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mopinko

(71,713 posts)
Wed Jan 17, 2018, 09:10 PM Jan 2018

my son thinks he is a sovereign citizen.

le sigh.
he is in cook county jail. he got nabbed speeding in wis, and decided it was a good idea to try to outrun the cops.
he blew off his court dates, of course. i dont know how he got picked up, but presume he got caught pretending the traffic laws dont apply to him.

his public defender begged him to ask for extradition to wis, instead of going to cook county jail. but no.
he actually tried to play that shit in court. and his gf almost joined him in jail for yelling at the judge. (she paid his $1500 bail w money she couldnt really afford to lose.)

have no idea what is going to happen to him in jail. but sorta hoping he has a full on meltdown, and gets kicked to the psyche ward. i had to have him picked up twice just recently. the first time he got 72 hours, but the second time he was able to get out after a night in the er.
i just hope that he isnt traumatized by more than 30 days w no weed.

i always thought those people had real issues. now i know they do.

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my son thinks he is a sovereign citizen. (Original Post) mopinko Jan 2018 OP
Hug shenmue Jan 2018 #1
+1 MLAA Jan 2018 #2
thx mopinko Jan 2018 #10
thx honey. mopinko Jan 2018 #9
:) shenmue Jan 2018 #13
Im cilla4progress Jan 2018 #3
thx mopinko Jan 2018 #11
I'm so sorry MustLoveBeagles Jan 2018 #4
thx mopinko Jan 2018 #12
Very sorry, mop. elleng Jan 2018 #5
well how about that. mopinko Jan 2018 #16
Jail might be good for him. Tobin S. Jan 2018 #6
i sure hope so. mopinko Jan 2018 #8
The people who are running the Sovereign Citizen scam make $ TheDebbieDee Jan 2018 #7
well, he doesnt have any money, so hopefully that wont happen, but mopinko Jan 2018 #14
So sorry mopinko. It must be hard watching him fall apart. irisblue Jan 2018 #15
grueling. mopinko Jan 2018 #17
An old boyfriend ended up spending 3 months in jail BigmanPigman Jan 2018 #18
i can only hope. mopinko Jan 2018 #19
so sorry to hear this, mo steve2470 Jan 2018 #20
thanks steve mopinko Jan 2018 #21
It's like two extremes...my son embraced evangelicals..I'm an athiest angstlessk Feb 2018 #22
i agree. 2 sides of a coin. mopinko Feb 2018 #23
I feel you, mahina Feb 2018 #24

elleng

(135,848 posts)
5. Very sorry, mop.
Wed Jan 17, 2018, 09:20 PM
Jan 2018


P.S. Cook County jail was locale of my first job after college, as 'secretary' for 'Civil Legal Aid Service,' which no longer exists. I carried my portable typewriter to/from CCJ every day.

That job led me to my legal profession (as well as to helping those rounded up in Chicago during '68 Democratic Party Convention, when mayor daley created a police riot.)

Tobin S.

(10,420 posts)
6. Jail might be good for him.
Wed Jan 17, 2018, 09:30 PM
Jan 2018

Johnny Paycheck, a notorious outlaw country star, said a stint in jail saved his life. It made him dry out for a while and get his head straight.

It sounds like your son might use some psychiatric meds once he dries out. It might be more agreeable to him after he's sober for a bit and realizes how badly he's wrecking his life.

mopinko

(71,713 posts)
8. i sure hope so.
Wed Jan 17, 2018, 10:07 PM
Jan 2018

i actually have a ton of respect for the cook county sheriff. he tries very hard, works his rear off, and will do anything to bring some hope to those in his jail.
he is working to end the days of ccj being the biggest psyche ward in the country. maybe he will break down and accept some help.
they will be able to see his recent encounters. i kinda doubt they will do much for a short timer like him, but who knows what he is gonna do there.

 

TheDebbieDee

(11,119 posts)
7. The people who are running the Sovereign Citizen scam make $
Wed Jan 17, 2018, 09:31 PM
Jan 2018

off the believers every year by charging a subscription fee for access to access code numbers of their secret government bank accounts!

mopinko

(71,713 posts)
14. well, he doesnt have any money, so hopefully that wont happen, but
Wed Jan 17, 2018, 10:09 PM
Jan 2018

his gf does have a few bucks from a settlement on a car accident. i hope she doesnt piss it down that hole, or my son's black hole.

mopinko

(71,713 posts)
17. grueling.
Wed Jan 17, 2018, 10:34 PM
Jan 2018

some days i hate being a mom. they can pull so much shit on you, but they are still your kids.
doesnt mean i have to put up w it, and i dont. at least not for long. but shit. not sure which is harder- putting up w it, or putting your foot down. at least the sibs are on my side here.

BigmanPigman

(52,216 posts)
18. An old boyfriend ended up spending 3 months in jail
Wed Jan 17, 2018, 10:49 PM
Jan 2018

and it got him sober and clean. He went kicking, screaming and crying and practically destroyed his family. Over a year later he said he wished it had happened to him 10 years earlier and it is what he needed.

mopinko

(71,713 posts)
19. i can only hope.
Wed Jan 17, 2018, 10:51 PM
Jan 2018

unfortunately, his gf didnt go too. i think as soon as he gets out, they will start swirling around (the drain) together again.

angstlessk

(11,862 posts)
22. It's like two extremes...my son embraced evangelicals..I'm an athiest
Tue Feb 6, 2018, 10:24 AM
Feb 2018

We parted ways when my grandchildren said gay was a sin and they would go to hell...and I understood my family and I must part ways.

I am not gay, but have had gay encounters with friends who are gay...and no reason for them to go to hell!

Of course I do see the difference...your son's very life is in danger...very scary

mopinko

(71,713 posts)
23. i agree. 2 sides of a coin.
Tue Feb 6, 2018, 10:34 AM
Feb 2018

sigh. i dream of a day when mental illness is conquered and we can live in a rational world w/o either extreme bending the curve.

i am more worried for the child involved. flushing his own life is one thing, but making a little kid's childhood shit just keeps me up at night.

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