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mopinko

(71,869 posts)
Tue Jan 23, 2024, 02:31 PM Jan 2024

well, i'm cancer free for now.

had surgery this am. at 8am! talk about insult to injury. lol.
i had a squamous cell removed, and was expecting it to b like that. but melanoma requires taking the fat layer underneath. a lesion the size of my pinky nail, and they took a chunk the size and shape of an orange segment. 3” scar.
now i have a full body exam every 3 mos to look forward to. yumm.
i took pics. the assistant says a lot of ppl do.

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well, i'm cancer free for now. (Original Post) mopinko Jan 2024 OP
I didn't realize they took so much for a melanoma. Irish_Dem Jan 2024 #1
yeah, dermo surgeon. mopinko Jan 2024 #5
Well the margins have to be a certain size I guess. Irish_Dem Jan 2024 #11
May you and you scar have a long and happy time together. Botany Jan 2024 #2
i dont get together w my family often, mopinko Jan 2024 #4
when I had my ablation surgery lapfog_1 Jan 2024 #3
you'd think they have to give it to u if u rly want it. mopinko Jan 2024 #7
A woman I once worked with had a melanoma. greatauntoftriplets Jan 2024 #6
it's def a 'good cancer' mopinko Jan 2024 #8
Or maybe its a "nowhere near as bad as some" cancer. greatauntoftriplets Jan 2024 #9
It is not as bad as some other cancers, nor is it as bad as it was two decades ago, bluescribbler Jan 2024 #21
i'm still a bit stunned to say i have cancer. mopinko Jan 2024 #29
Good news! underpants Jan 2024 #10
Don't you just love it when a plan comes together? marble falls Jan 2024 #12
yes, yes i do. mopinko Jan 2024 #13
Glad for you Duncanpup Jan 2024 #14
jolly good show. AllaN01Bear Jan 2024 #15
Good news! mountain grammy Jan 2024 #16
That's great news. Take care! ❤️ N/t RestoreAmerica2020 Jan 2024 #17
i probably would. barbtries Jan 2024 #18
i think they're used to giving ppl stones. mopinko Jan 2024 #23
lol barbtries Jan 2024 #31
It is going to be a great year! rurallib Jan 2024 #19
i have hope for the year. mopinko Jan 2024 #24
Extra check up sound like the way to go. multigraincracker Jan 2024 #20
i'm sure once a yr wd b the rec. mopinko Jan 2024 #22
That be me. multigraincracker Jan 2024 #25
i had a dermo i loved who retired, mopinko Jan 2024 #26
Good news. sinkingfeeling Jan 2024 #27
This is very good news. LoisB Jan 2024 #28
Had 2 Mohs Surgeries this Fall montanacowboy Jan 2024 #30
i'm just glad mopinko Jan 2024 #32
May you remain cancer free all the rest of your days LiberalLoner Jan 2024 #33
it's good so far. almost 24 hrs mopinko Jan 2024 #34

Irish_Dem

(58,279 posts)
1. I didn't realize they took so much for a melanoma.
Tue Jan 23, 2024, 02:35 PM
Jan 2024

I have only had the pre-melanomas, the dysplastic ones.
And the other ones they freeze.

Did your dermatologist do it or did you have to go to a plastic surgeon?

I go every 6 months for the full body exam.
Darn Irish skin. It is lovely, but way too delicate and fair.

mopinko

(71,869 posts)
5. yeah, dermo surgeon.
Tue Jan 23, 2024, 02:46 PM
Jan 2024

have an ap nurse mostly. surgeon also did 1 of the biopsies, cuz it was right by my eye.
i told her today that if there’s a next time i’ll skip the numbing. the shot to numb was worse than the dental 1s. it was a little mole they cd had snipped w less pain, but they cauterized it, so that wd hurt. still a toss up if u ask me.

yeah, i was shocked at the size of the specimen.

Irish_Dem

(58,279 posts)
11. Well the margins have to be a certain size I guess.
Tue Jan 23, 2024, 03:01 PM
Jan 2024

I know, what's worse, the numbing crap or the pain?
Knowing me, I am a baby, I better get the numbing shot.
Especially if they are carving out such a damn big chunk.
One thing if it is just a mole, but orange segment. That's big.

That is going to hurt when the novocaine wears off, so keep the advil handy.

I am being carved up tiny piece by tiny piece.
So many moles/freckles removed.

Botany

(72,535 posts)
2. May you and you scar have a long and happy time together.
Tue Jan 23, 2024, 02:36 PM
Jan 2024

I don’t know you or your family but are gonna share scar peeks @ get togethers?

mopinko

(71,869 posts)
4. i dont get together w my family often,
Tue Jan 23, 2024, 02:43 PM
Jan 2024

mostly funerals at this point. but prolly, yeah.
gross out the littles.

lapfog_1

(30,214 posts)
3. when I had my ablation surgery
Tue Jan 23, 2024, 02:39 PM
Jan 2024

with the probes inside my heart...

I drifted in and out while they were doing it. It looked so cool to see 5 catheters inside my heart.

I asked for a copy of the video but they said no... the jerks.

mopinko

(71,869 posts)
7. you'd think they have to give it to u if u rly want it.
Tue Jan 23, 2024, 02:47 PM
Jan 2024

maybe your primary can get it for you. i’d love that.

greatauntoftriplets

(176,901 posts)
6. A woman I once worked with had a melanoma.
Tue Jan 23, 2024, 02:47 PM
Jan 2024

Her surgeon took out a sizable chunk of her arm along with the melanoma itself. She lived for years afterwards and never had a recurrence.

Best of luck to you.

mopinko

(71,869 posts)
8. it's def a 'good cancer'
Tue Jan 23, 2024, 02:48 PM
Jan 2024

easy to keep track of, and can b treated w/o treating the whole body.
hopefully from now on we freeze them b4 they get anywhere.

bluescribbler

(2,261 posts)
21. It is not as bad as some other cancers, nor is it as bad as it was two decades ago,
Tue Jan 23, 2024, 05:19 PM
Jan 2024

But it's still a bad cancer to have. The specialist who treated Stephanie the last two years of her life, said that melanoma isn't one cancer, it isn't even one hundred diseases. It is a different disease in each patient. Melsuckanoma took her from us in 2009.

mopinko

(71,869 posts)
29. i'm still a bit stunned to say i have cancer.
Tue Jan 23, 2024, 05:50 PM
Jan 2024

i asked about my odds-
this 1 coming back, very, very low. that u will grow another? 90%.
bump/spot hunting will b a lifelong hobby.

barbtries

(29,863 posts)
18. i probably would.
Tue Jan 23, 2024, 04:55 PM
Jan 2024

i asked my doctor to show me my uterus (she said she would but didn't) and another to show me the lipoma he removed from my forehead (he did). I don't think either one had ever heard that request previously.

i told my urogynecologist when she asked me why that i wanted to thank it for serving my children and me well. it was a passage.

I have been treated to the post surgical photos of my niece after she had some fairly radical work done on her face to remove cancers. And now she is cancer-free as well, and I'm glad you are too.

mopinko

(71,869 posts)
23. i think they're used to giving ppl stones.
Tue Jan 23, 2024, 05:30 PM
Jan 2024

my ex had a near-emergency gall bladder removal after at least of mo of- nah, it’s just indigestion. he had several stones, and they gave him the biggest 1. size of a marble.
he didnt take his tonsils home, but they did show it to him.

barbtries

(29,863 posts)
31. lol
Tue Jan 23, 2024, 06:44 PM
Jan 2024

i didn't get to look at my kidney stones or my tonsils either. but the stones were sent to the mayo clinic for analysis, so there's that

multigraincracker

(34,126 posts)
20. Extra check up sound like the way to go.
Tue Jan 23, 2024, 05:08 PM
Jan 2024

I had a body scan and ended up with a dozen areas treated. Derm took off a bunch and then the surgeon got about 5 or 6.
For a week I looked like I had been in a war. All good, glad I got it done. She never said how often I need to do it. I’ll wait a few years.

mopinko

(71,869 posts)
22. i'm sure once a yr wd b the rec.
Tue Jan 23, 2024, 05:27 PM
Jan 2024

go get that looked at. i think yearly for anyone w any history is the min, esp if u have fair skin.
it’s the other irish curse.

multigraincracker

(34,126 posts)
25. That be me.
Tue Jan 23, 2024, 05:35 PM
Jan 2024

Toss in a little Scotch and English.

Might try a different dermatologist next time. Have to research all the local ones.

mopinko

(71,869 posts)
26. i had a dermo i loved who retired,
Tue Jan 23, 2024, 05:41 PM
Jan 2024

part of a big system, and so hard to get in. (had a crush on him. adorable little viennese guy w an orville redenbacher hairdo)
the system doesnt have very many ap nurses, which pisses me off. i’d much rather have a nurse. but i think they’re common in the big dermo practices. my follow up will b a nurse.
the only place i’ve had 1 in that system is they use them in their urgent care clinics. wish i had 1 for a pcp.

montanacowboy

(6,312 posts)
30. Had 2 Mohs Surgeries this Fall
Tue Jan 23, 2024, 05:57 PM
Jan 2024

One one they had to do a skin graft and other not so bad. Still scarred and very tender.

LiberalLoner

(10,189 posts)
33. May you remain cancer free all the rest of your days
Wed Jan 24, 2024, 07:13 AM
Jan 2024

And may your surgical site heal quickly and well.

mopinko

(71,869 posts)
34. it's good so far. almost 24 hrs
Wed Jan 24, 2024, 08:02 AM
Jan 2024

and just a little bit of soreness. way better than expected.
i havent even been icing it like i shd. some, but not as much as i cd. bandaged up, so i cant see, but i dont feel any swelling.

it sure was a strange sensation, the cutting and the way she laced it together like a thanksgiving turkey.
maybe next time i ask for a valium.

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