we do have one ultimate way of being counted - through our votes.
It makes me sad (and angry) to consider that before we had the right to vote, we were effectively completely invisible and uncounted.
yardwork
(64,355 posts)Last edited Thu Jun 9, 2016, 02:43 PM - Edit history (1)
I experienced it in real life from somebody who supports Bernie.
Some people need to do some soul searching.
obamanut2012
(27,806 posts)Who had no business even mentioning anything about politics. He got reported by several people -- not me -- and "apologized" to everyone via email.
yardwork
(64,355 posts)Issues of entitlement....
obamanut2012
(27,806 posts)"I'm Bernie all the way (note: this was AFTER our primary, where HRC won in a landslide). No way I'm voting for either a woman who I can't trust or Trump."
yardwork
(64,355 posts)Cha
(305,407 posts)I just enlarged this so I could actually read it.. interesting to me. I was not expecting 13%!
Joanna Castle Miller ?@jocastlemiller
We didnt know where Hillarys votes were coming from bc they didnt feel it was safe to tell us in the first place.
6:03 AM - 8 Jun 2016
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June 8, 2016 at 3:58 pm
I am not at all surprised by this. The media (NBC/MSNBC) tried to push the meme that the CA primary was neck and neck referring to their polling. But that same polling showed that Hillary was ahead 58-41 in early voting.
oops .they never mentioned that .!
June 8, 2016 at 4:41 pm
This is very important information, MS. The intimidation and the threats kept women out of the public eye, but it did not keep them from doing an outstanding job of voter outreach and GOTV. They worked under the radar without the theatrics and they WON, big. Seems emblematic of the way that women often go about doing the hard work of getting a job donequietly, efficiently, effectivelywhile the men do the bragging. Now that HRC is the nominee more men will join the campaign because they want to be part of a success story.
https://theobamadiary.com/2016/06/08/its-go-time/
ProudProgressiveNow~
I'm so grateful for every woman and man who held fast to their views despite the constant negativity, verbal abuse and intimidation. It's so encouraging to know that our numbers are greater than we were led to believe.
Cha
(305,407 posts)Women in California so much.. the ones behind the scenes quietly GOTV and Voter Outreach..
Everyone who voted for Hillary across the nation.. her largest voting block is actually African American Women.. and now Latinos in California!
She won Arizona, Nevada, New Mexico, & California... see a pattern here?
So encouraging!
I like that pattern...
Coolest Ranger
(2,034 posts)was when I let my friends know that I was switching from Bernie to Hillary and right away that's when all the personal attacks against me on Facebook started happening. That's when people started telling me to "do my research." that I had no right to disrespect Bernie like that. That I was wrong for putting my support behind Hillary. its hard not to take this stuff personally.
But the biggest shock was when a Bernie supporter on facebook threatened me with physical violence. They threatened to shoot out my right eye thus blinding me completely. Hell that scared the crap out of me guys. The next election cycle when we go through this again hopefully in 2024 I plan to keep my mouth shut about who I will be supporting.
Her Sister
(6,444 posts)Yet we persevered! So proud of all of us!
Am sad to hear what you went through! Know that many were with you!!
sarae
(3,284 posts)That's infuriating. It's also puzzling to me that someone would think that physical threats are an effective way of getting someone to change their views - it may publicly silence someone, but it won't change their mind when they cast a vote anonymously.
Incidentally, I think that's why they need to stop doing caucuses - there's nothing democratic about being bullied into voting for someone.
BlueMTexpat
(15,496 posts)Bullying is NOT a progressive quality. Anyone who does bully or threaten another is NOT a progressive, no matter how much they may argue otherwise.
sarae
(3,284 posts)if they end up making primaries open to everyone but then they keep the caucuses? I really, really hope that's not on the agenda.
BlueMTexpat
(15,496 posts)believe that will happen. I certainly hope not.
LexVegas
(6,576 posts)He said he has had to come out 3x. As a gay man, an atheist, and a Hillary Clinton supporter. Said he was attacked all 3x.
obamanut2012
(27,806 posts)Walk away
(9,494 posts)It would be a lot different if I were still living in Hoboken or Brooklyn. I doubt if I would feel comfortable discussing Hillary in public. I really don't need to be attacked. I actually feel safe around Trump supporters. They seem much confrontational and angry.
Ellen Forradalom
(16,178 posts)in my social group. These are longtime friends who shocked me with phrases like 'that woman' or 'Cheney in a skirt' to refer to Clinton. This, amongst many other things, was a red flag to keep away from Sanders.
Because speaking on the Internet while female is a crime, I decided to keep quiet about supporting Hillary until after primaries, and let my vote do the talking. Apparently on Tuesday, it did!
obamanut2012
(27,806 posts)ProudProgressiveNow
(6,165 posts)DemonGoddess
(5,123 posts)this comment from the reddit by JGRN1507
This commenter lives in the same state as I do. So yes, I've also had to be quietly supportive instead of loudly, like I normally would be.
liberal N proud
(60,945 posts)It's not just California
I didn't put a Hillary sticker on my car.
I did put out a sign about 3 days before the Primary (Ohio)
I don't think I will put a sticker on my car for the general either. The Trump supporters are just too deranged.
Haveadream
(1,630 posts)People feel entitled to trespass women's boundaries and Hillary's so any supporter of her, male or female, is subjected to that abuse by extension. Even in a state which is voting for Hillary, most here do not advertise it for fear of vandalism by the Trump and Sander's supporters. That is the reason there are so few signs and bumper stickers, etc.
I was at a non political meeting where everyone attending happened to be a Democrat. The Primary came up and one person, with fist raised boldly shouted, "Go Bernie! Never Hillary!" and was met with polite silence, shuffling papers and averted eyes. There were some smiles but the response spoke volumes: everyone in the room was for Hillary but they were not going get into it with an overbearing supporter who assumed everyone hates Hillary and that it was ok to do so. The support for Hillary is very deep and very wide just as the election results are showing. Women and minorities have to protect their voting franchise. There is power in the vote!
forjusticethunders
(1,151 posts)And I'm a guy. Imagine how the women feel?
JSup
(740 posts)Women get called stupid and men who agree with them are 'traitors to their gender' or something; not 'real men'.
lolpeerpressurevoting
upaloopa
(11,417 posts)obamanut2012
(27,806 posts)Hekate
(94,653 posts)...to hide out. This is totally sad.
We are winning -- but the Sanders Cult has taken a lot of the joy out of it. And they're proud of it.
Fortunately, Sanders himself is a long-time politician who is right now dickering with other politicians over what he can get on behalf of the movement he started. If his more fevered followers can grow up a bit and see this as reality and not a betrayal (I swear some of them think he should "bern" himself on the Capitol steps shouting "Nevah surrendah!" we might be able to make some progress -- even Progressive progress.
Jamaal510
(10,893 posts)I never let any strangers know my politics unless they ask. Even in a state like CA that has many Clinton and Obama fans, there are also plenty of haters, and you never know who is a hater. I'm not going to risk getting harassed by some nut at school or on the street because of a shirt or bumper sticker.
obamanut2012
(27,806 posts)I put nothing on my car but running stickers.
LAS14
(14,689 posts)... phenomenon, of often going for Bernie? It can be a very confrontational environment. Maybe Hillary supporters just didn't want to get involved in that?