They fkin released her from the Mental hospital!!! 😩

[FirstLight]

I only suspected something when the amazon and alexa started bugging...

She apparently has her phone and started changing passwords...
I opened her laptop and saw a venmo from a mutual friend at 6pm....
So I texted said friend and they said she was at a homeless shelter in Reno but planning on contacting the sheriff to come here to take "her" car. They sent her 25 for food.
Im now on high alert.
Called the sheriff and they won't do anything unless she shows up and violates the restraining order.

The car is now in the divorce paperwork, so she can get a lawyer and fight me. Bitch.

Im livid. And scared.
The only thing that makes me feel the slightest bit safe, is knowing there's 5 in of snow on the ground outside, so her getting up here from Reno is pretty far fetched. But I wouldn't put it past her to steal money or do something else nefarious to get a ride...

[LoisB]

1. Be safe.

[XanaDUer2]

3. Sounds manipulative

She can hitchhike? Good luck

[FirstLight]

4. slept in fits & starts since 330...to now, 830...

waiting for my lawyer to call,

The Sheriff will call me first if she wants a standby, I'll tell them she can call my lawyer since divorce is now in play.

I feel nauseaous and horrible...

Calling my friend to come help me put the bins in the4 garage, then she is not allowed to come in the house. I will park the car elsewhere if I have to...

I'll keep you all updated. send all the good juju for mprotection, etc..thanks

[Clouds Passing]

5. Wretched divorces suck.

I hope no children are involved. They always get the worst of it. The rage, the insane behavior, the vengeance gets old quick, it’s also exhausting. Sending you protection and healing light.

[FirstLight]

6. Both of us have grown kids, so no...

we were only together for about 4 years...

[Clouds Passing]

7. That is good.

Do you have help and emotional support from your children?

[FirstLight]

8. She drove them away, I got one outta 2 back...

So at least parts of the brokenness are coming back together...

[Clouds Passing]

9. Abusers push family and friends away. Patience and kindness will bring them back.

Gratitude you have one back!

[FirstLight]

10. yeah, she accused them of all the shit she was doing...like projection-mentality they do...

The second kid must have had an inkling cuz he messaged my olf school bestie to ask if I was ok. I got a little update...but he has some issues too and I'm not going to invite him back into my life/space until I am more stable.

The one who "came back" literally called me the second my bestie called them...they called and asked omg momma are you ok? I'm so glad to have them back !

[Clouds Passing]

11. Give yourself time to grieve the loss of the relationship, work on stability.

Seek good therapy. Gratitude check-ins frequently. Pat yourself on the back for surviving and waking up.

[FirstLight]

12. yes! got a really good one through my college..

and the women's center has trauma group every wed, I just got signed up.

Every day I am taking a piece of my SELF and my home back. I am not grieving, just angry... but that will come out in therapy

Thanks for the support, DU is my other home

[Clouds Passing]

13. PS