A geriatric-care manager
As the name implies, a geriatric-care manager, also known as an aging life care manager, helps older adults and their families navigate the elder-care maze. An aging parent, for instance, who needs assistance with medical care, housing, legal issues, finances, transportation and related needs could benefit from a geriatric-care manager.
Equally important, such individuals act as eyes and ears for adult children who might live at a distance from an older relative.
To that end, I frequently performed cognitive tests that identified problems, even when family members and/or a primary-care doctor hadnt yet seen it, says Molly Moore, a registered nurse in Florida and former geriatric-care manager. I also was involved in evaluating whether clients could drive safely and, if necessary, negotiating how and when to give up their car keys.
Frequently family members disagree on how bad a situation is, Ms. Moore adds. Having an objective professional, trained to evaluate and make recommendations, is vital.
To learn more, start with the Aging Life Care Association (aginglifecare.org). Eldercare Locator (eldercare.acl.gov), part of the Administration on Aging, also can connect you to services for older adults and their families.
https://www.wsj.com/articles/forced-to-retire-it-might-not-be-as-bad-as-you-fear-11607007600 (subscription)
spooky3
(36,194 posts)Relative likes and trusts her. She has a masters degree and more than 20 years of experience in nursing. She accompanies him to doctors appointments to make sure the right questions are asked and that the answers are understood, and provides other assistance. Very reasonably priced.
I HIGHLY recommend GCMs.
PoindexterOglethorpe
(26,727 posts)Alas, the article is behind a pay wall.
I do think about these things constantly. I'm 72. My one son lives about 1500 miles from me. He's in the DC area, I'm in New Mexico. For several years now I've simply assumed that at some point I will relocate to be much nearer to him. Not that I would expect him to do hands on taking care of me down the road, but so, as I like to say, he'd be near enough to sign the DNR orders when needed.
The reality is, I like him a lot and would prefer to live much closer to him. But even if that happens, someone like a geriatric care manager would be wonderful to have as I age.
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(48,797 posts)PoindexterOglethorpe
(26,727 posts)Could you please post those links? Thank you in advance.
progree
(11,463 posts)Although two links might not equate to "several links"
PoindexterOglethorpe
(26,727 posts)spooky3
(36,194 posts)have an elder care network that includes GCMs. That's how we found ours - our lawyer put us in touch with a lawyer in our relative's home town, who provided several referrals to GCMs in that town.
PoindexterOglethorpe
(26,727 posts)My son has copies of everything. Checking in with the local lawyer who did the will and trust makes sense.
Thanks.
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(48,797 posts)trof
(54,273 posts)???
question everything
(48,797 posts)The first was "forced to retire," the second was the delayed benefits of Social security which I posted as a separate thread and the third - about the geriatric care manager.
I tried to make it easy here..
keithbvadu2
(40,092 posts)Be careful who you trust
Caretakers cheat/rob vulnerable seniors
Miserable cretins
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/wwii-veteran-life-savings-stolen_us_57e1b0abe4b0e80b1b9ee159?section=&
Fugitive Caretakers Allegedly Steal WWII Veterans Life Savings