I'm done

[kozar]

the whole world loves LilBit

I’m just the guy who took care of her



. And now I’m done, I know she is safe

[sprinkleeninow]

1. ...

🤍

[Polly Hennessey]

2. Kozar, you took care of someone.

That is all we need to know. 💕

[kozar]

4. Yea I did

And I know she is safe. This is about me

[marble falls]

3. You have my number. Use it.

[kozar]

6. Or you could call me

[Ocelot II]

5. Please take care of yourself. Ask for help if you need it.

[ItsjustMe]

7. .

[deRien]

8. my husband died

recently and the issue I have is: who am I without him? Friends always asked about how he was doing and occasionally, they would ask how I was doing. Maybe not having to take care of LilBit is leaving you with the same sense of not knowing who you are since your role has been as caregiver for so long. Do you think you can give yourself time to find out who you are now? From what I have read on DU, there are many who care about you, have followed your journey with LilBit and would truly grieve if something happened to you.

[Maraya1969]

9. That's a great point. Kozar your second act will be coming up. Maybe

you just need to rest for awhile. You do have friends and there is a reason you are here.

[whathehell]

10. Kozar, after my loved one died

I felt like you..i joined a grief support group and it helped..You.might want to check it out

[vercetti2021]

11. No you're not just a guy

You're a human! You're a loving and caring person. You're not done. There is still purpose for you

[Beastly Boy]

12. You did it for her, not for you.

years from now you will realize how right your decision was for her.

Now it's time to do something for you. Just because some people may turn away from you, doesn't mean you are alone. Where there is a will, there is a way. You have the will. Now go find your way. Your way. Not what people expect of you.

On edit: Lil Bit will miss you. Hug her the next time you visit.

[kozar]

13. Hugs were given. And we spent 2 hours here

KozandLilBit

[Beastly Boy]

14. Now THAT is something you did for yourself. A wonderful first step.

You have much to do, Koz, but you are on your way!

On edit: That little hand tells me a lot about why you love her so much