Am I nuts?

[XanaDUer2]

Last edited Tue Sep 10, 2024, 04:07 PM - Edit history (1)

I live with someone who forbids me from calling 911 when his 200-lb ass is on the floor. I can't lift him.

My insane sister fell the day and banged herself up and whose right side is according to her becoming paralyzed. She's on Medicare. She's out of money so can't go for treatment.

I must be crazy. When I go for care, I present my Medicare card and they bill me later. I'm surrounded by assholes. I mean some stupid mofos. I'm gonna let them kill themselves.

I've got a medical bill coming today for surgery.

ETA my 7000 plus bill was $8.02

[WhiteTara]

1. Don't try to lift him

If he refuses EMT care, you will have to leave him until he can get himself up. Yikes. Unless they take him to the hospital, it costs nothing for the help to lift him. This has happened so often to us that the EMTs know where they're going when they hear the first numbers of our address. Lol They are angels and kind. Sorry you are in such a pickle of life.

[XanaDUer2]

3. When he's high or drunk

I'm beyond disgusted. I refuse to lift him..he slipped in the shower and stuck bc he's obese. I said I'm calling and not paying. Fuck you.

Btw, my sister is buying expensive food and eating lobster shrimp quiche from scratch telling me I'm lazy bc i eat frozen meals. She's an asshole.

[WhiteTara]

5. give him a blanket and pillow

and leave him be. To lift him costs NOTHING. Ambulance to hospital costs, but you are billed first and then give insurance info and usually the cost is still nothing.

[XanaDUer2]

6. I think he's worried they'll take him and I'll

Change the locks. He was screaming once you want me outta here! And i said I do.

My latest response to I'm-cutting-the-money-off is do it we will be evicted in 30 days and goodbye

[WhiteTara]

7. Start looking for YOUR next place to live now

and then when you get evicted, move on and leave him to care for himself. The sister too. Change your number and block their calls.

[XanaDUer2]

8. I hate his guts after tons of verbal

And emotional abuse and other things. I'm only hete bc i can't afford to live on ssdi. He's 72

[WhiteTara]

9. Is it time for a

pillow over his face when he's passed out? No, really just a joke.

[XanaDUer2]

10. I try not to interact

The phone is perfect for that. I'm supposedly supposed to get 10 yrs of his pension which I'll need.

[WhiteTara]

12. when?

[XanaDUer2]

13. I interacted and we just had a fight

Not sure i understand what u mean by when but i try not to interact w him throughout the day

[XanaDUer2]

14. Oh! When he dies

He drinks n s smokes and misused RXes. He has barrett esophagus. He's a addict.

[WhiteTara]

16. his will be a terrible death

perhaps a pillow would be a mercy.

[Permanut]

2. No, but you may be in the Twilight Zone.

[XanaDUer2]

4. I know

They bill you after Medicare pays. So be paralyzed. You'll end up eating frozen meals since you won't be able to cook

[LoisB]

11. I'm going to go out on a limb here and say that it's not you is nuts. I do think you are getting mentally stronger

and it won't be too much longer before you remove yourself from all those toxic people.

[XanaDUer2]

15. Ty

I think he's gonna stroke out screaming at me

[LoisB]

19. When Muhammad Ali fought George Foreman in 1974, Ali let Foreman punch and punch and punch. By about the

6th round, Foreman could barely lift his arms - he had punched himself out. Ali knocked him out in the 8th round.

Eventually, he will scream himself out.

[XanaDUer2]

17. Only my sister would be eating

Expensive shellfish and claiming no money for serious health problems. I just got my $7000.00 bill I'm paying $8.02

[LoisB]

18. What a relief. What did they do for $7k?

[XanaDUer2]

20. Gallbladder removal

I did pay 500 facility fee. Still awaiting Hida Scan bill who knows what else

[LoisB]

21. Right. The gallbladder removal that doesn't seem to have helped. Are you still having the pain?

[XanaDUer2]

22. Today is a good day no pain

When stressed like a fight i get pain

[LoisB]

23. I'm glad you're not having pain today. Let's hope that continues tomorrow and the next day and on and on.

[XanaDUer2]

24. I hope so

I started to feel normal... got stressed, left- sided pain and groin pain started up. Today feel ok. Its weird..

[XanaDUer2]

25. She's in bed all day in agony

Still no movememt towards medical care. Again, you present Medicare card and you're billed later. I am in the twilight zone