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Behind the Aegis

(54,880 posts)
Sun Sep 3, 2023, 02:14 PM Sep 2023

Anti-LGBTQ+ hostility is rising. We asked queer people how safe they feel.

If LGBTQ+ Americans are feeling increasingly anxious about their safety, they have good reason. The past few years have seen a marked increase in anti-LGBTQ+ hostility on the political right, with Republican lawmakers across the country passing laws intended to ban the very mention of LGBTQ+ people in schools and in some places making it nearly impossible for trans and nonbinary people to simply exist in the public sphere. Online, anti-LGBTQ+ misinformation has led to violent extremist groups protesting and disrupting queer events like Pride celebrations and drag performances.

And anti-LGBTQ+ hate crimes appear to be on the rise. The most recently available FBI data shows that reported hate crimes in general are now the highest they’ve ever been since the bureau began tracking such data in 1991. Late last year, the Department of Homeland Security warned that the LGBTQ+ community remained at risk of possible copycat attacks following the deadly shooting at Club Q in Colorado Springs, Colorado. Earlier this year, the Leadership Conference Education Fund warned that political attacks perpetuating the false “groomer” narrative around LGBTQ+ people could result in hate-motivated violence against the community going into the 2024 election cycle.

Who was the first queer author you discovered that made you realize you weren’t alone? The one that made you imagine a future for yourself?

Reports of Pride flags being torn down or defaced, queer people being assaulted, and most recently the high-profile murders of O’Shea Sibley and Laura Ann Carleton — it’s a lot! Even in New York City — a gay mecca in a blue state—multiple gay bars and restaurants have been attacked in recent years.

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How safe do YOU feel?

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Anti-LGBTQ+ hostility is rising. We asked queer people how safe they feel. (Original Post) Behind the Aegis Sep 2023 OP
Well Chi67 Sep 2023 #1
It impacts more than just the targeted. Laffy Kat Sep 2023 #2
Yeah Chi67 Sep 2023 #5
I'm leaving the god-awful state I live in that used to be somewhat nice. RKP5637 Sep 2023 #3
Oh no! Chi67 Sep 2023 #4
Florida. n/t RKP5637 Sep 2023 #6
I guess I should have known Chi67 Sep 2023 #8
They are hateful psychotic people. So sorry I ever moved to Florida. n/t RKP5637 Sep 2023 #11
Not at all. Lunabell Sep 2023 #7
IMO Chi67 Sep 2023 #9
I live in Texas vercetti2021 Sep 2023 #10
I am absolutely terrified LostOne4Ever Sep 2023 #12
Yeah Chi67 Sep 2023 #13
My concern is for LGBTQ youth in Trumpistan lambchopp59 Sep 2023 #14

Chi67

(1,103 posts)
1. Well
Sun Sep 3, 2023, 02:22 PM
Sep 2023

As long as I'm in Chicago, I feel safe. When I leave and drive through Indiana to Ohio for family visits, I definitely don't. The feeling is much different. I feel like I have to be very careful.

Laffy Kat

(16,529 posts)
2. It impacts more than just the targeted.
Sun Sep 3, 2023, 02:46 PM
Sep 2023

It impacts their family members, too. We live in Colorado an LGBTQ+ friendly state, yet I'm still a nervous wreck for my son and his boyfriend. The Club Q shooting happened in Colorado Springs and could happen anywhere. It is never far from my mind and I know it's having an effect on my health. I feel not only for those targeted but for their family members.

Chi67

(1,103 posts)
5. Yeah
Sun Sep 3, 2023, 03:18 PM
Sep 2023

I wouldn't put it past the right wing to start targeting family members of LGBT people either.

RKP5637

(67,112 posts)
3. I'm leaving the god-awful state I live in that used to be somewhat nice.
Sun Sep 3, 2023, 02:57 PM
Sep 2023

None even seem to care about the Nazi parades and demonstrations.

Chi67

(1,103 posts)
8. I guess I should have known
Sun Sep 3, 2023, 07:41 PM
Sep 2023

But it could have been Texas, Tennessee or Idaho. Those states are racing Florida to see which can be the most anti-gay.

Lunabell

(6,958 posts)
7. Not at all.
Sun Sep 3, 2023, 03:39 PM
Sep 2023

I have never felt safe and that's one of the reasons my "wife" of 30 years and I have never legally married. Not safe at all in rhe sunshine state.

Chi67

(1,103 posts)
9. IMO
Sun Sep 3, 2023, 07:42 PM
Sep 2023

You should still get married. You'll have more federal legal protections. Hell, I would be happy to be dating someone, let alone get married.

vercetti2021

(10,403 posts)
10. I live in Texas
Sun Sep 3, 2023, 08:35 PM
Sep 2023

But I don't fear these fucks. I carry on me. So if some bigoted asshole wants to hurt me or my girlfriend. They'll play the FAFO game.

lambchopp59

(2,809 posts)
14. My concern is for LGBTQ youth in Trumpistan
Mon Sep 4, 2023, 06:49 PM
Sep 2023

Their peril is great. I'm cis, but have effeminate traits people pick up on. My genotype is fully screwed in a good portion of our country.

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