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Related: About this forumAnti-LGBTQ+ hostility is rising. We asked queer people how safe they feel.
If LGBTQ+ Americans are feeling increasingly anxious about their safety, they have good reason. The past few years have seen a marked increase in anti-LGBTQ+ hostility on the political right, with Republican lawmakers across the country passing laws intended to ban the very mention of LGBTQ+ people in schools and in some places making it nearly impossible for trans and nonbinary people to simply exist in the public sphere. Online, anti-LGBTQ+ misinformation has led to violent extremist groups protesting and disrupting queer events like Pride celebrations and drag performances.
And anti-LGBTQ+ hate crimes appear to be on the rise. The most recently available FBI data shows that reported hate crimes in general are now the highest theyve ever been since the bureau began tracking such data in 1991. Late last year, the Department of Homeland Security warned that the LGBTQ+ community remained at risk of possible copycat attacks following the deadly shooting at Club Q in Colorado Springs, Colorado. Earlier this year, the Leadership Conference Education Fund warned that political attacks perpetuating the false groomer narrative around LGBTQ+ people could result in hate-motivated violence against the community going into the 2024 election cycle.
Who was the first queer author you discovered that made you realize you werent alone? The one that made you imagine a future for yourself?
Reports of Pride flags being torn down or defaced, queer people being assaulted, and most recently the high-profile murders of OShea Sibley and Laura Ann Carleton its a lot! Even in New York City a gay mecca in a blue statemultiple gay bars and restaurants have been attacked in recent years.
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How safe do YOU feel?
Chi67
(1,103 posts)As long as I'm in Chicago, I feel safe. When I leave and drive through Indiana to Ohio for family visits, I definitely don't. The feeling is much different. I feel like I have to be very careful.
Laffy Kat
(16,529 posts)It impacts their family members, too. We live in Colorado an LGBTQ+ friendly state, yet I'm still a nervous wreck for my son and his boyfriend. The Club Q shooting happened in Colorado Springs and could happen anywhere. It is never far from my mind and I know it's having an effect on my health. I feel not only for those targeted but for their family members.
I wouldn't put it past the right wing to start targeting family members of LGBT people either.
RKP5637
(67,112 posts)None even seem to care about the Nazi parades and demonstrations.
Where is that?
Chi67
(1,103 posts)But it could have been Texas, Tennessee or Idaho. Those states are racing Florida to see which can be the most anti-gay.
RKP5637
(67,112 posts)Lunabell
(6,958 posts)I have never felt safe and that's one of the reasons my "wife" of 30 years and I have never legally married. Not safe at all in rhe sunshine state.
You should still get married. You'll have more federal legal protections. Hell, I would be happy to be dating someone, let alone get married.
vercetti2021
(10,403 posts)But I don't fear these fucks. I carry on me. So if some bigoted asshole wants to hurt me or my girlfriend. They'll play the FAFO game.
LostOne4Ever
(9,597 posts)More and more this looks like the Nazis taking over!!!
A very scary time for our country.
lambchopp59
(2,809 posts)Their peril is great. I'm cis, but have effeminate traits people pick up on. My genotype is fully screwed in a good portion of our country.