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'Girls say they hate their vaginas' (Original Post) shenmue Jul 2017 OP
Who's looking? The Velveteen Ocelot Jul 2017 #1
Neither sex's genitals are all that lovely. Loki Liesmith Jul 2017 #2
When my older son, now 27, was about 10 (maybe a bit older), he asked me if women were... 3catwoman3 Jul 2017 #10
I've never had any complaints . . . . . . . no_hypocrisy Jul 2017 #3
And I've never made any complaints marylandblue Jul 2017 #4
They did not make that up themselves. Where did they get the idea of "pretty" vaginas? TreasonousBastard Jul 2017 #5
The vagina is an... 3catwoman3 Jul 2017 #6
Agreed but I think they're linking them together for some reason... WePurrsevere Jul 2017 #8
How about society stop teaching... WePurrsevere Jul 2017 #7
And while I'm at it, crabbing about proper... 3catwoman3 Jul 2017 #9
When I was 16 I don't think we looked beyond the nose one was born with angstlessk Jul 2017 #11
Count me one of those who cannot begin to comprehend this. PoindexterOglethorpe Jul 2017 #12

3catwoman3

(25,462 posts)
10. When my older son, now 27, was about 10 (maybe a bit older), he asked me if women were...
Mon Jul 3, 2017, 12:16 PM
Jul 2017

...as interested in looking at penises as men were in looking at breasts. I demurred a bit, and said "Probably not," feeling he was a tad on the young side for your well made point about function versus form.

marylandblue

(12,344 posts)
4. And I've never made any complaints
Mon Jul 3, 2017, 11:54 AM
Jul 2017

Whenever the opportunity arises, I am not interested creating problems that would ruin the mood.

3catwoman3

(25,462 posts)
6. The vagina is an...
Mon Jul 3, 2017, 11:55 AM
Jul 2017

...INTERNAL structure. You can not see it unless you are using a speculum.

The idea of labioplasty for cosmetic reasons is horrifying.

WePurrsevere

(24,259 posts)
8. Agreed but I think they're linking them together for some reason...
Mon Jul 3, 2017, 12:05 PM
Jul 2017

Either way that young girls feel this way is horrifying to me. There's not a darn thing wrong with any part of them but someone (society, peers, etc) is making them feel like there is.

WePurrsevere

(24,259 posts)
7. How about society stop teaching...
Mon Jul 3, 2017, 12:00 PM
Jul 2017

Children that parts of their, or other's bodies, are 'ugly'? How about teaching them that different isn't ugly? How about acceptance and even wonder instead of condemnation?

These young girls feeling like they need to be 'fixed' when they're not broken reflects poorly on society in general IMO.

3catwoman3

(25,462 posts)
9. And while I'm at it, crabbing about proper...
Mon Jul 3, 2017, 12:11 PM
Jul 2017

...terminology, unless several people are in possession of a single, mutual vagina, it should read "their vaginas."

angstlessk

(11,862 posts)
11. When I was 16 I don't think we looked beyond the nose one was born with
Mon Jul 3, 2017, 01:33 PM
Jul 2017

Then they started down the female body to breasts, and then fannies, now vaginas??? Is there any part of the female body that is not available to be surgically interrupted?

PoindexterOglethorpe

(26,730 posts)
12. Count me one of those who cannot begin to comprehend this.
Mon Jul 3, 2017, 04:40 PM
Jul 2017

Are this girls pulling out mirrors and looking down there?

And what in the world are the parents and the doctors communicating to them that seems to normalize this?

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