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Related: About this forumAnyone get nervous driving to new places?
I have a second opinion appointment tomorrow with a dentist. Its not a close practice. I've never been there before. I've looked at Google maps and its entered in the phone. But driving far distances when I'm not sure where I'm going makes me anxious. Hoping for a more positive even a little, 2nd opinion
a kennedy
(31,960 posts)XanaDUer2
(13,660 posts)SarahD
(1,732 posts)Google maps or GPS helps a great deal, but the last two or three blocks can be tense
Then there is parking...
XanaDUer2
(13,660 posts)Nittersing
(6,833 posts)It's one thing to have a map and another thing to have some landmarks you can identify.
I always look at the street view and "drive" the entire route before I go.
(It's not always 100% accurate if the street views are old)
XanaDUer2
(13,660 posts)Fortunately, I've been part way down the road to it
50 Shades Of Blue
(10,887 posts)MLAA
(18,570 posts)worrying about being late!
You can do it!
XanaDUer2
(13,660 posts)Basic LA
(2,047 posts)After studying for and passing my driving written test (renewal) recently, I find that taking a little pride in my driving now seems to reduce the anxiety I otherwise would feel in traffic & new areas. Might be something to concentrate on rather than your anxiety.
XanaDUer2
(13,660 posts)RKP5637
(67,112 posts)skylucy
(3,848 posts)The dentist AND driving there (I've been to my dentist's office many times) would totally freak me out. I would have to take an Ativan.
DarthDem
(5,358 posts)There's the fear of being late. Driving it advance or even looking it up as many suggested should help. Good luck with the second opinion!!
XanaDUer2
(13,660 posts)But my copilot refused
DarthDem
(5,358 posts)How did it go after the rescheduling?
XanaDUer2
(13,660 posts)I've hired medical transport
DarthDem
(5,358 posts)I assume they know where they're going. Best wishes to you.
murielm99
(31,411 posts)multigraincracker
(33,957 posts)I try to move over and let those in a hurry pass me.
I pulled into a rest area last year and a younger guy came up to my window and asked if I knew what the speed limit is. I told him yes I do, do you know what the minimum speed limit is. He looked surprised and I told him I was driver 10 mph over that. If someone is in a hurry, my first thought is they should have left earlier.
Best of luck. Im betting youll be fine. let us know how it goes.
XanaDUer2
(13,660 posts)I just got this feeling of dread about going today without knowing exactly where it is. We'll be taking an exploratory trip in a few days
Mossfern
(3,072 posts)Thankfully, sometimes my husband will drive me the first time or I make a test run before. I leave a lot of extra time so that if I make a wrong turn I can correct and hopefully still be at my appointment on time.
I have panic /anxiety attacks.
I feel like it's the end of the world.
I've explored this with my therapist unsuccessfully.
And then again it's the anxiety that I will have anxiety.
Ugh!
I'm so glad that I found this sub forum and that I'm not alone!
XanaDUer2
(13,660 posts)Welcome! I've ordered a medical transport to take me.
I have PA, too