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kozar

(2,903 posts)
Sat Apr 1, 2023, 08:35 PM Apr 2023

Hi. I need to post this ,

LilBit and I are home . I posted last Thursday, I’m dying, I calledI911passedout. They came here , but wouldn’t take LilBit. I fought, they took her.

Seems I had a stroke, all you Dur’s , we are home, I’m ok mentally ok, but physically , the stroke hit me. I lost a lot of physical strength it seems.
And my mind is, if I can’t pick her up, I can’t care for herTotally anymore, LilBit needs to be in state care..
we just gonna sleep till.Monday,
Then I gotta do Me, LilBit will be in supported living.

Koz

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lostnfound

(16,671 posts)
2. We care. Hoping for your peace of mind.
Sat Apr 1, 2023, 08:50 PM
Apr 2023

Just wanted to let you know we hear your pain and hope it gets better.

Today I sat by a pond and a breeze was blowing.
I told my companion, if you only had just ten minutes of life, in an empty universe, and this breeze blowing on the pond was the only thing in the universe you could see for that ten minutes, it would still be such indescribable beauty.

I hope you find some lovely breezes blowing, and a woodpecker in a tree, and a new flower that catches your fancy.

IbogaProject

(3,686 posts)
4. So sorry
Sat Apr 1, 2023, 09:12 PM
Apr 2023

Whew that post seemed out of character for you. Try to get some rehabilitation to see what you can recover and to restore what movement you can.

LoisB

(8,797 posts)
5. You have to do what you think is best. I do hope LilBit is placed in a "good" supported living
Sat Apr 1, 2023, 09:13 PM
Apr 2023

environment.

Karadeniz

(23,442 posts)
8. I want things to work out well for you and Lilbit. You've done so much for her all these years,
Sat Apr 1, 2023, 09:26 PM
Apr 2023

really heroic. Will she be placed where you can visit?

Warpy

(113,131 posts)
9. Well, you knew the day would come
Sat Apr 1, 2023, 09:37 PM
Apr 2023

but I'm sure you were hoping it wouldn't come this soon.

She might blossom in supported living, you never know. I've seen it happen, even when they want to go home because it's home. It takes a while for a new living situation to become any sort of home. It's actually better to do it while you can help her settle in instead of waiting until your own situation is in crisis and you can't.

These are early days after a small stroke. You will regain a lot of strength, but you'll likely get weaker as you get tired, something that will happen sooner than it used to.

Take care.

MLAA

(18,635 posts)
10. You have been her knight in shining armor always putting her first. It sounds like you taking
Sat Apr 1, 2023, 09:42 PM
Apr 2023

her to supported living is another example of you putting her welfare first. Sending hugs and healing thoughts for you both

3Hotdogs

(13,440 posts)
13. Its gotta hurt, knowing you did your best and it still doesn't work out the way you wanted.
Sat Apr 1, 2023, 10:35 PM
Apr 2023

Now, take care of yourself.


3H

 

BlackSkimmer

(51,308 posts)
18. If you had a stroke at the end of last week, you're going to need follow-up care.
Sun Apr 2, 2023, 08:16 AM
Apr 2023

I'm kind of surprised they released you from the hospital.

Please take care of yourself and Tess. Does Tess still have her support dog you posted about a few years back?

Nanuke

(565 posts)
19. You have endured so many burdens.
Sun Apr 2, 2023, 08:50 AM
Apr 2023

You have taken care of others so much. Now, take care of yourself. You can do it.

CaptainTruth

(7,251 posts)
20. You're both in our thoughts.
Sun Apr 2, 2023, 08:54 AM
Apr 2023

Don't ever give up hope, just take it one day at a time, & take care of yourself.

OldBaldy1701E

(6,415 posts)
21. I hope you can find help for both you and her.
Sun Apr 2, 2023, 05:36 PM
Apr 2023

Please know I am sending whatever vibes that I can to help. And, I promise I won't send any more of my songs!

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