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Women Everywhere Are Standing Up Against Gender Apartheid
10/11/2022 by Laurie Adams
The tragic death of Mahsa Amini connects us all at a time when it has never been more important to band together and push back against all forms of oppression.
A protest in front of the Iranian consulate in Istanbul in response to the death of Mahsa Amini, who died in police custody in Iran after being detained for allegedly not wearing a head scarf properly in public. (Onur Dogman / SOPA Images / LightRocket via Getty Images)
Its been humbling to see the outpouring of support for Iranian women following the death of Mahsa Aminiafter she was taken into custody by the so-called morality police for inappropriate hijab. At rallies across the world, women have cut their hair in solidarity with their sisters protesting in Iran. Iranian American journalist, Masih Alinejad, took out her scissors live on Good Morning America, expressing outrage that Masha was killed for a bit of hair that was visible under her veil. Ive been listening to colleagues in Iraq and Afghanistan to better understand what it means to them to wear the hijab. Many tell me that it is a profound expression of their faith, but they also feel strongly that policing womens choice of clothing is an act of political repression. As the CEO of an international womens rights organization, I know that choice is one of the most fundamental rights we possessthe freedom to choose what to wear, whether to have sex, when and if to give birth. The freedom to choose to go to school, to work outside the home, to earn money and then to choose how to spend that money. I also know that it is my privilege and duty to listen and to amplify the voices of women who cannot speak out.
A group of Afghan women leaders I met with recently, described restrictions on dress and movement imposed on women by the de facto government in Afghanistan as gender apartheid. They told policymakers at the 77th U.N. General Assembly in New York, that women in Afghanistan are prohibited from traveling any distance without a male relative, required to cover themselves from head-to-toe in public and school beyond the sixth grade is banned. At the meetings, Najiba Sangar, an Afghan human rights activist and feminist made a powerful plea that the gender issue should not become a secondary priority for some of the U.N. state members because womens rights are human rights. So, it was particularly poignant for me to see a group of women in Afghanistan holding placards outside the Iranian consulate in Kabul bearing the name and image of Mahsa Amini. Economic sanctions have hit Afghan women hard and they are coping with a loss of freedoms and a hunger crisis. When we asked Afghan women in our No One Hears Our Voices survey, a staggering 92 percent of women reported that their weekly household income has dropped since U.S. troops left Afghanistan last summer. A quarter reported having no income at all. To put it in the words of my colleague, Arizoo, they are surviving, not living.
The brave, defiant and fearless women of Afghanistan have taken to the streets of Kabul to protest against the Taliban and chant Iran has risen, now it is our turn. Death to the dictator whether in Kabul or Tehran.
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Shabnam Nasimi (@NasimiShabnam) September 29, 2022
But Afghan womens rights activists, like those I met at UNGA, refuse to give up. Theyre putting pressure on the international community to find ways to get aid directly into the hands of Afghan women. Fortunately, generosity from our donors means that weve been able to continue supporting women in Afghanistan with cash, skills training and a safe place to gather. Before they even get to our training centers, participants must navigate overwhelming challenges on almost a daily basis, from the threat of violence and intimidation to suicide bombings. Colleagues tell me that Taliban officials wait outside to interrogate women about what they have learned.
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U.N. Secretary General António Guterres admitted recently, somewhat dispiritingly, that gender equality is going backwards. Hes right. Our ability to choose for ourselves is under attack. The loss of our freedoms is mountingfrom abortion rights, to lack of access to education, to being told what we must wear. The tragic death of Mahsa Amini connects us all at a time when it has never been more important to band together and push back against all forms of oppression.Thats why, as feminists, we will stand with our sisters wherever there is a needin Afghanistan, Iran, the DRC or here in the U.S. We know, in the end, we must prevail. There is no other choice.
https://msmagazine.com/2022/10/11/women-mahsa-amini-gender-afghanistan-iran/
Laffy Kat
(16,524 posts)But now that is has, it's not going away. The women and their supporters have so much to lose; I admire them greatly.
Irish_Dem
(57,591 posts)I think that time has happened for women now.
Women across the world are fed up.
Laffy Kat
(16,524 posts)Oppressed women have so much to lose in fighting back.
Irish_Dem
(57,591 posts)Everything has been taken away. They have no rights, no freedoms.
They are hidden away in back rooms like animals.
If they venture into public they are dressed like something out of medieval times.
Yes on the one hand they can lose what little they do have, it is all on the line now.
But on the other hand they have nothing to lose.
Laffy Kat
(16,524 posts)niyad
(119,939 posts)resist with everything in its power.
Irish_Dem
(57,591 posts)I wish more males would join the battle. In Iran some males are doing so.
Here in the US, I don't know if that will happen.
Even on American liberal forum sites, with educated enlightened males, the reaction is odd.
When I talk about what it was like before Roe, I am told to "get a grip."
And when women talk about the battle we face, we are told we need to tone down the "sex wars."
Perhaps older males do not see this as their issue any longer.
But certainly younger men will wake up? In nine months, young men are going to
start paying child support in much higher numbers than in the past.
Back in the old days there was no DNA testing. There is now.
It reminds me of the 60's. Liberal young men and women protested against the Viet Nam war,
for civil rights, ecology, etc. But women were relegated to taking notes and making coffee.
This pissed off the women so much they started Women's Rights Movement, and the rest is history.
So we go it alone if need be. And it will be a battle.
niyad
(119,939 posts)almost 60 years, and I am tired of the s***, but I am not giving up.
Irish_Dem
(57,591 posts)To one of the males asking women to tone down the "sex wars."
I pointed out that older women are damn angry that we have to keep fighting this crap over and over again.
And that the "sex wars" have just begun.
niyad
(119,939 posts)Irish_Dem
(57,591 posts)It turned out OK and rather amusing. But I think I made my point.