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Liberal In Texas

(14,497 posts)
Mon Aug 14, 2023, 11:09 AM Aug 2023

Lost a member of the family.

We just lost our Little Bear that we had for 13 years. He was my buddy and a sweet guy.


Little Bear

He had some medical problems and was overweight but he was getting around fine and was a happy dog. We lost his sister at the end of November and you could tell he missed her terribly.

Bear and sister

When he started frequent coughing I took him to the vet - several times - and finally we had x-rays done but nothing was ever for sure diagnosed. His heart and lungs look fine for a 13 year old. I had to practically beg the vet to get us some kind of cough medicine. The codeine syrup worked for the cough but he was still hyperventilating.

The x-rays were sent to a specialist and before we could get the results he passed away overnight.

We found out from the specialist that he had a collapsed trachea. I'd never heard of this before, but it can be a thing and apparently there is just almost nothing that can be done for it.


Awful quiet around here now that both dogs are gone.

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Lost a member of the family. (Original Post) Liberal In Texas Aug 2023 OP
My heart goes out to you dear Liberal in Texas. MLAA Aug 2023 #1
Thank you. Liberal In Texas Aug 2023 #14
I'm so sorry for your losses Diamond_Dog Aug 2023 #2
Thank you. Liberal In Texas Aug 2023 #15
So sorry. Losing a pet is always hard. Emile Aug 2023 #3
Thank you. Liberal In Texas Aug 2023 #16
I'm so sorry for your loss and that your vet didn't diagnose this fairly common sinkingfeeling Aug 2023 #4
Thank you. Liberal In Texas Aug 2023 #17
Oh, dear! Sad news indeed. He sure was a cutie !! Karadeniz Aug 2023 #5
Thank you. Liberal In Texas Aug 2023 #18
Oh dear I am so sorry. It is typical for a pet to die Maraya1969 Aug 2023 #6
Thank you. Liberal In Texas Aug 2023 #19
I'm so sorry. Little Bear looks like an adorable companion. I understand your pain - hugs to you. AnotherMother4Peace Aug 2023 #7
Thank you. Liberal In Texas Aug 2023 #20
I am so sorry for your loss LetMyPeopleVote Aug 2023 #8
Thank you. Liberal In Texas Aug 2023 #21
I am very sorry about Bear and his sister. They both look like real charmers. LoisB Aug 2023 #9
Thank you. Liberal In Texas Aug 2023 #22
I'm so sorry, Liberal Bayard Aug 2023 #10
Thank you. Liberal In Texas Aug 2023 #23
My heart goes out to you... slightlv Aug 2023 #11
Thank you. Liberal In Texas Aug 2023 #24
Condolences on your loss, Liberal In Texas gademocrat7 Aug 2023 #12
Thank you. Liberal In Texas Aug 2023 #25
What a lovely smile! shenmue Aug 2023 #13
Yes, he could sure smile! Liberal In Texas Aug 2023 #26
Lady of the Beasts, please take Your Little Bear gently home in Your loving arms, and niyad Aug 2023 #27

Diamond_Dog

(34,711 posts)
2. I'm so sorry for your losses
Mon Aug 14, 2023, 11:14 AM
Aug 2023

They are always such little day brighteners with their unconditional love. When they’re gone we sure do miss them.

sinkingfeeling

(53,000 posts)
4. I'm so sorry for your loss and that your vet didn't diagnose this fairly common
Mon Aug 14, 2023, 11:22 AM
Aug 2023

problem in a timely fashion.

Your friend did have a good life.

Liberal In Texas

(14,497 posts)
17. Thank you.
Mon Aug 14, 2023, 03:15 PM
Aug 2023

They told me surgery would be very risky for a dog this old. And that there was almost nobody in the whole state that did the surgery anymore because the outcome was so uncertain.

Maraya1969

(22,998 posts)
6. Oh dear I am so sorry. It is typical for a pet to die
Mon Aug 14, 2023, 11:40 AM
Aug 2023

soon after a close brother/sister relationship. I have 2 older dogs, (17) and I fear when the first one goes.

I sent my heartfelt wish for you to experience the Peace that passes understanding at this time.

AnotherMother4Peace

(4,701 posts)
7. I'm so sorry. Little Bear looks like an adorable companion. I understand your pain - hugs to you.
Mon Aug 14, 2023, 11:56 AM
Aug 2023

To lose both companions is tough. Be gentle with yourself, and remember that you all took care of each other, and made life better. Take Care, AM4P

Bayard

(24,145 posts)
10. I'm so sorry, Liberal
Mon Aug 14, 2023, 01:28 PM
Aug 2023

He looks like a sweet little fur kid. Just know he loved you, and you gave him and his sister a good life.

slightlv

(4,332 posts)
11. My heart goes out to you...
Mon Aug 14, 2023, 02:07 PM
Aug 2023

may you bask in the good times you had with both your sweet pups, and may that ease some of your grief now.

niyad

(119,950 posts)
27. Lady of the Beasts, please take Your Little Bear gently home in Your loving arms, and
Mon Aug 14, 2023, 07:43 PM
Aug 2023

send peace and comfort to his grieving loved ones.

I am so very sory for the loss of your precious boy. My heart grieves with you.

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