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tavalon

(27,985 posts) Mon Mar 5, 2012, 12:37 PM Mar 2012

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And he ignored the part where I told him I didn't want to correspond anymore until he had tavalon Mar 2012 #1

First Old Codger Mar 2012 #2

Well, I used to phrase my recovery in terms of how I was blocking his recovery by not focusing on my tavalon Mar 2012 #3

Good Old Codger Mar 2012 #4

tavalon

(27,985 posts)

1. And he ignored the part where I told him I didn't want to correspond anymore until he had

Reply to tavalon (Original post)

Mon Mar 5, 2012, 09:15 PM

Mar 2012

one year of sobriety under his belt.

So I blocked his email.

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Old Codger

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2. First

Reply to tavalon (Reply #1)

Mon Mar 5, 2012, 11:17 PM

Mar 2012

Take care of yourself, you don't need that in your life, you are doing a lot of work and this sort of thing makes it harder... good to block it out.... You HP is with you listen hard.

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tavalon

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3. Well, I used to phrase my recovery in terms of how I was blocking his recovery by not focusing on my

Reply to Old Codger (Reply #2)

Tue Mar 6, 2012, 01:19 AM

Mar 2012

own. What he did was disrespectful of me and I won't have it.

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Old Codger

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4. Good

Reply to tavalon (Reply #3)

Tue Mar 6, 2012, 10:23 AM

Mar 2012

The only person you can change is you.

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