Narcissists have to destroy others.

[no_hypocrisy]

My sister has been my constant narcissist since age 2. We're talking 6+ decades.

I cut off all contact with her during the summer. No fights, no words. Just separation.

I now have discovered that she's been telling others that I have Alzheimer's.

That's what narcissists do: if they can't control you, they try to control what others think about you.

[rainy]

1. I'm in the same situation with my BPD sister.

She connived to turn my whole family against me, her one and only son and his wife.
It was pure hell and I didn’t know of her diagnoses until I crashed and burned from all the hate and pain swirling around the family. I’m much better now especially after the BPD was revealed. It explained a lot. Her poor son left her in elementary school because, his words, “she’s toxic.”

[OldBaldy1701E]

2. Typical of a narcissist.

You should wait until some other family member mentions it and reply, "Oh, you mean 'Little Miss Can't Be Wrong'? Yeah, she hates it when I won't let her be a control freak."

(I have always said that the first verse of the song is all that needed to be said. Schenkman could have done a three minute solo for the rest of the song.)

[elleng]

3. I am very sorry to hear that, and sympathize particularly

because my younger daughter (B) has somewhat similar problems with my older daughter (A,) both adults with young children.

It appears that A has had 'some' condition for her whole life, bipolarPLUS, I'll call it, so she and B have been estranged for MANY years. Fairly regularly (every 6 months or so,) 'something' triggers A, and she gets on my case. It just happened today, and I'm thinking about how to deal with it THIS time.

Later.

[I_UndergroundPanther]

4. I wish all the narcissists and sociopaths

Could be rounded up
Put on a rocket
Going right into the sun.

Life would be better without them.