Addiction & Recovery
Related: About this forumI started naltrexone again for booze Saturday
I took it years ago and did not drink for almost two years 07-09. Now at 52 I asked doc for another prescription. I have come to understand that Im a functioning alcoholic is the term that they use. When I drink I drink to get drunk never violent always mellow. Saturday I had a few on back porch but I do remember after like a week on naltrexone the craving goes away. And your thoughts change from wanting a beer to just not having any. It was my call to do it my wife saw the prescription on counter and asked.
I do think alcoholism is hereditary I come from a family of drinkers. You work hard you play hard after they put in week at steel mill. And it seemed normal after a week of linehaul or yard jockey time to crack a few. Or like in infantry ok were done with that field exercise time to get drunk and try not to end up on the military police report . I suffer from ok I worked hard time for a reward it just took me to decide to ask the doc for this.
Volaris
(10,600 posts)My father was an extremely high-functioning alcoholic for all of his adult life (like he'd work 80 or 90 hours a week, for years at a time).
I think he recognized it was a problem?, but he never quite could find his way out of it long term. I know he was clinically manic, and I suspect the booze was a kind of painkiller for something he couldn't shake or allow himself to grieve properly for.
Stark choices. You made a good one, and godspeed. I don't even know you, but I'm proud of you!
MLAA
(18,618 posts)Well done, TEB.
MFM008
(20,000 posts)My son is on his 3rd week of sobriety.
Rhiannon12866
(222,466 posts)I've been in AA since 2008 and so many people I meet were forced into treatment for legal reasons. And I agree that it's genetic, seems like the majority of people I've gotten to know say they come from alcoholic families. And the way one woman described it stuck with me. She said "I realized early on that I didn't have an 'off switch.'" That's what it was like for me. Good luck and remember that living sober isn't a destination, it's a journey. That's another quote that resonated with me...
Victor_c3
(3,557 posts)Ive been debating switching to vivatrol (its basically the same thing, but its an injection you get once per month), but I get sloppy with taking my meds at times.
When I take naltrexone and some of my other PTSD meds, I find that it kills my appetite and I sweat a lot when I exercise. I just make sure I drink lots of water, but after a few months of it Im finally getting my beach-body back.
The weight loss is a just a good side affect for me. It could also be that, when Im not drinking alcohol, that I consume way less calories too.
At 38 years old, Im going to finally be able to sport my speedo at the beach. Now that Im divorced and single, I just need someone to help shave my back. When I get my bro-zilian (the male version of a Brazilian) maybe Ill just get them to wax my back too.
Just kidding, I dont have a hairy back.
Im 6 ft 145 I like to run and hit gym for circuit pt. Thanks LT
TexasProgresive
(12,298 posts)I'm sure if you had a hairy back some dominatrix would gladly do the wax job. Stay healthy and sober. And congrates on getting a Bronze Star and surviving to tell the tail. There is one in my Dad's (rip) display case from WW II. I asked him what he got it for and he couldn't or wouldn't tell.
CaptainTruth
(7,233 posts)Tucker08087
(621 posts)When asked why I made a certain life-changing decision when I did, my simple response was, I just decided that it was time. So maybe it was your time.
I drink. Probably more than I should. I like wine and I dont like stress, but I also dont like the added pounds. Im not sure if Id need medical help if I decide to stop, but I had no idea it existed, and hopefully Im not the only back-woods person who was unaware. So thanks for sharing your story. It may help others, and its good to hear that you are focusing on you and your health.
HopeAgain
(4,407 posts)9+ years sober here. I didn't take anything for the cravings and found, as another "functional alcoholic" that they went away after a few very uncomfortable weeks. I did need a sufficient substitute for Alcohol, especially to deal with anxiety and stress. Active participation in AA turned out to be the thing for me.
I am the happiest I have ever been and now I don't miss a drink at all.
democrank
(11,250 posts)You can do this.
TexasProgresive
(12,298 posts)I can't offer any real advice as my drug of choice is nicotine delivered by a non-filtered paper tube filled with full flavor tobacco. I don't smoke any more but it is still there. If I have a beer with people who smoke there is a real danger that I would bum a cigarette off of them and I would be back in the smoke ring.
CentralMass
(15,540 posts)SouthernIrish
(531 posts)I am wishing you all the best in this. You know the effects that alcohol has on your mind and body. You need to be around for a long time for your wife and kiddos. From your writing, I can tell that you are a kind and compassionate man. The world needs more people like you. Because of your service and your activism with veterans and always looking out for the underdog, you are a very valued member of society. Prayers for you and wishing you a long and happy life.
Bernardo de La Paz
(50,934 posts)dawg day
(7,947 posts)The first part is a lot of dissing AA, so skip through that. Later it talks about naltrexone being used in Scandinavia as a first-line treatment, that it stops the craving (helps with carbs and opioids too, apparently!).
I hope more people learn about this, at least enough to give it a try.
Ohiogal
(34,820 posts)Recognizing you have an addiction problem is the most important step, no?
My father was a functional alcoholic. My mom hated that he drank so much after he got home from work. And I could always tell. I think he thought we kids couldn't tell. But we could.
Best thing you can do for your family. Bravo and the best of luck to you.